In September 2013, a man named Han Lei in Dongyang, Zhejiang Province, was rushed to the hospital with blood in his lower body. He is not acutely ill, but suffered a castration of the lower body! The doctor found that his genitals were much shorter than the average person. After a simple questioning, he knew that this was the second time he had been castrated! Only three months have passed since the tragedy was castrated for the first time! What's even more confusing is that the person who hurt him twice was the wife who got along with him day and night! What is the deep hatred of the couple that made the wife bitter her husband twice?
With the in-depth investigation of the case, the truth gradually surfaced...
1. A warm man regards compassion as love, and his life is ruined by a wrong marriage
Back then, Han Lei knew the incumbent His wife Qiu Lishi is 22 years old, young, simple and beautiful. At that time, Han Lei was working in a food company. Qiu Li was only 16 years old at the time. After being introduced by a fellow villager, she also came to this company to work as a worker in the assembly line.
Two people who didn't know each other, because of a visit, gradually became familiar with each other. That time, Qiu Li's fellow villager took her to the dormitory to play, and Han Lei happened to be there.
According to Han Lei, he will always remember the first time he saw Qiu Li. She was thin and small, her eyes dodged, and she was not confident. Han Lei noticed this shy girl.
Later, Han Lei heard about Qiu Li's life experience from his colleagues: Qiu Li's father often beats her mother when she is unhappy. The mother couldn't bear it, so she filed for divorce and left by herself overnight. Qiu Li's father was wandering outside and did not go home for many months. Qiu Li seemed to be an orphan, begging for life in the eyes of her relatives, and never experienced the warmth of motherly love and fatherly love since she was a child. After graduating from junior high school, she went out to work.
After learning about Qiu Li's life, Han Lei, a warm boy, sympathizes with Qiu Li and cares about Qiu Li in work and life. At that time, Han Lei just felt that Qiu Li was pitiful and loved her as a younger sister, with no other emotions.
I don't want to, such a normal concern will ruin Han Lei's life in the future, or even fall into the abyss!
Back then, Han Lei's concern gave Qiu Li a different feeling and received unprecedented warmth. During the Spring Festival of 2001, Han Lei couldn't bear to see Qiu Li, who was alone in her dormitory, preparing for the New Year. Finally, boldly proposed to invite Qiu Li back to her hometown for the New Year. If you say that your hometown Anhui is a tourist destination, you should treat it as a tourist.
Qiu Li readily agreed.
After arriving at Han Lei's hometown, Han's mother saw this thin and shy girl, and she was also very impressed. Han Lei's family treated Qiu Li with great enthusiasm, and Han's mother even recognized Qiu Li as a goddaughter.
Qiu Li, who has never felt the warmth of home, was moved by this wave of care. On the way back to the company, Qiu Li moved to Han Lei and said, "I really envy you for having a warm home!" because of Han. My mother recognized Qiu Li as a goddaughter, and Han Lei comforted: "From then on, you are our family!"
Qiu Li smiled emotionally...
Return to the company from home After going to work, Han Lei clearly felt that Qiu Li's feelings for herself were different. Qiu Li's eager gaze will follow wherever he goes, Qiu Li even regards Han Lei as the only support in this world!
Facing Qiu Li's sudden emotions, Han Lei was mixed with sorrow and joy!
The joy is that Qiu Li finally feels the warmth of home, which makes Han Lei very pleased; the worry is that Qiu Li's strange feelings for herself make herself at a loss, and she didn't think about it!
However, Han Lei then thought again, a girl gave herself all the sustenance and emotions, isn't this still love?
Therefore, Han Lei took Qiu Li back to his hometown in the second year of the Spring Festival, intending to see his parents. In his heart, he recognized Qiu Li and planned to marry her.
Han's mother heard her son's thoughts, but she didn't agree with her, and quietly reminded Han Lei: "This girl is more paranoid, please think about it."
Han Lei is sincere to her mother. Said: "I feel I am responsible for Qiu Li, she needs me!"
After hearing what her son said, Han's mother sighed silently. But she couldn't hold back her son, and finally acquiesced to the marriage.
Han Lei and Qiu Li hosted a wedding banquet in their hometown. Since Qiu Li had not yet reached the legal age for marriage, she waited until their children were born before re-applying for the marriage certificate.
In the first few years, Han Lei and Qiu Li's family of three had a happy life. Han Lei knows that he loves his daughter-in-law, and he doesn't even let Qiu Li do the housework. He provides warmth and support to his daughter-in-law and baby as much as possible.
There is such a good man. Ordinarily, they should always live happily. Who knows, the next marriage will develop in the opposite direction, and even Han Lei’s life is almost dead!
All this, the kind-hearted Han Lei did not expect at all!
Second, the character is extreme and suspicious,In order to ensure the safety of the marriage, I will kill her husband
Although Han Lei is very good to Qiu Li and her son, Qiu Li is still not at ease. Thinking of her unbearable past, she feels insecure and gives Han Lei from time to time. Ringing the alarm bell: "You have your blood on the child, you must be good to the child!" At this time, Han Lei would gently say: "Don't worry, I swear to be good to you both!"
A woman is enough to have such a good man!
However, Qiu Li is not satisfied. In addition to ringing the alarm from time to time, she also has a lot of doubts. She loves to ponder many small things back and forth.
This makes Han Lei a little upset. But thinking of Qiu Li's life experience, he still has a little more understanding and tolerance for his wife, and he secretly determined in his heart that he will work hard to be his wife's lifelong support!
Seeing children grow up day by day, in order to provide them with a good standard of living, Han Lei wants to go out to work and earn money. Because of his hard work, Han Lei was quickly appreciated by the leaders and was responsible for the company's sales work.
The two places are separated, together with less and more, and the lack of communication makes Qiu Li even more insecure, and her suspicion becomes more serious!
Once washing socks, she found that Han Lei was wearing a new pair of socks, so she cried and asked which woman bought it? Han Lei was dumbfounded, explaining that he went to wash his feet with the client. After the massage, the waiter changed a pair of new ones. Finally, Han Lei invited a colleague to testify, and Qiu Li just let it go!
This is a trivial matter, but Qiu Li takes it to heart, the more she thinks about it, the more she feels insecure. In order to hold her husband’s heart, she proposed to have another child,I want to use a child to hold Han Lei firmly!
Han Lei agreed.
In the second year, their second son was born. With the birth of the child, in addition to the short-term joy, Qiu Li is more painful. Because her husband is busy with work, together with a lot of gathering and separation, the burden of taking care of the two children falls on Qiu Li. Not only did she not increase the so-called sense of security, on the contrary, she became more and more depressed.
As Han Lei is busy at work, his concern for his wife has gradually diminished. The suspicious Qiu Li suspects that Han Lei has a problem, he must be someone outside! Will gradually become indifferent to oneself. After
, Qiu Li often cried and yelled, feeling that Han Lei had betrayed herself and even committed suicide. Han Lei was tortured by Qiu Li gradually tired, the original warm home has now become unsightly, Han Lei is unwilling to go home. He used his excuses to be busy with work, and he went home less and less frequently, and his husband and wife life was also very cold. He hadn't touched Qiu Lili once in half a year!
In order to verify whether Han Lei is really someone outside, Qiu Li, who is very suspicious, started to follow her husband. Once, it was discovered by Han Lei. Han Lei had had enough, and finally broke out to question Qiu Li: "Are you just not trusting me? You actually followed me!" Qiu Li retorted, "I didn't do anything wrong, so why would I follow you?" Facing Qiu Li Unreasonably, Han Lei slammed the door and slammed the door.
Although it was Qiu Li's fault, a few days after the Cold War, Han Lei, thinking of Qiu Li's hardship with the two children alone, took the initiative to admit his mistake and brought Qiu Li to buy a pair of shoes downstairs. Qiu Li didn't say anything. Han Lei thought that Qiu Li was no longer angry, so he let out a long sigh of relief.
Who knows, the heart of a woman, the needle on the bottom of the sea, you never know what she is thinking!
One night a few days later,Han Lei drank a glass of milk and fell asleep deeply. Who would have thought that when he woke up again, he would be completely different! With blood flowing from his lower body, Qiu Li was holding half of her penis in her hand and a pair of big scissors in the other hand. Han Lei was tortured by the severe pain and wanted to live! It turned out that Qiu Li had always suspected that Han Lei had someone outside. In order to completely cut off the insecurity of her husband looking for someone outside, he decided to cut off Han Lei's lifeblood to eliminate future troubles!
When Han Lei opened his eyes desperately and looked at everything in front of him, Qiu Li hysterically said: "I let you be bothered outside, I let you divorce me!"
At this moment, Han Lei was knocked down by the pain of his heart, but his mind was still there. He tried his best to say, hurry up and call, or I will die!
Qiu Li didn't know whether she was flustered or scared. Instead of calling, she threw the cut off half of her penis into the toilet and washed it away with water.
Seeing this, Han Lei desperately took out his mobile phone and dialed 110 for help. At this time, Qiu Li, who was gradually waking up, hurriedly dialed 120 for first aid.
When Han Lei was sent to the hospital, the doctor was also frightened by the horror in front of him. The doctor asked Han Lei about half of the amputated penis. When told that he had been thrown into the toilet and washed away, the doctor regretted that if he could find it, he would still be able to get it.
Unfortunately, everything is too late.
The doctor also said that according to Han Lei's current situation, Han Lei's remaining penis erection should be considered, and then whether to do penile reconstruction, Han Lei's life will be severely damaged anyway!
The police asked Qiu Li about the specific situation. Qiu Li said that she suspected her husband had an affair, but Han Lei, who was lying on the bed, cried out injustice.Saying that he had no affair at all, colleagues around Han Lei also complained for Han Lei!
In the eyes of colleagues, Han Lei is honest and kind, but he does not like to express himself. Seeing this tragic situation, everyone knew that Han Lei and his wife had such a big contradiction.
Qiu Li over there regretted it afterwards and cried bitterly, saying that she didn't want this either. She cried bitterly and went to Han Lei to ask for forgiveness. He also said that no matter what Han Lei does in the future, he will take care of Han Lei with great care.
Faced with Qiu Li's apology and confession, Han Lei, who was lying on the hospital bed and tortured by pain, once again felt relieved. He thought of the shadow of his wife’s life when he was a child, of his wife who was still breastfeeding, of his youngest son who was less than a hundred days old, and shed tears in sadness. He thought that as long as Qiu Li really admitted her mistake, for the sake of the child, forgive her this time.
Therefore, the kind-hearted Han Lei went through a bail pending trial for his wife. A few days later, Qiu Li walked out of the detention center and saw the pale Han Lei holding her son waiting for herself outside the gate. She couldn't help crying again and sincerely thanked Han Lei for her understanding. Han Lei said after a long time: Let's go home. ……
Seeing her husband so generous, forgive yourself. After returning home, Qiu Li was very dedicated to her husband. She cooked various dishes and changed her medicine every day. Under Qiu Li's meticulous care, Han Lei's condition improved day by day.
However, Han Lei never dreamed that after only three months, he would be attacked by Qiu Li again!
What is the reason for Qiu Li to beat Han Lei for the second time?
third or second castrated husband,Qiu Li's crime is unforgivable
After more than two months of meticulous care, Han Lei's condition gradually improved, his pain was diminishing, and his face gradually turned red.
In order to understand the condition of Han Lei and help Han Lei recover better, Qiu Li often inquires related medical information online. Qiu Li learned that even though Han Lei's male roots were severed, he could still undergo reconstruction surgery, which could roughly recreate the male roots and possess certain male sexual functions.
Qiu Li also observed that Han Lei still has a normal erection in the morning, which means he still has the ability to have sex.
At the beginning, Qiu Li was very happy, thinking that she hadn't completely destroyed Han Lei, she felt a little more comforting.
But since Han Lei was injured, he resigned from his original unit and rested at home temporarily. Han Lei thought of having elderly parents and two sons to support. He was already scarred and unable to make money to support his family, which made him even more taciturn, lying in bed and using his mobile phone all day.
Her husband's indifference made Qiu Li, who is sensitive and fragile, aware of many abnormalities. Once, when Han Lei came back from a trip, Qiu Li found blood on her husband's underwear while helping him to wash his clothes.
It is said that Han Lei's wound has basically healed and will not bleed at all. Could it be caused by sex?
Qiu Li became more angry as she thought about it, and even fought a cold war all over her body. He can't stand his husband's betrayal again.
So, Qiu Li did something crazier this time.
She remembered what the doctor said,Although most of Han Lei's penis was broken, he could still have sex and even have offspring. Because the male seeds are hidden in the testicles.
The doctor's words are still in my ears, making Qiu Qiuli more and more frightened as she thinks about it, this time she will completely lose her fertility! Qiu Li thought, she still has two sons, and she can't let the two sons lose their fathers.
That night, Qiu Li turned out sleeping pills, crushed them and mixed them with Han Lei's rice. Han Lei soon fell asleep after eating. Qiu Li picked up the scissors and stretched to Han Lei's lower body a few minutes later, cutting his scrotum and squeezing out the testicles. Then she calmly reported the case and surrendered, and called the emergency number...
So the scene at the beginning appeared. Han Lei was sent to the hospital for the second time, and this castration was only three times away from the first time. Month...
The police also noticed that the situation was serious and immediately notified Han Lei's family. When Han’s mother saw her son’s tragic condition, she fainted on the spot...
IV. Lessons learned
After identification, Han Lei’s injury constituted a level 5 disability, and Qiu Li was extremely cruel. The practice will be subject to legal sanctions.
However, Han Lei's life will be ruined!
Why did this marriage come to such a situation? Why was Han Lei, who was kind and considerate and capable, was put to death twice by Qiu Li?
First of all, in the choice of marriage, we must consider the native family of both parties. Qiu Li's native family has no love, which is very unfortunate. Qiu Li, who grew up in this kind of family, has developed an inferiority complex, withdrawn and suspicious since she was a child.This is the core factor of this tragedy.
So when choosing a spouse, you must consider the other's native family. Bad mental illnesses and hidden dangers will accompany this person's life, planting bombs for subsequent marriages.
Secondly, young people must listen to the opinions of the elderly when choosing a spouse. Han Lei’s mother said that Qiu Li was a little bit paranoid and advised Han Lei to think about it.
Third, communication between husband and wife is very important. At that time, Han Lei was busy at work and neglected to care for his wife, which caused Qiu Li's lack of security and suspicion. If the husband and wife can communicate and understand more, the tragedy may not happen.
This is a tragedy. May it never happen again. Behind the story, I also hope to give you more vigilance and thinking.
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