Why does she have to stay at home to take care of the family, so I have to work outside to support the family? Because of the problem of the job;
Why do you need her to take care of the children at home, wash and cook instead of me? Because of the division of labor;
Why do I do carpentry at home, do small crafts, flowers, fish, turtles, etc., from start to finish, I do it by myself, and finally clean up by myself, instead of cleaning up the aftermath? Because, in my opinion, that is my hobby, not her job. There are so many interests, why should she clean up for you. She is already very hard, too lazy and don't want to deal with the aftermath, so don't toss about, dream, and interest.
Why does the child grow up, live in school, or work, so she can find a job by herself or be busy with my career? Because, at that time, she didn't need to take care of her, and she was unemployed. I was responsible for finding a new job for her, as long as she liked it and was willing.
Why did she do well in her career, even better than me, and still have face outside? There is no way, because her job ability is better than mine, but I also work very hard.
Later, if I become inferior and feel that I lose face when I go out, it means that I am not confident in my job and I have not taken up my position properly. There is no right mentality.
So, she is already so good, why, the predecessors still look at my face, the basic men have the final say, save me face? Because that is also her job. If her husband loses face or even regresses because of her pride, her job is not doing well.
Why do men want to be the head of the family, and why do women want to be the woman behind the successful man, but not the woman in front of the successful man?
I need to look through Chinese history and find out the reason...I have no solution for the time being, maybe, this is just what I can't explain...
So, is the woman behind a man low in status and lack of dignity? Can't men and women be equal? I don't think that can be said.
Maybe, there is no equality between men and women, in terms of people,Are there absolute equality? What's more, it is a couple who love each other and never leave. What equality and fairness are needed. Between husband and wife, they sacrifice for each other and pay for each other. Anyone can forgive anyone, and anyone can complain, lament, joy, joy, and joy. Happiness...Five flavors are mixed, is there equality? Do you have to separate the rich soup? Just pass it carelessly...
Today he is happy, she is unhappy; tomorrow she is reasonable, he is unreasonable; the day after tomorrow he is impulsive, she regrets; the day after tomorrow, she is gaffe, he understands. What is this, this is life, this is life, these are common language and common affairs, there is nothing wrong with it, because it is just a matter of post work, as long as no betrayal is involved, no one will be fired.
What do you want to say, you still want to get married, you still have to divide the labor, you still have to do what you need to do, and you still have to get used to it.
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