1. When a man can't give her the life she wants
Both men and women will have longings and yearning for future daily necessities, but when walking in a real life, they promised when men pursued them. Those visions of her future life were shattered one by one, and when she couldn't achieve the life she wanted, she was the easiest to change her mind.
The vows made by men in the past months are so beautiful, but life is not a blank and pale vow, not an unfulfilled promise. It is the need to see actual changes and see more and more from the ideal life Nearly real. There is no good car and big house that I once promised. I still live in that small rental house. I am still looking forward to the house. Day after day, people will feel cold and lose the hope of life. In order to live a good life for oneself, for the children to have a good growth environment and educational resources in the future, it is impossible to remain unchanged.
loves her, and works hard to fulfill the original promise and make the original vow a reality.
2. When a man breaks her heart to despair
When a woman chooses rationally and emotionally, she is actually more emotional, but when two people enter marriage, they face the world. In the real marriage of pyrotechnics, how many women were disappointed in this relationship after being injured by a man and finally chose to let go.
The union of people is for the sweet love at the beginning, and for the long-lasting emotions. But real life always dilutes that emotion inadvertently, and will always be betrayed by emotion at some point. Whether it is the obvious emotional damage such as violence and derailment after marriage, or the hidden damage that outsiders can't see by PUA, asexual marriage, manipulative marriage, etc., how many women will despair of this long-term emotional despair,So he chose to abandon the agreement he had kept together.
Love her, as always, love her, just as sweet as when I was in love at the beginning, spoil her all my life, only her.
3. A man allows her to bear all of life alone without sharing and understanding her
In life, a woman always finds the real man after marriage, whether it is Mabao A man or a young master, whether he has no responsibility or no spine, a true lover surrenders all or most of the burden of life to a woman. If she does not understand the difficulties of a woman, a woman's change of heart is inevitable.
The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage is constant conflict. The key point that cannot be resolved is that the man in it cannot face and resolve it head-on, and cannot understand from the perspective of his lover, so that the dispute will not stop. How many Ma Bao men listen to their mothers, but have no opinion and ability to take care of their small family with their wives; how many men like young masters who only want the care and concern of women, but never take the initiative to care for women, Marrying a wife is like finding a maid; how many men will only perish after being struck by life, unable to regain their strength, family affairs all depend on women, and life is for women to provoke them all. All these, how can a woman remain unchanged.
Marriage life, the future of the family is a business jointly run by two people, we must learn to understand, care and share.
4. Outside men give her what she lacks
Life always gives us more temptations, whether it is the extravagant life in reality or the exquisite video transmission To show off their wealth, how many people are lost in material scarcity and emotional temptation in barrier-free connectivity.
The current video is more or less conveying the so-called exquisite life,How many movies and TV dramas are spreading the lives of wealthy and wealthy families, even those boring novels are always the author's pornographic works that accompany the rich and live the life of the master overnight, but how many women are lost in it. When the emotions are missing in real married life, those sweet talks from outside men make them think it is true love, and the few brand bags of those rich people can make them think that they have met the golden turtle son-in-law, so that they can throw themselves into the arms of strangers without hesitation. .
The temptation will always exist, because people's desires can never be satisfied. It's just that in the face of temptation, some people can see it wisely, and some people get lost in it.
Men, if you meet a woman who really loves and enter into marriage with her, then treat it wholeheartedly.
A woman, if she meets a scumbag in life who thinks he really loves, she will be happy if she is away from the scumbag.
Life will give each of us experience and lessons, but when faced with the same things, learn to see clearly, learn to choose, learn to avoid risks, and not to repeat the same mistakes. In the face of a lover who may change his heart, if you still have the original love in your heart, go and redeem it; if there is none, let it go.
The other party has changed his mind. Please see your own problems first. Don't blindly impose the problem on the other party. The so-called slap in the face will not cause any problems unilaterally. Sober change of heart is a kind of relaxed letting go, letting go one way of life for each other, letting go one way of life for love. The confused change of heart is a kind of mutual abuse, and it is another injury to the wounded soul.
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