When I was in my hometown during the Spring Festival last year, I sat down and chatted with some elders in the village for a long time. I heard a lot of interesting things from them. What impressed me the most was that a girl in our village bought a house for her aunt in the urban area, and her biological parents and two younger brothers still live in a house that has not been repaired for many years!
This incident has to start in 1998. There is a girl in our village named Xiao Yue. After she was admitted to college, she broke off contact with her biological parents!
I learned from some elders that Xiao Yue's growth process was very bumpy, and his parents and grandparents were very partial to his younger brother!
Xiao Yue's parents gave birth to three children, a daughter and two sons. Xiao Yue, as an older sister, has been responsible for the important task of taking care of his younger brother when his parents were out.
Although Xiao Yue is very sensible and obedient, his parents are always partial to the two younger brothers, and so are her grandparents. Sometimes parents bought some food, and they would wait until Xiao Yue was not at home before taking it out.
Actually, Xiao Yue didn't know it, but Xiao Yue felt that saying these things would only embarrass himself and his parents? Nothing can be changed at all.
And grandparents are even more so. Every time they come to Xiao Yue’s house, they bring some snacks, but they rarely give them to Xiao Yue. They usually put them in a special cabinet, waiting for the two grandchildren to think When eating, grandparents took it out.
From the fifth grade of Xiaoyue Primary School, parents have become more and more obvious. The two younger brothers of Xiaoyue can drink a few mouthfuls of milk every morning, but Xiaoyue, who is responsible for making fire and cooking, has everything No, at most I was praised by my parents for being sensible.
Sometimes parents treat time differently,When they see that Xiao Yue's face is wrong, they will tell Xiao Yue that you are an older sister, so you should ask your younger brother to do so.
Sometimes parents will tell Xiao Yue that when they are old, you will be responsible for taking care of your younger brother, just like when you were a child.
As Xiao Yue grew up, her aunt gave her a lot of help!
Since the third year of junior high, her parents have been talking about letting Xiao Yue go out to work, but Xiao Yue insisted on studying, and she told her parents that she would be admitted to university.
Even though Xiao Yue has been among the best in her grades since she was a child, her parents still hope that she can go out to work, because in the eyes of Xiao Yue’s parents, it is enough to marry a good family in the future. You don’t have to go to school all the time. It is more important to help the family reduce stress first. .
When Xiao Yue was in high school, his second brother was already in the first year of middle school, and the youngest brother was already in the fifth grade. At this time, her parents hope that she can understand the difficulties of the family and take the initiative to go out to work and earn money. The family really cannot afford three people to study at the same time.
Xiao Yue did not understand why her parents had to let her drop out of school. Her grades were much better than those of her two younger brothers, so her parents had to let her drop out of school. After hearing her daughter's words, Xiao Yue's mother slapped her daughter two times angrily.
Xiao Yue had originally wanted to drop out, but at this time, after Xiao Yue's aunt heard about it, she immediately expressed her willingness to bear all the expenses for Xiao Yue's high school.
Although his aunt kindly came to help Xiao Yue, Xiao Yue’s parents didn’t think so. They felt that Aunt Xiao Yue was a nosy.And he personally came to criticize the aunt.
After Xiao Yue’s parents refused to pay for Xiao Yue’s high school tuition, his aunt really helped Xiao Yue pay the tuition. The high school Xiao Yue attended was very close to her aunt’s home, so her aunt asked Xiao Yue to come to her house for dinner every day.
With the selfless help of her aunt, Xiao Yue studied hard in school. Her grades are also on the list in the school. Many teachers feel that Xiao Yue is destined to enter university. NS.
But when Xiao Yue was in the third year of high school, his parents suddenly asked Xiao Yue to quit school. They told Xiao Yue that the family really had no conditions for the three children to study, although Xiao Yue’s expenses for the past few years were borne by his aunt .
Xiao Yue almost agreed to drop out at the begging of her parents. Later, after careful consideration, Xiao Yue rejected her parents' proposal because her parents had loaned 3000 yuan to relatives in the first two months.
Because Xiao Yue did not listen to the opinions of her parents, she often suffered cold words when she returned home from vacation. The parents also mobilized her two younger brothers to exclude her, such as not talking to her or cooking her food. Under the influence of their parents, the two younger brothers had a very bad relationship with their sister. Sometimes they met on the street, and none of them would say hello to Xiao Yue.
Xiao Yue lived up to expectations. After the college entrance examination, she got the university admission letter as she wished. After she left, she immediately severed contact with her parents and younger brother!
When Xiao Yue received the admission letter from the university, after she was still working in a restaurant, she immediately told her aunt and her teachers and classmates the good news after get off work.
She did not notify her parents and younger brother immediately because they would not be happy that Xiao Yue was admitted to college. Sure enough, when the parents knew the news, they told Xiao Yue directly that 's tuition fees should be worked out by themselves, don't think they should pay a point!
Xiaoyue University’s first-year tuition and living expenses are still paid by my aunt.From the second year onwards, Xiao Yue reluctantly relied on her part-time job to earn tuition and personal expenses.
Since she left her hometown, she has decided not to contact her parents and two younger brothers! After she arrived at the university, she immediately severed the connection between her parents and two younger brothers. On several occasions, his parents had called to the school, but Xiao Yue refused to answer the phone.
When Xiao Yue was about to graduate, his parents made a phone call to the school almost every three to five days. They also asked Xiao Yue to tell Xiao Yue to call her parents back.
In fact, at this time, the parents have helped Xiao Yue find a blind date. They contacted Xiao Yue, hoping that she would go home for a blind date after graduation!
Many years later, Xiao Yue and her husband have settled in Shanghai. When his aunt's cousin got married, Xiao Yue paid for his aunt to buy a house in the city!
Xiao Yue did not return to her hometown after graduation. She followed her classmates to Shanghai for development. After her hard work, she and her husband now have a foothold in Shanghai, and the two have also bought a house in Shanghai.
When Xiao Yue got married, she didn't invite her parents to come over. I heard that when Xiao Yue graduated, because she didn't want to go home for a blind date, her parents just asked Xiao Yue to write an IOU of 200,000 yuan. The 200,000 yuan was Come to buy out the relationship between the two parties.
When his aunt’s cousin got married last year, Xiao Yue bought a house in the city in the name of his aunt. You must know that Xiao Yue’s parents and two younger brothers have lived for many years. In an unrenovated old house.
When Xiao Yue returned to her hometown, she also went to live with her aunt's house. When passing by her parents' house, she never thought of going in and take a look! Sometimes she really wanted to see her parents and younger brother, but because she had to take care of many things, she didn't make up her mind to go back to visit them.
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