Figure/from the Internet
People at different ages often have different understandings and pursuits of love. When we were young, we might even want to pursue vigorous vigor, not for results, but for process. Even if we encounter a lot of resistance in the middle, we still won't give up easily, and even don't hesitate to be the enemy of the whole world.
But after living to a certain age, I have a certain social experience and life experience, and I have a more thorough understanding of interpersonal relationships. There will not be so many unrealistic fantasies when managing love. On the contrary, it will be more sensible and realistic, knowing how to proceed from reality instead of blindly willfulness, and only follow the inner feelings.
This is also the main reason why many middle-aged women are more difficult to chase than young girls.
At that time, they had seen a certain world and had a certain life experience, and would no longer easily believe the sweet words of men. Compared with nice love words or romantic actions, they are more concerned with practical actions.
For them, it doesn't matter whether love is passionate or not. What really matters is whether this feeling and the person in front of you can make them feel at ease.
No matter what age people, as long as they are emotional, they will definitely be able to detect them, even if they are cautious, they will find clues in the details.
Sometimes it may be a concerned look, it may be an intention that is not easily detectable by others, or it may be the eagerness that appears the first time when the other party needs help.
These are all signs of loving someone, especially for middle-aged women, the reason why they are still single at such an age,There are often certain stories.
either has its own unique pursuit, or has been hurt in the relationship, whether the former or the latter, will cause them to be more cautious about love and more realistic.
In this case, once they are tempted, they are serious enough. They definitely don't just want to play with you and just play with you.
If you are not sure whether they have a good opinion of you, you may wish to think carefully about whether she refuses when you make the following three requests. If it is, it means that she may just treat you as an ordinary friend, if not, it means that she is moved by you.
1: Asking to ask her out alone, she did not refuse to go there
We live in a fast-paced era, few people really slow down, read a book, taste a pot of tea, or follow one People who really trust can talk heart-to-heart.
Most of the time, we are in a hurry, either working overtime at the company, or staying at home alone after get off work, rarely going out, and quietly enjoying time alone with ourselves.
In this case, if you are a woman who does not refuse your solo invitation and is willing to go out on a date with you, it means that in her heart, you are not as simple as an ordinary friend of the opposite sex. It occupies an extremely important position.
Otherwise, how could she give up her free time and go out alone with you? From a certain perspective, not rejecting means acquiescence.
If a woman is still single in middle age, it can be seen that there is a high pursuit of love.Unless you are sure of who you are and have a good feeling for you, you will be given certain hints that you are willing to continue to develop with you.
Otherwise, you may choose to refuse at the beginning, and you will not waste energy and time on you.
You must know that where a person’s time is spent, his heart is. Modern people's social circle is very limited. Not rejecting means having a good impression of you. Only by seizing the opportunity will the fate not slip away.
Two: She proposes to go to her house, she is ready in advance to welcome in every possible way
Imagine, under what circumstances would a person invite a friend of the opposite sex to come to the house? Either you have a crush on him and have a good feeling for him, or there is something special and you need his help.
If she did not actively invite you to her house, but when you asked to go to her house, she not only did not refuse, but prepared in advance and welcomed in every possible way, indicating that in her heart, you are different from ordinary friends of the opposite sex. the same.
She attaches great importance to the time spent alone with you, and she also tacitly assumes that the relationship with you has gone further.
If you are just ordinary friends of the opposite sex, you may not even have the opportunity to be alone, so how can you date alone at home?
All adults understand that being alone in a private space can easily have some ambiguity, sometimes in deep love, and even some intimate contact.
If this step is related, it means that the two are no longer pure friends of the opposite sex, and have gradually developed from friendship to love.Even if I didn't say it for the time being, it was already tacit.
III: Proposing to have further contact and development, she chose the default
men and women often go through a period of ambiguity before officially confirming their relationship. During this time, they are both I didn't say anything, but there will be a lot of over-intimacy behaviors, not only do not refuse each other, but enjoy it very much.
This includes saying some ambiguous love words, subconsciously making some ambiguous actions, etc. If a middle-aged woman does not refuse when you propose to have further contact and development, it means that she has acquiesced to you The relationship between.
At this time, you might as well take the initiative and seize the opportunity. At this time, she is already past the age of hearing love. Compared with young girls, she is more sensible, more sober, and more realistic. How can a person who truly trusts be so devoted to each other.
In the long journey of life, we seem to meet many people, but there are only a few who are really fate in the world.
During this process, if you meet someone you really like, please be brave and take the initiative. Don't let this fate slip away, otherwise, if you miss it, you may never meet it in your life.
Love occupies an extremely important position in our lives. It is a rare blessing to be lucky enough to meet the right person. Only by seizing this fortune can we embrace happiness closely.
END.
.-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-