A few days ago, the mentor shared how he used to position others when selecting project leaders. One of the most basic points is that cooperation must have 100% trust, then personal characteristics, and finally the match between ability and position.
In fact, many people are embarrassed to speak when talking to others about interests, and it is difficult to have the courage to say no directly, and finally reluctantly cooperate with them. But even if we cooperate in this way, it will be difficult to go long-term in the end, and it is also difficult to make things bigger.
Yes, it is somewhat uncomfortable to say rejection, but in addition to understanding others from the other side's standpoint, you must also stand on your own standpoint to make trade-offs.
If a person is cooperating with you, but has a lot of concerns, it may be because he has old and young people and can’t let go, we don’t necessarily deny this person No, because when we stand from his perspective, we can fully understand his concerns and behavior.
But from our own standpoint, we must grasp our basic principle, which is the 100% trust principle. Only those who reach this level of trust can start a business together and have the courage to give him his back!
So I think the tutor used a sentence when summing up our life and saying no, it touched my heart: From the other side’s standpoint, I can understand him, but from my standpoint, I don’t Will cooperate with him.
And only when we have such a clear principle, we will make decisions without wavering!
We often do not accept when we should accept,There is no courage to say no when it is time to refuse, which is a typical manifestation of lack of decision-making ability.
So I think the views of others and self-stance shared by our tutor can help us improve our decision-making ability!
We understand others from the standpoint of others, and make decisions in line with our own principles from our own standpoint, so that we will not blindly deny others or let them I was kidnapped by morals and made a decision that was not good for me!
success is difficult to replicate because of insufficient persistence.
predawn attention Nightcrawler
with you through the dark to the time
text (original): Hope Walker
Picture: Network
Date: 9/29/2021
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