comes from the countryside, with the simplicity and kindness of rural people, after graduating from university, she was admitted to a public institution in the provincial capital. The cousin's husband is a middle-level foreign company, and the two have a very good relationship. Whoever wants to fly into a disaster, the cousin's husband died in a car accident while on a business trip. The cousin was in a state of walking dead.
When the cousin's accident happened, they had been married for less than a year. The cousin's bad news caused the cousin who was less than two months pregnant to have a miscarriage. For this reason, the cousin was still sad for a while and felt sorry for the cousin.
A total of 600,000 compensation was paid for the accident. The cousin didn't ask for it, but gave it all to the cousin's parents. The cousin said that he was the only child, and she could not leave him any offspring. The cousin's parents were not in good health, and this was the only thing she could do for him.
My cousin’s status makes my aunt heartbroken. She stays with my cousin all day for fear that she can’t think of anything. After three years in this way, the cousin slowly came over, thanks to the power of love.
One year ago, my cousin’s unit recruited a doctoral student. It didn't take long for her to pursue her cousin, and her various performances were simply meticulous. At first, the cousin didn't have this thought, but couldn't hold back the doctor's sweet words and warmth.
The cousin learned that the doctor man had a brief history of marriage and was divorced. There is also a 5-year-old daughter. Cousin felt inappropriate. But my aunt and uncle thought it was pretty good. I always advise my cousin to be pragmatic and don't think too much, after all, I am the one who died of her husband.
People say that women are made of water. This is true. The cousin was unwilling at all at first, but the doctor man took several offensives. The cousin actually gave in slowly, and there is really no way to talk about feelings.
My cousin told me that she saw that little girl and thought she was very pitiful. She wants to bring her mother's affection and let her enjoy the maternal love that should have been enjoyed.
The family relationship between Dr. and the male is also very simple. His father died early and he was the only child. At home is his mother and a 5-year-old daughter. The cousin thinks that she is capable of running this family well and is more capable of letting her children have a good childhood.
Reality is always unsatisfactory,The cousin thinks very well, but she doesn't know that the family becomes a mess as soon as she gets married. Every day, no one likes her mother-in-law, husband, or stepdaughter.
Mother-in-law is a typical thing. She had a prejudice against her cousin at the beginning, and felt that her cousin was dead because of the man, which was unlucky. She will do everything to her cousin. Her sole purpose seemed to be to defeat her cousin.
The cousin really took the little girl as her own. In order to let the child develop a good habit since childhood, she has strict requirements. The mother-in-law said she was deliberate and abused. After several quarrels, the cousin felt that there was no need to cause family discord. I handed over the management to my mother-in-law, and I was happy and free.
After a few days of cleaning, mother-in-law has something to say again. see it? The stepmother is the stepmother. When a child is air, don't care about the child. There is no responsibility of being a mother at all.
To be strict is torture, but to be loose is to fail to fulfill the responsibility. Buying clothes is to buy people's hearts, but buying snacks is a soft kill. In short, the cousin did nothing right, no matter how she did it, her mother-in-law would be accused, and her cousin would be troubled.
For the cousin, it is not this that is more serious, it is from my husband’s incomprehension. Husband not only has an enviable doctoral degree, but also a typical filial pioneer. I feel that everything must put mother first.
Doctor male is not without emotional intelligence, and he is full of tricks when pursuing his cousin. The point is that as soon as he gets entangled with his mother, there is no fairness there, let alone mercilessness. Some only have filial filial piety to their mothers. Whatever the mother says is nothing. Any behavior that goes against the mother's will is wrong. This is exactly what the cousin cannot understand and accept.
The child is always longing for freedom, think about it, the cousin asked her to develop good habits, but she was also very reluctant, and she must resist. There is also that we can't boo the children's intelligence, their level of observing words and feelings is very high. They know who has the final say in the family and who can protect themselves. Understand this, it is easy to understand if the child deliberately fails to cooperate with the cousin, and deliberately finds fault with the cousin.
What kind of home is this? It's a battle arena for wits and courage. After a few rounds,The cousin lost all confidence and fled.
The experience of my cousin's second marriage made me understand a truth. Whether a marriage is happy has nothing to do with money, status, and education. Especially for women, marriage is simply the second life. Finding a target is not only as simple as having the same minded mind, but also the family environment of the other person, and even the group quality of the people around.
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