Caring for a female colleague who just left campus with brotherly love, will this love affair last forever and happiness?

Dai Zhiqing dictated

These are a few 18 or 19-year-old girls who have just walked out of the secondary school campus. They are assigned to our state-owned enterprise to do logistics clerk work At that time, I was their immediate boss and their leader.

Not long after they arrived, I had a conversation with each of them. Maybe it is more appropriate to call it a heart-to-heart conversation. I understand their experiences, hobbies and families, and I would like to tell each of them " is a long way of life, there are too many things worth pursuing. The gains and losses are nothing but a state of mind. If I want to open up, I am downcast, and the result is not so. It’s important. For some people and things, you don’t need to be too persistent, try to let go, and life will be different because of this. The world is like a chess game, and non-persistence is a master; life is like a pot of pot, breaking the vacuum. Life is not perfect. Happiness does not have full marks. When persistence becomes a burden, letting go is liberation. ”

Tell them about the complicated interpersonal relationships in the organization, and warn them: “If is lost, learn to cherish; if you run into a wall, learn to change. Some people say the wrong things and are not romantic enough. These are all detailed errors. They can be corrected and tolerated. Don’t take a person’s badness as special. "In the unit, they are asked not to participate in the right and wrong between others...

instructed them: " life is always like this, it can’t satisfy everyone everywhere. But we have to live enthusiastically. There are many things worth cherishing for a lifetime. Don’t just let one be dissatisfied. Disheartened. "This conversation makes every girl unforgettable. They have just entered society, looking at everything around them with a daze and fear. My conversation not only tells them what to do, but also tells them what to do. I care about them,Good for them.

I really do my best to help them at work, teach them hand in hand, happy for their every little progress, appreciate every bit of their achievements, and always encourage them: " is like a chess game, Non-attachment is a master; life is like a pot of pot, breaking the vacuum of Fang Jian. "The girls are all deeply moved by my words.

There was a beautiful young girl who had a serious illness and was very depressed. I went to the hospital for a visit on the same day. I also bought her fruit and a lot of nutrition and packed a huge red envelope. . In a gentle breeze, he said to her, "You are still young, don't frustrated and disappointed. After frustration and disappointment, we learn to cherish. You cherish your body and cherish the people who love you. " The girl did not expect the leadership to be. Being so considerate to her, and her parents were moved to tears in their eyes.

Soon at the end of the year, I bought a greeting card for each of the girls. This is my investment, but I believe that a small investment will return big benefits. When the girls received that exquisite greeting card, their eyes widened due to unexpected surprises. Everyone’s greeting card was written with a gift message. The gift messages were different, and they were all beautifully written. They were all based on my different grasp of each of them. That day, the girls rushed to pass on the greeting cards I gave them, and one girl even copied the words I wrote to everyone in the notebook. They all think that I am very good, know them very well, and are their close brothers.

After a few months I got their hearts, the hearts of each of them. My relationship with them later changed to one-on-one. I talked and chatted with them separately. I told everyone that she was the most promising among the girls who came with them. I think she was the most outstanding. I tell each of them, I will give her the most special care, so that each of them feels that my feelings for her are different to other girls,I feel that I have a tacit understanding with her. I even cleverly used the friction between them and participated in it quietly, so that everyone felt that I and them were the most intimate, and my position in their hearts was consolidated.

" is a concern that balances the imbalance of their emotional balance, and a concern that fills the depths of their souls. The longer the weekend or holiday, the farther away the distance and the weight of concern. The heavier. With that care, the lonely days of trekking can make me worry and feel a lot of emotion. "One of the girls is really monologue to me.

I am surrounded by a group of girls, who regard me as a close brother, tell me every time, even act like a baby to me, and even have a love affair with me in their hearts.

I feel very happy in such an atmosphere. I will not take any further action. As a married person in an institution, I know that doing things with girls will ruin my entire life. I don't think it is worth it. But if a girl takes the initiative to get close to me, I will not refuse, she took the initiative, and I have something to say if something goes wrong. I don't want to wipe the oil by myself, I let them take the initiative to wipe the oil on my body with my wrists.

Once, I saw a girl's feelings become lingering, and I took another step to display my charm, making her obsessed but unable to realize that I was deliberately seducing. She invited me to watch a movie, and then snuggled into my arms in the cinema. I whispered to her, "Many mistakes in 's life are because we don’t persevere, work hard, and don’t stay, and then deceive ourselves to say that everything is It is destiny. You don’t know that no matter how good your destiny is, you will have to go through wind, rain and darkness; no matter how bad it is, the heavens will reserve a piece of sunshine for you. , Life is beautiful because of imperfections, be a wise man of destiny. "She excitedly offered her first kiss.... .

There is another girl who is sick,I went to visit her house. There was no one in her house, so I went every noon and cooked her meals to the bedside. Gentlely said to her: " doesn’t talk about suffering, and tears don’t shed. You don’t want to talk about it, and you don’t want to shed it. There are many times of suffering in life, so you can quietly swallow your tears. In your life, when you cry. Quite a lot, hide the suffering gently. Life is suffering and pleasure, suffering, I can do it, tears, I don’t shed. "I saw her moved and attached to my mood crazily, finally on the third day At noon, she asked me to kiss her...

I am very satisfied, how many men will play such a group of young women in their hearts at the same time? Let such a group of girls save a share for you Or the relationship of the brother or the lover? I am satisfied.

I think that a few years later, their judgments of people and things will change with age. Will they still respect me and worship me that way? The little trick I dealt with between them made them 's love affair with me will it go on? This . lingering happy relationship will last forever...

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