The 77-year-old aunt cried: asking a 46-year-old man to be the housekeeper. She was very happy in the early stage, but very angry in the back.

Introduction

In real life, most people who are willing to be nanny are women. Many men have some machismo. They feel that being a babysitter is a shameless thing, and it would be embarrassing to be known by others. However, as the times have changed, people's thinking has also changed. Many men no longer reject this industry and have chosen to be male nanny.

In fact, compared with female nanny, male nanny still has a great advantage, and the salary of male nanny will be relatively high. They can do what the female nanny can do, and the male nanny can do what the female nanny can't. The main service targets of male babysitters are elderly people who cannot take care of themselves. They need to spend a lot of effort.

Now it is not easy to hire a suitable male nanny. Aunt Xiao finally found a suitable male nanny after some setbacks, but later Aunt Xiao had the idea of ​​dismissing the male nanny. What is the actual cause? Let's look together.

Read by: Aunt Xiao

I am 77 years old and have now retired for 22 years. When I retired, I did live a happy life, because I can live according to my own ideas every day, and my wife is with me, so I don’t feel bored or lonely at all. However, unexpected events occurred. When I was 68 years old, my wife left him and my life changed a lot.

When we were young, couples generally raised several children, but my wife and I only had one child and one daughter. In fact, I prefer children. Before I get married, I plan to have four children, so that when I get old, I can have children and grandchildren and enjoy the family happiness. But my body did not live up to it. After giving birth to a young daughter, I was no longer suitable for childbirth.

I have also been sad for a long time because of this incident, but my wife told me that it doesn't matter if you have more or fewer births. As long as you have a good education, you can rely on it in your old age. Therefore, our husband and wife are particularly concerned about the education of our children. Both children are more upbeat. Our son has worked in a state-owned enterprise and our daughter has become a people's teacher.

But I am not satisfied because my children are not working in their hometowns.Far from home. After my wife left, I didn't think about going to live with my sons and daughters, but I have travelled thousands of miles, and I am getting older and it is difficult to adapt to the new life. After thinking about it again and again, I decided to stay in my hometown. As long as my children come back to see me when they are free, I will be satisfied.

Living alone is indeed very inconvenient. I won’t talk about being alone. I can’t do it if I have any strength. Fortunately, the neighbors around are more enthusiastic, and if they need help, they will be there on call. However, sometimes I still feel embarrassed, coupled with physical reasons, so I decided to hire a babysitter for myself, which is much more convenient. At the beginning, I hired a female nanny. The female nanny can take care of my diet and daily life and help me clean the house. This is enough.

But this year I fell due to a stroke. Although it was not severe enough to be paralyzed, it was very difficult to walk. It was necessary to use crutches, and the walking speed was very slow. It became a problem to walk downstairs in the community. . Taking care of myself has also become a problem, and because of my heavy weight, the original female nanny can't take care of me at all.

This is why I plan to find a male nanny, but it is really difficult to find a male nanny. I contacted several housekeeping companies to find a male nanny. The other party's name is Xiao Zhao, 46 ​​years old this year. It was so hard to find a suitable male babysitter, so the first time I saw Xiao Zhao, it seemed to meet a loved one, and I felt very cordial.

Xiao Zhao is a northerner, and he feels like a tall and mighty northern man who feels very secure. Although I don't talk much, I work hard and meticulously. I am not the kind of person who is very hardworking, so everything in the house is messy. After Xiao Zhao came, my house was arranged neatly. And he also planted a lot of flowers on the balcony. No matter how old a woman is, she has no resistance to flowers. Especially when the flowers are blooming, the breeze blows through, and I feel that the whole person's mood is particularly wonderful.

My family lives on the eighth floor. It may be because of planting flowers that birds roost on our balcony every morning. I have to say that this is what we call the fragrance of birds and flowers. Looking at such a scene, how could my mood be bad?

Many elderly people pay more attention to diet.The taste is relatively light. But I am different. I especially like to eat heavy flavors, especially some spicy foods. Xiao Zhao can cook a lot of cuisines, especially Sichuan and Hunan cuisines, so he is very good at cooking, so every day he cooks a lot of appetite for me. I want to eat two more bowls.

I am satisfied with 10,000 people in my heart. I used to hire a babysitter for 5,500 yuan. Now I ask Xiao Zhao to be a live-in babysitter for me. Although it costs 7,000 yuan, I think it’s worth it, because Xiao Zhao not only treats me It is well taken care of, and it also makes me feel good. I can't buy it for any amount of money.

If I can live a life like this forever, then I am satisfied. But I didn't expect that after half a year, Xiao Zhao looked like a different person, and my life was getting worse and worse.

Because of my trust and indulgence in Xiao Zhao, he has other ideas. He actually took my female friend back to my house with me on his back. I didn't know it at first. Because of my bad legs and feet, I usually rest in my room during my free time. Once I heard Xiao Zhao talking to each other, I found out about it. Afterwards, I also criticized Xiao Zhao and asked him to invite him away. At that time, Xiao Zhao agreed to me with one gulp and thanked me for giving him a chance.

But he didn't repent. Although he promised me on the surface, in fact he didn't do what I told him. Instead, he went a step further to do a good job of confidentiality. At first, he just brought a female friend back, but later he brought several, all of them took turns. Because the movement is relatively small, I don't know. After two or three months, when my daughter came back to visit me, she found out about it.

This time I was a little angry, because I gave Xiao Zhao a chance last time, but he did not repent, and instead brought different female friends home. But watching him pleading hard, and I think he did a good job, so I gave him another chance.

After this incident, he did change. I only find female friends on dates when I’m resting. This is my personal business, and I can’t manage that much, as long as he doesn’t affect my work. But I didn't expect it to cause me a big trouble later. When Xiao Zhao signed a contract with me before, he told me that he was a divorced man.But in fact, he is not divorced, his wife and children are in his hometown. And he was getting better with other women outside. The woman was still pregnant. After the woman was pregnant, Xiao Zhao abandoned the others, and the woman knew the address of my home, so she found my door and was called Some people came to harass me.

Later, Xiao Zhao's wife also learned about this and found my home. I was really overwhelmed. I thought I had found a male babysitter that I wanted, but I found myself in such a big trouble. In desperation, I had to fire Xiao Zhao and my life calmed down.

Ask Xiao Zhao to be my live-in nanny. Although he was very happy in the early stage, he was really angry in the later stage. I will look for a nanny in the future, and I must do a good job in the background check of the nanny, and this should never happen again.

Written at the end

The nanny must eat and live with the employer. Before deciding to sign the contract with the nanny, you must know in advance what kind of person the nanny is, otherwise in the process of getting along, There will be all kinds of troubles. When we are looking for a nanny, in addition to paying attention to the work ability of the nanny, it is more important to pay attention to the three views of the nanny's character.

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