Women worship a man because of what he possesses? The core cornerstone of marriage stability

01

Men are lustful and women are strong. This is the eternal law in the relationship between the sexes and the source of attraction. As Zhang Ailing said: "A man's compassion for a woman may be close to love. A woman will never fall in love with a man she thinks is pitiful. A woman's love for a man must always be adored. ."

It seems that men choose women, but in fact, only women choose men. There are always eight words behind the choice: weigh the pros and cons, seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

You may ask, how does love count? How to say?

How does love come about? It is the strong psychological desire to be emotionally close to each other that is aroused by goodwill, and it is the beginning of love. Favor is not only attractive but also a kind of recognition, and behind the recognition, isn't there still value?

In fact, as long as you carefully study the two words "depend on" that women often use, the answer is self-evident. Key words: reliability, sense of security.

In addition, this is also a woman's main demand for affection and marriage. Then she has action and enthusiasm, and determines her resilience and persistence in the future.

Similarly in marriage, the key to long-term harmony is the wife’s worship of her husband.This kind of marriage, this kind of husband and wife relationship can be stable first and then last long. Conversely, when the wife begins to look down on her husband, the marriage will be in jeopardy.

because she will immediately become a group of irrational anger, only picky, dissatisfied and questioning her husband, and will no longer have the desire to approach her husband, just thinking about how to escape and stay away.

Since worship is mentioned, does a woman worship a man because of what he possesses?

02

I know a couple, and my friends all envy their husbands and wives, and the kind of tacit understanding that they will support each other, no matter what occasions they are , Support, affirmation and respect.

The wife has a special affirmation of her husband. At the same time, she worships and admires her husband from the bottom of his heart. There is a main reason for money.

This is not because the husband has money in his family. On the contrary, the two of them have ordinary families, and the life after the wedding is extremely difficult. But based on these three points, the husband is willing to use his brains, endure hardships, and be self-motivated.

In fact, my wife has said on many occasions, I never dared to live the way I am now, just like dreaming. With the hard days when I first got married, I really thought that my whole life would be just like this. Can't get out of the mud nest.

and the husband has never been helped by anyone,This also makes the wife feel that the future is more promising.

may be different from person to person. The wife feels that the husband has gone up to now by his own abilities, and he is already very powerful and satisfied, but there may be people who don’t like his achievements. Of course There will be no admiration.

On the basis of actual value, there is another reason for the wife to worship her husband. The husband is not confused.

Yes, I can’t say how smart and smart the husband is, at least he is not confused. No matter what happens, the husband has his own thoughts, judgments, and opinions. He seldom gets confused by the appearance of a thing. When analyzing everything, he always starts from the root and the essence.

So gradually her husband has become her backbone. No matter what happens, she is used to asking her husband's opinion first and listening to her husband's thoughts. In addition, her husband also taught her a lot of people's love for the world, and he is a man who can support her and lead her to grow up.

As for the last reason, it is because of the responsibility of the husband.

will not evade its own responsibilities, nor will it evade its own problems, dare to act, can afford to let go, and can withstand failure. Unlike many men who have experienced a little bit of setbacks, failures and changes, and have never recovered since then, 's husband knows how to summarize and review, and he never lacks the courage to come back.

is the same for families,Although there are many shortcomings, although I am also very playful, as long as the family needs it, immediately put the family first.

So these are the reasons why the wife admires her husband. In fact, two people will quarrel, but after the quarrel, is still the one who deserves her to say "I do" again and again.

03

The admiration of a woman to a man is the core cornerstone of marriage stability. Only in this way can she be willing to approach him and appreciate him most. , She can show her weakness and attract men to pity and protect, which is a very important point in any relationship between the sexes.

In fact, we are all chasing the direction of hope, because we can see hope, no matter how hard it is, we are willing to persevere. Hope also fills us with a firmness deep in our hearts and we will definitely get better.

can also be regarded as a reminder to a man, to know how to start from oneself, not based on real value, no matter how good you are to her, it is useless, because you don't pay attention to it.

You must know that all the worship and admiration are not what you ask for, but you are attracted by your own strength, ability and value. When you can occupy a unique position in her spiritual world, she will naturally give and be responsible for you willingly.

There is a profound sentence in " siege ",Say:

"Women are the most difficult to control after reading a few sentences. Men must be one level higher than her, and they cannot be matched equally with her."

This control is not control, but more spiritual. A kind of dependency, a kind of dependency that needs to be formed. So in a sense, a woman's worship of a man is often because he can lead himself to grow, or make himself transformed through his support.

Of course, this transformation is not a stride of social class, what fame, wealth and material, the true inner and spiritual pursuit. After all, true worship comes from a special kind of spiritual recognition, a pillar, a belief, and an appreciation.

--END--

.