Many times, people just miss one sentence, forget it

Li Xueqin talked about why he gave up his studies in New York and chose to return to China when he participated in a talk show.

Because she didn't want to be engulfed, she had to go back and forth, the depressed environment and lifestyle, she finally chose to return to China.

She said that she was too tired and wanted to lie down, and then said:

"Most of the time in life, it may be a short sentence. It is better to let go."

This reminds me of a saying my mother often said:

"How can the five fingers be the same."

Everyone is born with different aptitudes and talents, and they have to compete together, and finally take themselves. The tricks were completely different, and some people even set foot on the road to ruin.

Let go when you should let go. It’s not cowardice. Maybe this time it’s a failure. God is telling you that you are on the wrong path. You can just change the road. There is no way to go, and no effort is wasted. Is affecting your life.

The choice is not right or wrong, only I am willing

Remember that in the TV series "", Nanli originally didn't want her child to roll , but because she was frustrated at work, she felt all Things were rushing in, so she also joined the army of children's involution.

In fact, in this army, her inner world is instinctively resisting, but the external force is too big, so big that we can't resist, so we can understand our own heart soberly.

In the end, the gains outweighed the losses.

Today’s postgraduate entrance examination has been growing in wave after wave,Because of the pressure of work and the rapid progress of the times, we have to choose to speed up and keep up. The facts have proved that it is a knockout match. Only a small number of people can stand out, and most of them will be eliminated. There is nothing wrong with learning.

Not everyone is born extraordinary, we only have to realize that doing something is done for the sake of doing it, like loving someone just for the sake of love, in fact, is the real beginning of life.

People must know what they are not suitable for

When they were young, teachers often instilled the idea that people should have dreams and dreams of becoming thinkers and scientists. These are all dreams.

On the journey of growing up, I gradually discovered that scientists are dreams, but they can't be realized at all, but they still love science.

Huang Lei once said:

"A person must learn two things throughout his life. First, you must study yourself and what you like. Second, you must study yourself, although Like but can’t do. You can’t just study what you like and do, but don’t study what you can’t do. Don’t do what you can’t do. Don’t do it if it’s not suitable for you.

I also liked it when I was a kid Mathematics, physics and chemistry, I am also very good in mathematics, physics and chemistry. I especially want to become a physicist now, but it is not possible. Because there is no way to train your thinking mode that you formed first.

I seem to have done it There are many things, but what I actually do are all things in a system. I am doing exploration in a large range that I am familiar with and understand. Then what I have developed is not the many things that I seem to do like that. What I have developed is actually one thing called artistic thinking."

Like and fit are two different things.Like it does not mean it suits you. Some people are born with perceptual thinking, while others are rational thinking. You can't let a scientist study love all day long, and you can't let a writer study Lixue.

Taiwanese writer Qi Bangyuan , she chose philosophy as a major when she was in college. In fact, her English level is very good, but she thinks that her father can learn philosophy, why not.

Later, Mr. Zhu Guangqian saw her English grades and told her that she was too sentimental, uncomfortable and philosophical, and it was better to choose foreign language literature.

Later, under repeated consideration, Mr. Qi Bangyuan finally followed Mr. Zhu Guangqian to study foreign language cultural relics. The facts proved that she was really suitable for this path and worked hard for the development of literature all her life.

There is no teacher like Mr. Zhu Guangqian, but I have to realize my own shortcomings and strengths, which are not suitable for my own path. Apart from pain, there is no surprise at all.

Accepting the ordinary does not mean mediocrity.

Heroes and kings are always just a few. Ordinary lives, ordinary families, and ordinary lives are the norm in the world.

There is a sentence in " Wukong Biography":

"When everyone was born, he thought that the world existed for him alone. When he found out that he was wrong, he began to grow. Big."

Can you accept that you are a mediocre person?

Why not? At the end of the competition, I was exhausted and there was nothing.

In the ordinary people's world, there will be no rewards if you don’t pay, but sometimes, you don’t have to pay back.

The TV series " vulgar girl " has attracted much attention since its inception,I probably found out that you and I are both in the play, without exception.

Painful days are like sponges, and they are gone when exposed to the sun

In the comparison and the internal scrolls, there is no one who is spared, and finally pushes himself into depression.

In many cases, it is actually self-esteem. It is probably the pursuit of ordinary people in a lifetime. That is:

spends most of a lifetime to maintain the dignity that does not exist.

Letting go of these will be very painful, painful to self-blame, in fact, painful days are like sponges, when they are exposed to the sun and the wind blows, they will dry up. There is no bad life, only wish or not Willing to face reality.

May everyone let go of the obsessions that do not belong to them, find what they love, find where they belong, and feel at ease.

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