Author: No. One Emotion
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San Mao once said:
"Things you seek deliberately are often not found. Everything in the world comes and goes. It's time."
Actually, why is love not like this? The more you want to reach out and grab it, the less you won’t get the other person’s favor.
Sometimes, when you are kind to a person, you often don't get feedback from the other person, but instead put yourself into a humble and cheap situation.
True love is not about letting go of your dignity and satisfying the other person's preferences.
A man who obeys in everything may be liked by women at the time, but after a long time, he will be disgusted.
Men should remember: Love does not require you to fight the fire with moths. If you lose your self, how can it be beautiful and sweet! So, when you face some requirements of a woman, you must learn to refuse, because the more you refuse, the more she loves you.
Reject her unbridled willfulness
In a love, women will have varying degrees of willfulness. You must learn to tolerate and understand acceptable willfulness, so as to make women love you deeply. Effect.
However, men must learn to reject women's unscrupulous willfulness, otherwise you will fall into a "vicious circle". Once you have acquiesced to women's unscrupulous willfulness, it will be difficult to change the current state.
If you always feel that "take a step back and broaden the sky", you are really wrong. Doing so will only make women worse, and even classify you as a "cheap product", becoming more and more Don't cherish you.
In fact, love is not a process of "conquering" each other, but after you have paid for tolerance, women can also understand you.At that time, her willfulness will naturally be restrained, and only with mutual understanding and dedication will women love you more and more.
Reject her dependence on you
After a woman falls into a relationship, she is particularly prone to "dependence" psychology, always feel that the relationship between two people can be closer and love is also It will become sweeter.
But this is not the case. Women's over-reliance on men will have counterproductive effects, especially when you can't provide women with a life worthy of being depended on, the relationship between each other will deteriorate sharply and it will be difficult to be long-lasting. Keep going.
Some people may think that women will be ignored if they are too dependent, but the reality is that once this dependence changes, women will no longer need you, and naturally they will no longer love you as much as before.
In a love, only by maintaining a balanced relationship, love will become sweeter and sweeter, and women will love you more and more.
Of course, dependence also pays attention to scale and degree. Whether the distance between men and women is too close or too far, it is a "disaster" for each other.
Reject her to interfere with your privacy
In love, the most feared thing is that each other has no privacy. Two people always feel that no privacy is a kind of honesty and trust, but the last The result will only cause the two people to drift apart.
Everyone should have their own private life. Some things can be open and transparent, but they also need some personal space, so that each other can feel understood and loved, otherwise there will be no such trust gradually Feel it.
Especially when a woman intends to interfere with your privacy, she must appropriately refuse. Some things can be shared, but some things must never be interfered. Once a habit is formed, it is difficult to change.
Even if two people love each other deeply, they should have their own privacy, sometimes after being too frank,On the contrary, it will bring more and more troubles and troubles, and eventually it will be difficult to go on for a long time, and the love of women will naturally gradually disappear.
Written at the end
As a man, you really have to be generous in love and understand women, but love is not something to be maintained by one person after all, but when a man does it After making concessions, I also hope that women can understand men and establish a balanced way of getting along with each other. Only this kind of love can be regarded as true happiness.
When men know how to refuse, especially women's above requirements, they will naturally exchange for a sweeter love, and women will love you more deeply.
.Author: One Emotion, a high-quality emotional consultant, a freelance writer, and a signed author on the platform. If you like my article, you can give me likes and comments.
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