by Weichen
Regarding feelings, many people have repeatedly emphasized that distance produces beauty.
In fact, distance does not necessarily produce beauty, but it must be able to protect each other's feelings.
Baby Annie wrote in "Rose Island": "The best love is for two people to accompany each other, do not bind, do not possess, do not desire to dig out meaning from each other."
If a relationship is too intimate, Losing the distance is like sealing two fish in a small space, even if there is water, they will slowly suffocate.
Between people, no matter how close the relationship is, you should maintain an appropriate distance. Only by maintaining a sense of proportion in getting along, will you not be confused by the wind and grass.
In the relationship, the more you love someone, the more you must pay attention to your sense of proportion. Lost sense of affection will become a big net, a sharp blade, a grave...
Zhou Guoping once said: "Both sex In communication, whether it is love, marriage or some kind of close friendship, it is better to keep a proper distance."
Distance is the "degree" between people. Without scale, you will lose your sense. Everyone is an independent person. Individuals desire to be loved, but more need to be respected.
Any long-term relationship is maintained by respect and trust. If you blindly possess it, no matter how much you love, it will eventually become hurt.
The ancients cloud, the moon will be full, and the water will be full.
Nothing can carry infinity, even abstract emotions. Everyone's energy is limited. If you spend it in one place, you can't use it in another.
After all, the theme of life is to live out yourself before you can create life.If one loses even oneself, then the so-called "affectionate" is just duckweed without roots, which disappears instantly as long as the wind blows.
Distance is the preservative of feelings.
There is no relationship in this world that can be the same as before. The only way to have a long relationship is to make continuous progress and make new discoveries.
Enough knowledge will only make people bored. Keep your distance and keep improving yourself in order to make each other fall in love with each other again and again.
To chase a horse, it is better to plant a grassland quietly, and when the grass grows, the horse comes.
The same is true for the relationship between people. Instead of pursuing it hard, let it go. When you are bright enough, the other person will find light.
Emotions are often irrational. As the old saying goes, caring is chaotic. When a person cares too much about an emotion, he must be disproportionate about the other person.
You must know that a truly intelligent person will not let his emotions get out of control, let alone his behaviors.
If you want to maintain a stable relationship, the most important thing is to keep your heart stable.
Distance does make feelings indifferent, but it is easy from far to near. It is almost impossible to get back to the past after getting close and accidentally injured.
Liang Shiqiu said: "You go, I will not send you, you come, no matter how heavy the wind and rain, I will pick you up." This is the coming and going of feelings, close to possess is joy, leaving is to lose is sad.
If you don't know how to keep distance in your relationship, it is often difficult to get together and get together if you walk too quickly. This is probably because it is easier to ask God emotionally than to send God away.
Most of the troubles in life come from emotions, and the hardest part of emotions is letting go.
Too many people can only afford it but can’t put it down,At the end of this kind of relationship, you will either be strangers in this life or turn your heads into enemies. No matter how hard you work with each other, you will never be able to return to the former friendship.
Life is so short, and the earth will not stop moving because of someone's departure.
Don't believe in the so-called long-term love. There has never been a relationship that can last for no reason. The more you care, the more you must pay attention to it.
There is never something that can last forever. No one can guarantee how far the "forever" in the promise is. It may be years, months, or even just a few days for the rest of your life.
Emotions are the most fickle, both reliable and unreliable. Spring and autumn come year after year, and the performance of the people is constantly changing, but the drama has never changed significantly.
Both the appearance of love and the appearance of unlove cannot be disguised for a long time, and the truth is hard to conceal after all.
If you want your feelings to stay fresh for a long time in your limited life, don't be too eager to get closer, keep a proper distance, beautiful and natural.
Weichen said: May your life be better after meeting my text
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