When I first started working in the early years, I was reluctant to buy air tickets because of low wages, so I had to worry about buying train tickets every time before the Spring Festival. Once I encountered a little unexpected situation when buying tickets, I couldn’t help complaining when I was talking on the phone with my family: Why is there a New Year’s Day rule? Everyone squeezed home at one point in time to buy tickets. It's difficult.
My family said: Fortunately, there is a New Year, otherwise you who "float" outside will not even think of going home.
This answer that makes me feel very warm, I remember till now. Moreover, now I have discovered new features for the New Year's Day. This is not only a reminder to reunite with our family, but also a good time to connect with "old people".
Those who used to be very good friends or old colleagues, because they are usually busy and neglected to contact each other. Before he knew it, he was about to become a familiar stranger. Occasionally when I think of wanting to contact, I worry that "teaching out of unknown name" will cause people to worry about it. Therefore, the festival is a good excuse and bond, so that we can have the opportunity to regain those "old love" that we have missed because of our busy schedule.
A simple and sincere holiday blessing is a good "icebreaker". If the other party happens to be free and interested, they can have a chat with each other and decide the time for the next meeting by the way. If the other party has no time, or is temporarily unwilling, at least we also send a sincere blessing from an old friend. If we are sincere, the other party will definitely receive this sincerity. Having said that, I still feel it is necessary to say one more thing: Don't send mass blessing messages to the other party. A lot of people hate it,Believe me.
I don’t know when it’s no longer easy to maintain a friendship. Sometimes it seems that nothing happened, and each other inadvertently separated in the crowd. Of course, everything has a reason. The same is true for the alienation or end of a friendship. But there is also a kind of alienation called: I don't contact you, and you don't contact me. Then, each of us will gradually have new circles and new friends. When I think about contacting, it seems to have become a little deliberate. As a result, they are really estranged from each other.
If you have such an old person who is "unsatisfied", or someone you are thinking about and don't know how to talk to you. It's better to take advantage of the temperature of this festival and take the initiative to contact the other party. Maybe the other party really wants to contact you too.
People who take the initiative not only mean that they will take the lead, but it also means that they have more initiative in their own life. Now take the initiative to create your social opportunities and take the initiative to contact the person you are thinking about.
Even if it's just a simple recent greeting: Hey, I haven't contacted for a long time, how are you?
Even if it's just a sincere holiday blessing: Hey, happy holidays.
and above, encourage each other.
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