No one can live easily. Every stage will have different difficulties, grievances, responsibilities, goals, and struggles.
Down-to-earth, living in this world of hardships and hard work, the hardships in my heart can only be experienced by myself.
Solve things when you encounter them. Complaining and running is not a harmonious way, nor is it always peaceful and at ease.
Seeing the good and thinking together, and introspecting the bad, since ancient times, we have allowed us to learn from the good. The first thing we encounter is to reflect on whether we have such a habit when we encounter bad things.
has never taught us to hate others, to fault others.
It has been three months since I came to the new team to work, and I have recruited more new employees in recent months, so I have also changed a little from my initial perception.
Initially, I thought this small piece of land is harmonious and full of warm space.
But after staying for a long time, I still found a little discordant element. When there are more people, it will be mixed with different personalities. Recently, I have joined a few new colleagues, and some of them were introduced by a colleague.
One of them was hired by the manager himself. It just so happened that the character of that colleague might not be liked by most people.
Emotional intelligence and empathy are not very high, not enough to support him to work with others.
He often has friction with my colleague. My colleague tells the manager: Do you want me or him? Anyway, I can't guarantee that I won't quarrel with him in the future.
wanted to get rid of him. When I was sitting next to me, when I heard this sentence, I was thinking how sad and sad if the person heard it.
didn't know whether it was caused by the environment or to follow suit. He was disliked by many people one after another, and he showed it naked.
Being unwelcome by many colleagues is actually very sad and helpless at work.
I am one of the more sober ones. First of all, I don't follow the trend, don't join in the fun, and don't follow and hate others.
Everyone can’t make everyone like it,To leave room for others, the kindness in my heart needs to be fully released.
Think about why you hate the other party, whether the other party did not act according to your own wishes, or the other party's behavior affected you, whether you have a broad mind and can accommodate differences.
If the other party's positive threat threatens your status, then we will work hard to improve our abilities instead of squeezing out or forming gangs.
The existence of life always makes us think and reflect. People who understand introspection will grow faster.
In our dealings with people, there is no right or wrong, and there is no need for a deep apology.
Escape is easy for a while, there are not too many bad moments, but they all require us to solve the problem calmly, not to get angry, and not to hurt people.
People who introspect are more tolerant and can find the cause in themselves instead of putting all their disgust on others.
I hate someone very tired. You don't have your participation in other people's lives, and you don't need you to pay for their personalities. Why should I hate them? Just to add to yourself.
Find the reason more from yourself. The way you don't like may not be disliked by others, and the appearance you like may not be willing to others!
For the rest of my life, introspect, think, and be kind to everything every day!
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