If my dad doesn’t gamble, this family is still good and my brother won’t die

"If my dad does not gamble, this family is still good, and my brother will not commit suicide or die." There is no if in life. When Li Xiuwen thinks of the painful days, she hates her father, but the person has passed away. Too much resentment is of no avail.

Li Xiuwen's father was born in a poor rural family in the late 1950s. There are 8 brothers and sisters in the family, and he is the eldest. Living in poverty, in order to share the burden of his parents, as the eldest, he went out to work for his family's livelihood when he was 14 or 15 years old, as a carpentry apprentice, very hardworking. After 6 years of learning, the technology is quite superb.

When I was 20, I returned to my hometown and worked as a carpenter. It was very popular to be a carpenter at that time. It coincided with the government's vigorous development of municipal engineering and construction. Her father was the deputy leader of the construction team. He did a lot of government projects and made a lot of money. By the time he was in his 40s, all government projects were basically completed, and he had nothing to do, and the money could not be spent all his life. Around 2000, I bought a lot of shops in villages and towns. There are three or four houses, and a villa. There are two or three cars in the house. Both sons and daughters are admitted to the public institution. They have no worries about food and clothing, and they are happy and perfect. Called a winner in life.

However, as soon as people have nothing to do, they panic and try to do something. Her father sees that they have won the gambling, so he learns to gamble and gambles on the Mark Six lottery, and slowly sinks into it. , I got deeper and deeper, and later I lost a lot of money. I ran out of money at home. I ran out of shops and houses. In the end, I owed more and more money. I asked my relatives to borrow money. At first, they still borrowed money from him. Don't dare to borrow, because the money has gone but not repaid. Her father had a bad temper and became more and more irritable. His family advised him not to gamble anymore. He often yelled back when he didn't agree with him. He couldn't communicate at all. He owed a lot of people outside and couldn't pay the debt. Not long after, her father passed away from a stroke. The whole process only lasted more than ten hours from when he was sent to the hospital to when the doctor announced his death.

Later, her father left too many debts. The father's debts were paid back. Her brother himself had and mild depression . In addition, he had to pay off the sky-high debts, so he was overwhelmed by life. I think I can’t pay it back, so I divorced his wife first.The child was taken care of by the wife, and then he took sleeping pills and burnt charcoal in the rented room to commit suicide. This ended his life. An originally happy family was destroyed like this, and the wives were scattered, which made people embarrassed.

The ups and downs of life are nothing more than this, a moment of beauty is not equal to a lifetime of beauty. When the scenery is beautiful, do more good deeds and accumulate virtue. There is so much money to donate to the children and people in need in the poor mountainous area. Accumulate more yin virtues, accompany your lover, bring your grandchildren, cultivate good hobbies, and spend your old age in peace instead of idleness. Live gambling, ten gambles and nine loses. There are some things that you can’t try. Once you try, you can’t look back. Don’t think it’s okay once or twice, just because this time or twice, you will get deeper and deeper. Don’t challenge your own demons and think you have the ability to control yourself.

One gambling destroys everything, is it rare for gambling to kill people? Gambling may not necessarily win, but if you don’t bet, you will definitely win. Often those greedy people want to win. The bigger the bet, the more they lose.

So I advise everyone not to touch it. If you are free, you can do interesting things, such as growing flowers, gathering three or five friends for tea and chatting, doing sports and climbing, making headlines today to read the news and scrutinizing Gonzos. People care about things and so on, the good times in life for decades will be better!