There is a Chinese saying: Children are the crystallization of love between husband and wife. It is a very happy and beautiful thing for a man and woman to meet, know, and love each other in the vast sea of people, and enter the palace of marriage together. It is a particularly happy and beautiful thing to have their children in the nourishment of love.
However, if one day suddenly finds that the child is not your own, I believe that most people will not accept this cruel fact, and they will definitely break down emotionally.
At this time, the child is no longer the crystallization of love, but the evidence of the derailment of the husband and wife, and the source of the pain of the other is sad.
Recently, Mr. Wang, who lives in Changsha, Hunan, encountered a similar incident, which made it difficult for him to accept. And Mr. Wang’s wife, as the party to the derailment in the marriage, not only gave birth to a child with his lover, but did not regret it at all. On the contrary, she encouraged her husband: "Is this a big deal? It is not unusual to have a child. You have to face it calmly."
What is going on? Let's take a look together.
When the husband got the paternity test book and wept bitterly, the wife let her husband face it calmly
In the joy of the child's birth, the more I look at the child, the more I like it, with a smile on the corners of his mouth, and he does not want to let it go.
Suddenly, Mr. Wang's phone rang. He glanced at the phone and found that it was an unfamiliar number. Mr. Wang carefully put the child on the bed and answered the phone. The other party was a man who said on the phone: "Your child is not yours.It was my wife and I. This child has no blood relationship with you at all. Don't be fooled by your wife.
finished speaking, the other party hung up the phone, when Mr. Wang called back and wanted to inquire clearly, the other party's phone was turned off and he could not be reached at all.
At this point, Mr. Wang His heart was very flustered. Naturally, he could not believe that the child was not his own based on the words of the strange man, but he had doubts about the child’s true identity. In order to find out the truth of the matter, Mr. Wang immediately found his wife. Asked her if she was carrying herself "out of the wall".
Regarding Mr. Wang’s questioning, the wife naturally denied the question, saying that Mr. Wang had wronged her and quarreled loudly with Mr. Wang.
Mr. Wang was unwilling to bother with his wife. He picked up the child and took his wife to the hospital to do a paternity test. Mr. Wang’s wife saw that her husband was acting up, so she sat on the ground and cried and said to Wang. My husband had no conscience and didn't want their wives anymore, so he wronged her and cheated on her.
Seeing his wife began to spoil, Mr. Wang was unwilling to do a paternity test, so he was more certain that his wife must be hiding something from him, so he left his wife.
Seeing that she did not stop her husband, Mr. Wang’s wife hurriedly got up and rushed out of the house to chase him.
After arriving at the hospital, I went directly to the paternity test center and did an expedited paternity test. After a while, Mr. Wang’s wife also rushed there, learning that the blood samples of Mr. Wang and the child had already been tested, so she stopped talking to him. Noisy, sitting on a hospital bench,Wait for the result with him.
After 3 hours of waiting, the results of the paternity test finally came out. After looking at the "negative parent-child relationship" on the testimonial, Mr. Wang cried bitterly while holding the testimonial, and his emotions were completely broken.
Until this time, Mr. Wang's wife saw that she couldn't hide it, so she told the truth: "The child is indeed not yours. It is the man who called you. I was drunk that time. I slept with him in a daze. I didn’t expect it to be pregnant. But, it’s nothing, do you think it’s a big deal? It’s not unusual to have a baby."
see Mr. Wang was still crying bitterly, his wife "comforted" him and said, "You have to face this matter calmly. If it is not yours, it is not yours. You have to have a dream. Now that you wake up from the dream, you have to renew it. Life, you can’t always live in a dream. If you don’t mind, we can continue to live together, just as if this has never happened. If you mind, then I can’t help it."
Later, Mr. Wang I really couldn't tolerate this matter, and filed a divorce with his wife, and the two have no relationship ever since.
Emotion analysis
To be honest, Mr. Wang’s experience is really sympathetic. He was immersed in the joy of being a new father, and suddenly learned that the child is not his own, and his heart is deeply saddened. The great joy and great sorrow in China followed one after another, and my heart was in the torment and suffering of the two heavens of ice and fire. How could I not collapse my emotions, how could I not cry bitterly.
I believe that the most basic rule in marriage is mutual loyalty. The happiest picture is that two people grow old together and enjoy the beauty of a couple for life in this world.
However, ideals are beautiful, and reality is often cruel. Some people can't stand the dull marriage, can't resist the temptation of the colorful world outside, and betray their marriage. It's like Mr. Wang's wife. She went out of the wall and had children with other men, but tried her best to hide her husband. It is really the most poisonous woman's heart to let her husband raise herself and her lover's child in a confused way.
Later, after the Dongchuang incident, she did not regret it at all, and even felt that it was not a big deal. She also said that giving birth to a child is nothing unusual, so let her husband face it and treat it as a dream. May I ask any man in the world who can be so heartless and take this kind of thing improperly. I am afraid that no one would want to do this kind of "nightmare".
Not only that, but Mr. Wang’s wife wants to continue living with her husband. She is really too thick-skinned, she is really shameless.
By now, Mr. Wang and his wife have nothing to say, Mr. Wang and her divorce is also the right choice, it is to stop the loss in time, otherwise this woman might do something weird. It is better to stay away as soon as possible.
Concluding remarks
Marriage is a major event in life and must be done carefully. You must have a thorough understanding of the personality and conduct of the marriage partner, and you must not decide based on your feelings. "Flash Marriage". This is not only responsible for oneself, but also responsible for the marriage partner, only in this way can marriage be happy.
Finally, I hope Mr. Wang can adjust his emotions as soon as possible, start his own new life, get rid of all the haze, and create his own true happiness.
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