See if this is your real life pursuit

In-depth examination and in-depth analysis.

Since having a certain foundation of thinking, human beings often think about where they come, where they go, what they want, and so on. To start thinking in this way, many people have more or less certain ideas in their minds, but these ideas are often not stable for a long time and are often changed by changes in the surrounding environment. The main reason is that these ideas often do not go deep into the essence, so here is the essence of life pursuit for reference and discussion.

Several mainstream ideas

1. Money and wealth. In the current society, with the advancement and development of science and technology, the abundance of material has surpassed any previous historical era. When you have money, you can satisfy the accompanying material desires, and you can enjoy the diverse material world. Of course, the world of human relationships is indispensable for money. Using money to satisfy the desires of others will undoubtedly receive help and feedback from others to a greater extent. Therefore, throughout the ages, more people are more willing to regard having a lot of money as their life pursuit.

2. Romantic love. Starting from the most primitive human nature for sublimation, sweet romantic love is carved into the bones of most people. With the companionship of the family, there is less loneliness on the journey of life, and a lot of laughter and laughter. What's more, they can give up a lot in order to pursue love. Romantic love always holds a unique place in their hearts.

3. Dream goals. When I was young, I made a wish and dream, determined to become a talent, determined to be engaged in a certain industry field and made a career, determined to explore the mysteries of the world or even the exciting beauty. Even for practical reasons, many people failed to do what they wanted, but the feelings in their hearts are hard to erase.

The Essence of Life Pursuit

After looking at several major mainstream ideas, it is still difficult to find any major correlations. I think it is just a different pursuit of life. Of course, from a broader perspective, there is nothing wrong with this statement.But what we are discussing together today is a deeper and more essential view. In my opinion, in fact, what we pursue in our whole life is nothing but inner peace. And whether it is from a long-term or short-term perspective, this view is more suitable for our reality, but most people tend to overlook or fail to clearly realize this point.

Among them, resolving or transferring anxiety is the way we often obtain inner peace. Even without pre-recognition, we still potentially practice this essential demand.

For example, some people devote themselves to their studies and work day and night, perhaps to pursue their dream goals, or just to avoid new anxiety through thinking, or to control a certain financial power_ span2span in order to solve the things that make oneself anxious, so as to maintain a peaceful state; in addition, nostalgia in the beautiful love, with the company of others, and less loneliness. Because it’s worth mentioning that people are more likely to have all kinds of thinking when they are alone, they are often immersed in thinking, and often restless after thinking for a while (after all, most of them are unintelligible. ); Furthermore, after accumulating a large number of thinking products, in order to solve the inner confusion, to explore the nature of the world, and become a scientific researcher that most of us admire, they also need a kind of peace.

Expanded communication

It is very important to calm one’s mind. When the heart is peaceful, it is easier to feel happiness. On the contrary, if you are restless, it will become very dangerous. If you think about it carefully, you will find that those who commit suicide and go crazy are often the ones who cannot handle the extreme inner anxiety during a certain period of time, and eventually lead to tragedies. Of course, there are also many negative and negative things that are produced in this way. You can combine your own life experience to think about whether each of our pursuits fits this principle, and discuss and discuss together in the message area.

Combine work and rest. In the busy social life, learn to relax body and mind, feel the beauty of life, return to the peace of mind, and get that comfortable feeling.