If the love between two people becomes "single fight", this kind of beauty will become a kind of torture. The person who has been working hard will be very tired and disappointed, and finally the flame of love will be completely extinguished.
If you really love someone, you don’t care about it. Once a person does not love someone wisely, he will fight for himself. Sprint again and again, using the opponent as a fortress to conquer.
Wait until disappointment and despair before regaining sanity. You will understand that you can't wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can't let a person who doesn't love you bring you happiness and joy. Love requires the other person to react, not hurt again and again. The other party refuses time and time again, but in fact it just doesn't care or like it. Even if it's a test, I really love you, but I don't want to be so embarrassed.
Plato said: Self-control is a kind of order, a kind of control over happiness and desire.
Being a human being, when loving others, we must learn to love ourselves. Don’t give too much affection, don’t let loving someone become a lifelong obsession. Some people are not worthy of love and don’t try their best to touch each other.It's about self-cultivation. Restrain one's own desires and complete self-restraint.
Knowing that the other party and oneself are not in the same rhythm, knowing that you are pursuing each other, even if you embrace the beauty and get her, the person who gets her may not really get her heart. can recognize the facts and stop losses in time to save their painful life.
Only if you want to see, let go, don’t let yourself be humbled, and don’t feel wronged, can you come out of the pain, find your own life, have a better state, and meet the right people .
Yi Teng deeply loves Lanzhi, and it is very hard to follow the road of love. When his heart was full of scars, he chose to give up. Even if the other party wanted to enter into marriage with him, he never looked back. Starting over, I found that I was just a "let down" with happiness.
If you want to be with me, you have to stand the test.
Yi Teng likes Lange. After being friends with Lange for a long time, he muster the courage to confess. Laneige smiled and said to him: " you have no money, no good job, no car, no house, what do you take to love me? ”
said Especially right,To love someone is to be proved by action, not simply by talking. So he worked very hard and didn't dare to relax in his spare time, either doing part-time work or learning new skills. After a while, he used all his savings to open an auto repair shop, and slowly the business got better and better.
Lange just fell out of love, so she asked Yi Teng to talk about her sadness. Yi Teng brought up the old story again. He said: " I now have a business of my own, and I plan to buy a car and a house. I really want to be with you. I will give you a home. Let’s live a good life. ”
Lanzhi just hugged Yi Teng and said to him:" I know you are a good person, but you are far from what I asked for. I took it. The home I want is not something you can afford. ”
I was very disappointed again and again. He was drinking in the auto repair shop alone, and a little girl who worked very hard in the shop. She has a mediocre family background and does not have a high degree of education. I used to be ignorant and made my parents sad, but now I just want to earn some money steadily and watch my parents live a good life.
two people,I often drink quietly and watch quietly. Yi Teng knew that the little girl was on her mind, and the eyes she looked at him became hotter every time, but what he loved was not such an ordinary little girl.
Lange is very special, charming but not dusty. Particularly stubborn, but his voice is soft. Such a woman makes people unable to extricate themselves. Later, the scale of auto repair shops became larger and larger, and Yi Teng often confessed to Laneige seriously and improperly, but never once was successful.
Lange also has many suitors around her, and her boyfriend has changed again. There are blond and blue-eyed foreigners, successful entrepreneurs, and rich second generations, each of whom is handsomer and richer than him. In Laneige's eyes, there was never his place. Even if I find him occasionally, talk to him, eat and eat, it is just to find a sense of accomplishment in him being pursued.
Give up the chase and turn around to meet true love.
Yi Teng has done a good job in the past few years. When Lanzhi accidentally saw Yi Teng's auto repair shop is already so large, she became tempted. A man who loves himself wholeheartedly should be better "mastered" even if he looks a little worse and has less money.Thinking of this, she shook. Those rich men are not always willing to spend money on her, if Yi Teng can, she decides to marry him.
So, she said to Yi Teng: " has rejected you 7 times. Congratulations on your passing the test and prepare to marry me . Yi Teng knew in his heart that Laneige needed better material conditions and money. It's not that he can't get 600,000, but his heart has been placed elsewhere, and he doesn't want to marry the goddess who married for money.
The seemingly ordinary girl in the shop, her father is ill, she took a leave of absence, and devoted herself to taking care of her father. I didn't have money to pay for medical expenses, so I borrowed it from relatives and friends. He took out 50,000 yuan, and the little girl was very moved and called an IOU on the spot. Yi Teng said: "No, I believe you." The girl still wrote it stubbornly and stuffed it into his hand.
He had visited the girl's father. In the hospital, the girl took good care of his father's appearance, which made him feel different. This is what a family looks like. It is the warmth of family, which makes him feel the smell of fireworks.
He has a different view of this little girl,The feelings between the two people are getting more and more subtle. Later, the two people confirmed their relationship, and the little girl insisted on waiting for the money to be paid off before discussing marriage. This made Yi Teng more determined to marry her. After coaxing and deceiving, the two got a marriage certificate.
Thinking of this, it seems that her blushing face appeared before her eyes again. He recovered and said to Laneige: " I am married. that girl is very good, I like her very much, and she loves me very much". Laneige was a little angry, saying that Yi Teng's feelings for her turned out to be fake, and that men are big liars.
Yi Teng said: " I did not lie to you, I have given all my enthusiasm, how did you treat me. If there is a better choice than me, will you come back and find me to marry? ? If I don’t give you 600,000, will you marry? ”
Lanzhi couldn’t speak, so she hung up the phone, and the relationship between the two people ended completely. .
The shy girl named Caiyu, after marrying Yi Teng, became the proprietress of an auto repair shop. She took care of Yi Teng very carefully, and the two of them were in the auto repair shop,One person drinks alcohol, and the other person secretly hides the bottle after the other party drinks two or three small glasses. Someone would beg softly, drink a little bit more, and say no with a firm tone.
The days passed flatly, and slowly there were laughter and laughter from the children, the busy figure of the elderly taking care of the children, and the two couples who depended on each other.
What is marriage?
If it is because of finding a home for oneself, or if you feel that marrying is a ladder for you to live a good life, then this kind of thinking will not lead a good life.
Women get married because of love, because two people can face problems together. has the same values and likes a stable and quiet life. Love is not a hothead, nor is it the obsession of looking up at each other. Maybe marrying the "goddess" will be happy for a while, because finally what you want is achieved.
But when she is living, she wants a luxury car and a bigger house. With her, men will become more and more tired. clearly has a home,Will feel still lonely. The pressure is increasing, but there is nowhere to vent it. I can't feel the warmth of my wife, and some are disgusted and impatient.
A woman loves money, and she smiles only when she buys her a valuable gift or gives her a larger bill. If a man needs care and encounters an economic crisis, a woman may run away in a panic.
Falling in love with a woman who doesn't love herself cannot satisfy her desire. No matter how much money is given to her, do not love or not love. It's better to look back in time and give yourself a new opportunity. You will find that you will meet too many people in your life, and there will always be a true love for yourself. At that time, there will be a real desire to get married and will be closer to happiness.
Today's topic:
Will you marry a woman who is heavy material?
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