Since advocating the freedom of marriage, the pattern of love has begun to appear, and a large number of enthusiastic men and women have sprung up like mushrooms after a rain. The first love is to get married. Examples of "lovers finally becoming married" are everywhere. But I don’t know why. Since when, love and marriage have been separated, and they have become two different things.
The only thing that remains unchanged is blind dates. In the past, "matchmaking" was a good profession, and the marriages that were facilitated were countless, but gradually declined after being impacted by the "love tide", coupled with the "lack of integrity" of some women— -Fraudulent gifts and high divorce rates have caused matchmakers to shoulder greater risks and credibility crises, and they have completely drove the "matchmaker" industry into "hell"-disappearing.
I don't know if you have discovered a phenomenon: the divorce rate of marriage in love is much higher than the divorce rate of marriage on blind date. Do you know why this is? In fact, the reason is also very simple. Love is "satisfaction with warm water and fullness". You don't need to consider anything. As long as you have passion, freshness and attractiveness, you can be together. As for the future, it is not within the scope of consideration. Love There are only two of them in this world, and they have nothing to do with the others. Once two people in love enter into marriage and come into contact with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and they need more real money to sustain their lives, the situation will be different. Two faces before marriage and after marriage are normal. It is inevitable that money will cause conflicts to intensify. How much love was at the beginning, and how straightforward and determined the divorce will be. This is the fragility of love-it is ultimately lost to reality.
The opposite is blind date. The purpose of blind date is very clear. It is to live a life of marriage, so when men and women meet, they will go straight to the subject. You should talk about it, and ask you about it. Although talking about houses, cars and tickets is very vulgar, and is also called "material", these things are also indispensable in real life! Isn't it? Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. Therefore, both men and women and their parents will put a lot of things on the surface, especially when it comes to economic issues, so as to prevent hidden dangers. Afterwards, unnecessary family conflicts or disputes arise. This blind date model is actually the old model of "marry first and fall in love" in the traditional sense, but it is also the most stable marriage model, otherwise it would not have been practiced and passed down in China for thousands of years.
Anyway,Marriage has developed to the point where it is today. The divorce rate is so high and it has a lot to do with the chosen marriage model. After all, a stable marriage is built on a solid economic foundation. After all, love cannot be eaten, it can be but not Necessities of life, aren't they?
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