A man treats you like this, not like you, but treats you as his lover in this life

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In love, women's minds are mostly delicate and subtle, and they will not be too straightforward about love, but cautiously tentative.

In fact, many men feel uneasy when facing the woman they are beloved of.

Everyone knows that love starts with showing your heart, confession may be lucky to get love, but it is also possible to lose friendship, so some people would rather hide their love than confess easily, lest the two of them The relationship is alienated.

knows there is a question: "How painful is it to love someone as a friend?"

: "More people who love you " The opportunity to get along will surely be extremely happy and content, but the loss and pain that follow will be doubled. You can talk to him as a friend, but you can’t spend your life with him as a lover."

In a relationship between the sexes, men do not have any pain when they like someone. They only need to express their emotions unilaterally. When they truly fall in love with someone, they will have many concerns in their hearts.

so that my heart will be uneasy, and my emotions will be affected by the woman's every move.

In relationships, many women cannot tell whether a man likes them for a while or a determined love, fearing that they will give them wholeheartedly.In the end, the whole body was wounded, deeply distressed for love.

In fact, men have completely different attitudes towards "like" and "love". If you find a man treats you this way, maybe he has already regarded you as a lover.

1: Refusing to be ambiguous with other opposite sex, always staying with you

People can like many people in this life, but only one person can be loved.

Schiller once said: "True love is specific. The field of love is very narrow. It can only accommodate two people. If you fall in love with several people at the same time, it cannot be called Making love is just an emotional game."

In an intimate relationship, a man may not be able to be by your side all the time, but if he is always vigilant and getting along with other opposite sexes, Refusing to be ambiguous with other people must have put you in your heart.

Many girls in love do not know how to distinguish the true heart of a man. It is obvious that boyfriends chat with other opposite sexes, and women are jealous and questioning. On the contrary, they will be accused by men of being sensitive and suspicious and failing to give themselves trust.

The trust of love also needs to be managed. If a man truly loves someone, he will not be ambiguous with other opposite sex, but will use practical actions to give his partner a sense of security.

Naturally, women will trust the character of men very much, and will not quarrel with men easily, thus consuming each other's love.

Two: Put your will first, even if you will wrong yourself

Zhao Lusi starring in the TV series " is accidentally span6" _span6 Sweet love drama,Compared with the sweet love between her and Ling Yue, the desire for emotional development of the other two people in the play is extremely bumpy.

Gu Xiner has liked Ling Yue since she was a child. In order to be closer to each other's lives, she would not hesitate to use Ling Yue's younger brother Ling Sheng to increase the chance of contact with each other.

Ling Sheng has always been infatuated with Gu Xiner. Even if she knows that the person she likes is not herself, she always takes care of each other as a friend, looking forward to her seeing her own good one day.

Ling Sheng's love for Gu Xin'er is like a spring breeze. He will actively seek to show his favor, but he will not disturb her life. He will wait for her to leave work every time, and then carefully ask the other party if he has time to attend the appointment.

Once, Gu Xiner finally agreed to go to a concert with him, but she accidentally learned that Ling Sheng was going camping, so she did not ask Ling Sheng’s opinion, so she suggested that everyone go together. camping.

Although Ling Sheng felt uncomfortable, he still followed her wishes and gave up the solo date she had been waiting for for a long time.

If you truly fall in love with someone, you may not pursue it blatantly, but you will carefully understand the other person's mind, and even if you feel wronged, you will always put the other person first.

Han Han once said: "Like it will be unrestrained, but love is restraint."

Like, although it hides the passion of the original heart, it is easy to burn the other party. Love may not have a vigorous sense of ceremony, but there must be care hidden in the details, so that the other party can feel the love like a spring breeze.

When a man likes a woman, he may give him romance in his own way, but when he truly falls in love with a woman, he will show his heart in the way he likes.

3: I know how to love you and always appear in front of you in a protective manner

Xu Qian’s boyfriend is a gentle and elegant person, and we never feel embarrassed when we get along , There was no quarrel during the relationship, and it was as plain as a couple who had been married for many years.

Xu Qian originally thought that the essence of love is plain, until one day she stayed up late and worked overtime to go home. It was already pouring rain outside and it was difficult to even get a taxi.

Xu Qian was distressed about how to go back, and a colleague on the side reminded her: "You call your boyfriend to pick you up."

Xu Qian replied embarrassedly: "Will this trouble him too much." "

colleague said in surprise: "Isn't boyfriend just for trouble? It is not safe for girls to come home so late, and it is strange that your boyfriend is not worried."

Xu Qian sent a message to her boyfriend and hoped that he would come and pick him up home. The boyfriend still said softly: "I have gone home. The rain is so heavy and it is not convenient to travel. Please take a taxi and come back by yourself."

boyfriend Xu Qian's tone was clearly as gentle as ever, but Xu Qian felt chilled.

She reminisces about the time when the two fell in love, and her boyfriend never seemed to be kind to her in unison.

boyfriend will tenderly promise to make a lifetime meal for himself,But whenever he wanted to try his cooking skills in advance, he would always refuse it under the pretext of being busy at work; he would remind himself to keep warm and take medicine obediently, and he never bought himself a piece of clothing to keep himself warm. , And never went to the hospital with myself once.

Loving a person is not just talking about it. It is only when you really love a person and protect the other person from harm.

To love someone is actually to feel bad for someone. This can’t be pretended anyway. If someone says that he loves you but never feels bad for you, it’s not true love.

If you love, please love deeply; if you do not love, don't deceive others' sincerity under the guise of love.

I hope that we can all meet lovers who treat each other sincerely, and manage each other's love with the most enthusiastic attitude.

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