Lao Feng wears a 24-hour electrocardiogram monitoring instrument all over his body to code words for everyone. Therefore, today I can’t write an in-depth historical article, and write an easy-to-understand poisonous chicken soup for everyone.
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The "farm family's self-raised pigs" and "countryside chickens" in the restaurant.
"Highly paid recruitment" advertisement on the roadside wall.
I ran into an acquaintance on the road saying that he would always contact me when I have time.
The "original price" marked by the mall discounts.
The celebrity endorsement in the advertising of wealth management and health care products.
"30 minutes to the city center" in the real estate advertisement.
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Why should I learn Chinese?
Because we often have something like this in our lives:
Suppose your intention is 100 points, but after you express it, it becomes 75 points.
This 75-point expression, after the other party listened to it, understood it, and became 50 points.
Why does the meaning of 100 points become 50 points after you express and understand by the other party?
The answer is: I have not learned Chinese well, and there is no way to express my meaning accurately.
Take a simple example, your partner says to you: "Check later",
Then you will wonder: "Or will you check later?" Let me check it?"
Yes,This statement is ambiguous.
You said "check later", but there is no subject, so it is misleading.
If you add the word "I" and it becomes "I will check it later", then the meaning is very clear, and no one will ask you again.
If you meet a partner who knows how to ask you for clarification, that's lucky. If your intention is "you go check it", but the other person understands it as "the speaker will check it", but doesn't look for it. You clarify that if both parties did not check, then there will be a catastrophe.
So we say that language is very important and the most important subject, we must learn it well.
As a person who is already working, the easiest way to learn Chinese is to read more. If you read more, your language level and expression skills will naturally improve. This is why people who read frequently, Usually speaking, he can express himself accurately.
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Mark 2: Listen and respond to the other party's demands without emotion.
Mark 3: Resolve differences and conflicts between the two parties' demands without emotion.
Many high-quality couples can do this.
This is why we say that when looking for an object, we must look for a high-quality one.
The quality of the object is high, and it has a great influence on your life's happiness.
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For example:
When your left eye twitches, you tend to believe that "left eye skips wealth", believing that fortune is coming.
But,When your right eye twitches, you are inclined to suspect "right eye twitching disaster". You will say that these are all superstitions and are not worth mentioning.
When bad guys kill and set fire, they don’t believe in cause and effect, reincarnation, past and afterlife.
However, when the bad guys are put on the execution ground, they will believe that there will be an afterlife and think that they can "be a good person" in the next life.
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The first step is to swindle money for the elderly (spanspan_span0) Those old people with children who are not at home all year round, and have some money, call TA to participate in activities, send eggs, and ask for warmth. They are more filial than their children and win the hearts of the elderly.
Step 2: Make up a healthy rumor to intimidate the elderly.
Step 3: Compile a solution and tell the elderly: After the solution, how great the benefits are.
Step 4: Finally tell the elderly that the original price of this solution is very expensive, very expensive,But now it’s very cheap, very cheap, very cheap to engage in sales promotion.
Many elderly people are deceived in this way.
Therefore, as children, we must spend more time with the elderly.
Old people are unaccompanied, lonely and empty, Outsiders pretend to be filial and play the role that their children should play , so the old people are easily deceived.
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For things that others can't do, you can help. Call for help.
What others can do, you help, that is not called help, that is called waiting.
For example, the child has a job and works and is very motivated, but the down payment for a house is indeed a bit short. At this time, you help your child fill the hole in the down payment, which is called help.
For example,The child does not have a job, he is so lazy, he is not motivated, and plays games all day long. For such a child, you worry about him finding a partner and paying him a house. This kind of thing is called waiting.
Help is beneficial.
Waiting is harmful.
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is only a semi-implicit thing if you don’t know it for a while.
For example, a fish is deceived because when the fish sees the bait floating in the water, it has no ability to question: why such a delicious thing is suspended in the middle of the water. And it made me ran into it.
For example, a mouse was caught in a trap, because the mouse saw a piece of food and placed it in the center of the hall. It didn’t know how to question: Why is such a delicious thing placed in the hall? Central, but also let me run into it.
Specific to your life, when someone gives you money, in fact, the other party has often used a pinhole to record and record.
Another example,When you use a free app, the app often secretly keeps your phone address book, WeChat chat history, Taobao consumption record, 滴滴 taxi record, your financial management record, bank card balance, Mastered everything.
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is excellent because of some non-span conditions, but I have excellent shortcomings for . Those non-principle shortcomings, and give up this excellent opposite sex.
Because, even if you change to a different sex, there will be many shortcomings.
But if you are looking for an opposite sex with excellent core conditions, and there are no shortcomings in principle and non-principle issues, then this opposite sex is basically a liar, because this kind of person is in reality In life, it does not exist.
To take a step back, even if this kind of person exists, there is a 99.99% probability that the TA will look down on you.
The opposite sex with excellent core conditions is scarce, scarce, and scarce. To this point, we must have a deep understanding.
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We found some words in the world,It is reasonable to say and to say that it is not.
Take a simple example:
"You can think of it, don’t the company leaders think of it?"
But the interesting thing is that, on the other hand, this seems to be true:
"The company leaders are too busy to know everything. Some things can't be thought of _span11. _span11 is also normal. . This is the exact opposite, but it sounds reasonable. So why do two sentences with opposite meanings seem to make sense? The reason is that our human reasoning about some world events can only be used as a reference. In many cases, the reasoning is inaccurate. We usually talk and do things, don't be too arrogant, especially when you judge others by your own standards, you will often be distorted, because the intelligence, character, and behavior of people are very different from each other. .
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We advocate,Be honest and tell the truth. Don't brag. Don't lie.
Because people say when they lie or brag, they themselves will forget.
For example, you lied and boasted that you have a big villa in the suburbs. Because this is not true, you will forget it after you say it.
However, the listener is interested, someone will mention it someday in the future: What about the big villa in your suburbs?
You can't remember the lie that you once lied, so you will be confused and say: What big villa? How can I have a big villa?
Then at this time, you are showing your feet.
Others have known from then on: You are dishonest.
The advantage of telling the truth is that you don’t have to remember what you have said, so you don’t need to lie.
Therefore, honesty is the best strategy.
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people say,Your salary is determined by your boss.
is not.
Your salary is not determined by your boss, but by the talent market. Because there are many people who open lower prices and compete for your job, your salary cannot be high.
For another example, LV sells a bag for 30,000 yuan. The price of LV is not determined by the luxury goods company itself, but the luxury market.
Similarly, if you marry your current wife, it is not determined by you or her unilaterally, but by the supply and demand situation in the marriage and love market.
I want to understand all this, congratulations, you really have grown up.
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The lower the probability in your life.
no matter who,It's still things, or things, that's the truth.
For example, you are looking for a girlfriend who is beautiful, gentle and virtuous, smart and capable. Then, the probability that you find it is almost zero.
If you cut down one condition, all you need is: gentle and virtuous, smart and capable, the probability that you find it will reach 60%. , The probability of you finding is 90%
Similarly, girls dream of finding a man who is rich, handsome, and dedicated. rest assured. Can't find it.
really not.
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Something is inevitable, or is it accidental?
The answer is: things in the world are both accidental and inevitable.
The world is the product of contingency and inevitability.
Among them:
The more recent events, the more minor things, the greater the chance.
For example, if you go out today, which acquaintance will you meet? This contingency is great.
The more long-term and the grander the event, the higher the inevitability.
For example, a person Tsinghua 10 years after graduating, the probability of mixing to middle class or above is infinitely close to 100%.
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In fact, the greater the age of a person’s choice, the greater the power of a person’s life. Hallucinations.
The truth of the fact is that we don’t have much choice in love.
When we were born,How tall you are, how you look like, IQ is not high, personality is good, family background is rich or not... In fact, they are basically determined. And after these few things are basically determined, , in fact, the opposite sex that we can all match in love, this selection interval has actually been roughly locked.
does not mean that there is no choice at all, but that you can only choose in a certain range, for example, in the 70 to 75 divisions, you can use your choice.
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Because the nature of the relationship between people is the exchange of resources.
If you want to get the maximum value in this resource exchange, then the premise is: you must first know: what resources do you have? Are your resources needed by others? How much of your resources can be exchanged for other people's resources? Who is your suitable exchange partner...
There is a whole set of knowledge, so we say that people must be self-knowledge.
Some people pay too much attention to "what do I need",It ignores "what can I give to others", so it is often impossible. For example, in my opinion, most of the leftover men and women in the city are such people without self-knowledge.
Take the simplest example: Wu Dalang I don't think I am worthy of Pan Jinlian. Therefore, he caused a murderous disaster.
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What is "delayed gratification"?
You are chasing a girl and you catch it after just a day. This is called "instant gratification"; you are chasing a girl and chasing it for three months, which is called "delayed gratification."
You start a company and you make money in the first month. This is called "instant gratification." Delayed gratification".
You make a fixed investment in the fund, and you make money in the first month of the fixed investment. This is called "instantaneous satisfaction." , Made a lot of money, this is called "delayed gratification."
To give another example,Lao Feng, I have been writing since 2006, and it has been 15 years since this year to have you loyal readers. This is also called "delayed gratification."
Generally, people who develop a "delayed gratification" mindset can become winners in life.
Conversely, people whose thinking mode is "instant gratification" are usually the losers of life.
Among them, , "playing video games", "watching love action movies", "participating in pornography, gambling and drugs", are all to nourish "instant gratification" shallow thinking, is yes, we are There are many things in the world that are harmful, but the way they harm people is very hidden.
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