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is a fairy tale. There is no gorgeous rhetoric throughout the story, and the process is full of difficulties and obstacles, but it is finally able to reap a happy ending.
Everyone is facing the test of life in their own fairy tale world. These tests are mixed with the reality of human feelings in the cruelty, allowing people to ask, answer, and enlighten themselves in the short century of life.
In terms of life, everyone is a piece of beautiful jade, but the fineness of self-carving is not enough, and the quality deviation appears.
Life is impetuous, which makes people always seek a trace of inner peace. Life is approachable, and people often find tenderness in all kinds of temptations. It, with the most majestic image, gives people the most profound preaching.
Human life is contradictory. It’s not a coincidence that you only know how to cherish when you have one and want to have two coincidences.
From the beginning to the end of a person’s life, the reason why people feel that there are mixed joys and sorrows, and even more sorrow than joy, is only because it contains 5 truths that explain life.Each pierced the heart. If you have a deep understanding, most of them will come here!
5 human life facts converge into 5 sentences, it is not easy for people to understand:
First sentence: Forgetting will limit growth
Many times, we say that life is not easy , You must always remember the good and forget the bad in order to be truly happy and satisfied with the present.
But in fact, it is hard to grow up if you really forget the unhappy people.
Although those unhappiness will make people miserable for a long time, if people forget the scars, it is difficult to obtain self-protection.
The scariest thing in a person's life is forgetting. Forget the painful people, it is easy to repeat the "old problems".
Life is a process of unceasing farewell and choice. The biggest function of forgetting is to let people in the quagmire of mistakes ignore themselves and recognize things. Therefore, we often see some people who repeatedly experience the same injuries, the same failures repeatedly, and the same experiences are always superimposed...
The mistake that a person often makes is "self-righteous", too many repeated superimpositions The pain comes from this. And all this is due to a person's ability to "forget".
It is very difficult for adults to really grow up, but only by remembering lessons and summing up experience can they finally gain something.
Second sentence: Regret, comes from a person’s "unknowing"
life,It has always been incomplete beauty. It's just that no one wants to appreciate this beauty. Because he is always heartbreaking.
However, everyone has to face the pain of incomplete beauty in the path of life. It’s just that people often forget that too many incomplete regrets come from a person’s “unknowing”.
Similarly, no one wants to admit that he is "unaware". Everyone is accustomed to feeling good about themselves and is convinced that too many judgments and actions are right.
Finally, I realized that one’s overconfidence is actually an “unknowingly” ignorance.
I forgot to recognize myself, I forgot to recognize the world, I forgot to look at things outside my own circle... This is a common problem for everyone. Including you, including me.
We often understand "Imperfection is life" on the surface. After too much experience, we realize that life is composed of imperfect regrets, and it is so profound. And if we have a clear self-awareness earlier and less blind self-confidence, there will be more affirmative choices at the fork in our life.
We have made choices throughout our lives, but not all the results of choices can be generally accepted. Accurate self-cognition is particularly important, but we know it too late.
Sentence 3: Taking yourself seriously is a disaster
We have been searching for love all our lives, and we are eager to be loved, and we finally discover after we meet and lose. What I pursue is only my own wishful thinking.
because we take ourselves too seriously,That's why they often ask others to forget to examine themselves.
Actually, in this real society, there is nothing more cruel than indispensable for no one. We are abandoned and ignored in a relationship only because we overestimate our position in the hearts of others and our relationship with each other.
Overestimation is the beginning of all misfortunes. Taking yourself seriously is the fuse of a disaster.
Walking in the world, we are constantly meeting and separating from others. In a big drama, we take ourselves too much as the protagonist, fantasizing that we are someone who deserves to be valued and cared for in a certain relationship, but reality tells us:
In fact, many times you are someone else’s. Dispensable.
There will be too much helplessness in this life, but as long as we can slightly lower our expectations of others, we will greatly reduce the chance of disappointment. If you are too entangled in the gathering and dispersal of a certain relationship, the success or failure of a certain event, you will only get yourself into an endless loop with no salvation.
Don't take yourself too seriously to let your feet walk on the ground. No matter how many obstacles you encounter, you will not be so unbearable.
The fourth sentence: Everything that is forced is destined to have no results
What is not available is always the best? This is not necessarily the case.
Many times you still want what you can't get. It is a kind of obsession and unwillingness to cause trouble. We often care about the results because we have devoted our energy to certain people and things. Because we are all miser, we care about what we give.
this world,There has never been an action that is truly unintended. Once the action is taken, the result can easily lead people's mood. The more energy you put into something, the more unwilling you are for the result.
Therefore, we often do not hesitate to make more efforts to "turn things around" for things that already have results, and we do not hesitate to pay more painful prices for the results.
Later, the facts tell us:
There are so many things that we tried so hard to want, but it is not surprising that we got it later, so the carelessness after getting it makes us lose again;
Paying more is a kind of harassment for some people, but it is meaningless for some things. Therefore, there is no result, we really can't do anything, and accepting it is the best ending.
It’s just that we just say we accept the results, but our hearts are unwilling. This is the root of our self-torture.
It should be yours, you can't leave, it shouldn't be yours. In this case, when we are covered with cuts and bruises, we are really immersed in the five internal organs.
The fifth sentence: To enjoy loneliness is a kind of ability, but unfortunately few of us really have
Born to be lonely, a person’s best partner is also lonely. No one will survive completely out of loneliness.
We often say that it is not easy for people to enjoy loneliness, and too many of us live a life that is mediocre and unbearable in the well-known "Speaking of Truth". We don't like the mediocre appearance, but we just repel and resist loneliness.
yes,Loneliness is not terrible, it is just a way of life that a person chooses in self-growth. Only those who know how to enjoy loneliness can have real self-awareness and improvement.
Everyone is a unique individual in the world. We have to blend in with each other because of our fear of loneliness, and we are destined to stay together for a long time. Individuals have never been able to blend in fundamentally, so how can they talk about being in doubt and abandoning each other forever?
The relationship between people is selfish or altruistic. Putting aside this fact, there is no relationship between people.
Too many of us are deeply hurt in all kinds of interpersonal relationships because of our fear of loneliness. Finally, in the quiet world where we have to be alone, we see our true self and understand the fact that we can only rely on ourselves for a lifetime.
After seeing through the facts of interpersonal relationships, a person can gain real growth.
People should not only wear the shackles for the whole life, but should be a combination of self-responsibility and commitment. Responsibility for oneself is not innate consummation.
We will only truly look at ourselves and the world after we have experienced it.
Reality is very heart-stirring, but life will continue, and we must continue even if we are tired.
one day, we will smile and thank all the experiences! It allows us to learn to love and be loved, to tolerate and to complete. Life, after many experiences, let people understand that this is a fairy tale-like harvesting process.
In the fairy tale of life,We have experienced too many unsatisfactory stories, all just for the last-minute consummation. I hope everyone will not be discouraged by the rough reality halfway through, and ignore that the ending is the inevitability of success.
Otherwise, even if the ending is satisfactory, it will be neglected by nature because of insufficient mentality and self-awareness.
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