2021 I have been with my family for 8 years, in love for 5 years, married for 3 years, and have no children. We live in a small fourth-tier city and the prices are not high. At present, we are not worried about the elderly at home. My in-laws gave a gift when they got married. I bought a new house for 120,000. When my parents got married, they bought a house under my name and gave a dowry of 110,000. When we got married, the deposit was about 400,000. The car was bought by our young couple. Yes, looking at this kind of life in a small city like ours, it can be calm and stable for a lifetime.
My husband started his own business after graduating from college. He has never made a lot of money, but he keeps on small money. It may be that this kind of easy life can't satisfy him. He has to be a big one. Without my knowledge, he started a business again in 18 years. This company, I don’t like to worry about it, so I don’t care about money. At that time, I was rather angry when he cut first and then played, but after all the money was invested, I couldn’t help it. At that time, he trusted him too much and didn't interfere too much with him, which resulted in the current situation.
By the end of 19, the company had been losing money for more than a year, but it was only once I went to the company to find out. I said, if it doesn’t work, stop the loss in time. You can settle down and find a job to settle down for a while, he I didn’t agree with life and death. Let me take out the money for financial management and pay him a year’s rent. I just worked for a year. If it doesn’t work, I won’t do it. I am really softhearted. He treats me very well normally, Huang We are not involved in gambling and drugs. In our daily life, we hardly quarrel. Occasionally, he takes the initiative to apologize and coax me. I also think he is so good to me. People just want to work hard and I don’t support them, so they just manage money. 200,000 quit and handed it over to him.
Without a month, at the end of 19, the epidemic broke out and production was suspended. The previous losses have not had time to remedy, and new losses have come again. The business has been closed for a short period of six months. Employees insurance, wages, housing and property are all invested without income. I told him that no matter how difficult it is, we will survive together. Natural disasters are not you or me. He who can control him, he also lays down his own face. As long as he can earn money, he will do everything. No matter how tired he is, he is really happy at that time. Although the family is almost lost, at least people have it. Motivated.
The company reopened in the summer of 20,I also thought he had grown up after going through this, but I really can't underestimate people's inertia. I used to work in a state-owned enterprise very early, and the job content was pension, and the salary was not high. Later, he said that there was not enough manpower. If he didn't let me come to the company to help, I would resign and go to my own company. From the day I joined the company, the two of us have not quarreled.
The company goes to work at 9 o’clock. He never arrives on time, or he doesn’t go, or he has lunch at noon, and then he goes to the company. He didn’t do anything. It was just a nap in his mind. Here, he is the boss, so you don’t have to arrive early. In my mind, we didn’t have a successful business. To put it bluntly, we were working for employees and landlords. If a company employee takes a break, he should also take a break. At this point, they are very principled, and work is discussed in the company, and they don't think about things about the company's work. He thinks I can’t be idle and I’ve been working all the time, so he said that I’m fine looking for trouble, and I’m just doing nothing. But people can take a nap for two hours at the company at noon, and then get up to play games (or fucking Lianliankan). He thinks my company thinks too much and is too complicated; he thinks I don't like to laugh, talk less, and scare his employees. I wonder if I did the same 8 years ago. Are you reacting now? ?
This year I don’t know how many times this has been repeated, not being motivated, quarreling, becoming hardworking, not being motivated, quarreling, and becoming hardworking...
days It hasn’t changed for the better, and life hasn’t changed for the better. Except for the real estate, I lost everything. Not only I lost it, but I also had a debt of about one million. As long as I had money, I would help him. Everything went into battle, but it really couldn't hold up to tens of thousands of expenditures each month. We calmed down and talked about it two days ago.
I said that if this continues, maybe the family will lose money. Now we let go, we are not without emotional foundation, I will accompany you to pay off the debt, we work hard together, no matter how hard it is, no matter how tired it is, He still didn’t want to let go, and didn’t want to close the company. I was so angry that I said that if you want to do it, just fucking do it, crawling maggots in the lazy maggots every day, at most two months there will be no money to invest in it, you If you don’t turn it off, you have to turn it off,I have already expressed my attitude. I can accompany you to pay off the debt and accompany you to make a comeback. If you insist on hanging on this tree, or you make a choice, I and the company you choose one.
The last question I asked him has not yet answered me.
I had a big quarrel with him at his parents’ house yesterday, and it continued until after 3 o’clock. Seeing a lot of suggestions and some comforting words from my friends, I was still shaken. My heart has some firmness. I usually don’t have a place to talk. My parents don’t know the current situation. I don’t want to say that my parents have taken care of me since childhood, but they have no time or no time to care about me. Energy, when I go to school, I can’t stop contacting them if I call them, otherwise they can not ask a question for a month. I saw a respondent who said that he didn’t like fish since he was a child, but his parents couldn’t remember. I can remember the food that my relatives’ children don’t like, and what my own children don’t eat is just not remembering. In the end, I broke out at the dinner table.
I don’t like fish either. I’ve never liked it since I was a child. My parents can’t remember. Every time I go home, we should eat fish. If I’m nutritious, I don’t gain weight. I haven't exploded, and I hate the taste of fish, but I still eat...
The influence of the original family makes me accustomed to if a small resistance is ignored, I will compromise and shut up in the end.
For the marriage of our two, although I have a strong temper, but he really wants to insist on something, I will softly compromise.
I remember that he once asked me that you are cold and indifferent to everyone, it is difficult to approach people, except that you like cats and dogs, don’t like food, don’t like money, don’t like playing, really don’t know you like it What, I said I like no pressure, no worry, like freedom.
He thought I was farting... I thought I was too idealistic, and taught me that I must have dreams when I live, I must be self-motivated, I must have pursuits, and I must not sit and eat.To make progress, I won’t be able to keep up with him one day when he makes progress too fast. I may not be able to wait any longer,
When the money is not up, it is almost the same when he enters.
Back last night, the table was overturned, the glass broke, and his face was beaten and swollen. It wasn't me who beat him, his mother beat him.
I was helping in his parents’ shop, and when he came back from socializing and drinking, as soon as he walked in, he said that you were holding a face in the company, and my father and mother were also holding this face. We all owe you Yes, I was so angry that I stood up and pushed a table. When my head heated up, any unpleasant words fell out. For your dream, everyone in your career was giving you back (his father and mother gave it to you) He paid back 200,000, and no one in the family was spared), without giving you too much pressure, do you think you have done a good job?
You are a man who has no sense of responsibility since he got married. If you want a child, you have to grow up on soil, and you have to wear ass and pants. If you don't have that ability, you should not be able to do so. He may be said to be anxious, saying that it was his fault. I can't go to death, and the debts will be cleared, and you will not be troubled. After speaking, he overturned the table.
I lifted my butt and went out.
As soon as his parents saw it, they chased them out. I watched the three of them quietly. I don’t know why I didn’t have tears to shed. He said there were no waves in my heart. I listened outside. It was messy, his father scolded, and his mother scolded him for a long time. His mother dragged him back and slapped him up a dozen times and said, "Are you still letting your parents live?" You are dead and debts cleared. You are evasive and irresponsible. You have done such a thing, and you say that you don't care, let your 60's father, mother and daughter-in-law wipe your ass, are you human? If you can't do it, it's a big deal. You are a scumbag to shirk responsibility. Can your wife remarry your parents? If you die, we won’t live anymore, or you should watch me die in front of you first, and blame us for not educating you well.You gave birth to something like this...
I was a little bit happy in my heart... His mother finished what I hadn't said yet. Actually, I said he might not have a reaction, but his mother said it was different. He didn't speak for a long time. After a while, he should have been slapped and drunk. He began to admit his mistakes. Basically, he never said those words again. His thinking was too simple before, and he couldn't let his parents suffer from following him. Give him two months, give up if it doesn't work, and look for a job. His mother dragged him to me and asked him to confess his mistake
I didn’t remember what he said. I kept flashing this sentence in my head, hopefully the worst devil, because he extended Human suffering.
I have been married for three years, and there is no problem with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. My mother-in-law treats me very well. I go back to my natal home once a week, and my mother still has to ask me why you are back again, don’t you know that distance produces beauty? There will be no conflicts about going there every day, nor will it interfere with our lives. They are unwilling to let them live in our house during the Chinese New Year. The in-laws say that everyone has their own way of life, and there are places where they are not used to living together. .
After the epidemic, my mother-in-law also told me that her son was not doing well enough in some things. She knew that I didn’t like to talk. If you can’t hold back, you can tell her. Now this problem is already there. If you still have feelings, we will help you deal with the aftermath, and you will never fall to the ground. If you really can’t accept it, we will sell the house and pay you the debt you helped him. Your young couple’s fate may be destined to happen. here.
I am really touched. They are indeed good people.
I have also convinced myself that it’s good to be a good person, but what's the point of losing money?
But to be honest, be selfish, who wants to pay for the laziness and dullness of others?
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