is for most people. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict, but if there is a reliable husband, the marriage will not get worse.
Of course, no matter how reasonable the husband is, the parents who don’t share the oil and salt are also quite a headache.
(1)
Song Jia is an extremely insecure person. It was difficult for her to establish a solid relationship with others since she was a child. Her parents often persuade her to change, and she has tried to change, but every time she ends up without disease. In the end, she decided not to change in order to cater to others, and to be a maverick.
At the age of 23, she met Zhang Ke, a person who was extremely tolerant of her. But even after talking for three years, when it was time to get married, she was still very hesitant in her heart. Do you want to enter marriage? Are in-laws easy to get along with? Are his brothers and sisters hard to talk? A series of questions made her very entangled in love, and she would think of these every time there were signs of noisy.
Finally they got married.
(2)
When she was married far away, she was in contact with her in-laws at first and found that she was not as difficult to get along with as she imagined.
Zhang Ke's family is on the outskirts of the county, and his parents are still at work. After learning that Song Jia was pregnant, the boss fired her. She didn't think much about it at the time, just thinking about going back to her in-law's house and staying first.
At the beginning, she was also thinking about the difficulty of her in-laws, so she bought vegetables and cooked for them every day. But more than a month later, Zhang Ke's cousin joked with her: You have been at home for so long, and you don't have to pay for living expenses?
Song Jia was puzzled and said directly: I bought the food, and I made the rice. What living expenses do I still need to pay?
Once again, Zhang Ke's sister-in-law also came over and chatted: You are so lucky. Your mother-in-law will take you to the city for an obstetric check once a month. It's so cool to eat and drink. It's like me, I haven't had a birth check.
Song Jia just realized it,The mother-in-law has been setting up her person-in-law outside. Song Jia went to the check-ups alone.
When Song Jia's belly was getting bigger and it was inconvenient to cook, her mother-in-law said: So hypocritical, I was still working on the last day of my life.
At this time, Zhang Ke was not happy anymore, and he went back directly: Can it compare with the present?
(3)
When it was learned that Song Jiasheng was a daughter, the father-in-law did not visit the hospital. As for the mother-in-law, she went home on the spot. Fortunately, Song Jia was born in good order, and Zhang Ke has been waiting for her with all her heart for the past three days.
After staying at home for less than ten days, Zhang Ke has to go to work again. He told his parents to take good care of Song Jia.
But when he went out with his front foot, his in-laws followed his back foot.
The most amazing thing is that the mother-in-law prepares breakfast at five o'clock every day, and then calls Song Jia up again and again. Song Jia is very sleepy at this time, where can he get up?
When she woke up, her mother-in-law was no longer at home. It wasn't until three o'clock in the afternoon that the mother-in-law came back to get some porridge and vegetables, and they disappeared again. It wasn't until 8 or 9 in the evening that my mother-in-law came back to make dinner. It was multi-grain porridge and green vegetables.
After a few days, Song Jia was also helpless. The most important thing is that the milk is not enough, and the mother-in-law is still talking about her mother-in-law, which is hypocritical. Give birth to a girl film, and still have the confidence to make people wait?
After one or two times, Song Jia broke out completely. After a big quarrel with her in-laws, she packed her things and prepared to wait for her husband to pick it up.
Just like that, Song Jia, who hadn't been confined yet, just left her husband's house. The in-laws didn't mean to stay.
(four)
Zhang Ke rented a house near the factory, got up early to buy good food, and came home from get off work to cook for the two women,
But that’s it, Song Jia’s confinement is still not there. Sit down and get down all the troubles. Lumbar intervertebral disc herniation , my back pain is severe every day. Sometimes my head hurts badly. Although I went to a lot of hospitals, it still had no effect.
During these twelve years, the husband and wife have been working in the city and changed jobs several times in the middle, but the family of three still lived happily.
During this period, Zhang Ke was diligent and down-to-earth. After get off work, she also accompanied Song Jia to clean up the housework and counsel her daughter in study. The relationship between the husband and wife is stable and lasting.
During the Chinese New Year, Song Jia took her daughter back to her natal home. Zhang Ke first returned to her home, and then transferred to his father-in-law's mother-in-law's home to pick her up twice back to work in the city.
In this way, we have been in peace. Song Jia watched her husband's efforts and slowly changed her attitude towards her in-laws. After two or three years, I will accompany my husband to go home. Even my in-laws will still make things difficult, but for the sake of her husband, Shinobu will pass.
(5)
They also worked hard and finally bought a house in this third-tier city with down payment. Song Jia was also relieved, this is what is called a peaceful life.
As the summer vacation is approaching, Zhang Ke said to Song Jia: I want to take my parents to live here for a period of time, can't you?
Song Jia has been thinking about it for so many years. It is really not easy for Zhang Ke to be caught on both sides. Nowadays, I rarely deal with the old couple. Just one summer vacation should be fine. He agreed to the husband's request.
But even Zhang Ke did not expect that after twelve years of hard work, this summer vacation, he was almost beaten back to the beginning.
It turns out that after the in-laws came, they couldn't control their mouths at all, and they kept talking all day long.
My daughter enrolled in an interest class during summer vacation, and they said every day that her granddaughter: What's the use of learning this? It's a waste of money. When your dad's money was picked up?
And Song Jia occasionally works overtime late. When her husband prepares food, her in-laws at the dinner table say: How can a woman not cook? Have to wait on her husband? What fate is this? Don't know what you're up to all day long? We are here to enjoy the blessing, not to come to see you bullying my son... Zhang Ke can't persuade him.
It doesn't matter if you move your mouth, sometimes you even do it.
Some potted flowers on the balcony were plucked by them and planted vegetables.
And the items in the house are always messed up. They either say that they are not placed in the right place, or that they shouldn't be fiddled with. Even the bedroom of the husband and wife often moves around passively. A bed in the bedroom has to be turned around in a week. The children's toy books are messed up.
When Song Jia couldn't bear it, she gave Zhang Ke an ultimatum: They go, or I will go with my daughter. You figure it out.
It’s easy to ask God to give it to God. Zhang Ke and his parents had a hard time pleading, and finally had no choice but to go crazy: What do you want to do? Are you looking forward to my divorce from Song Jia? Other parents look forward to their children's happiness and family happiness. Are you expecting my wife to disperse? Why? That's how you treat your son?
Finally, under Zhang Ke's hard work, the parents reluctantly agreed to go back, and at this time, the summer vacation was just halfway through. This family has also restored the past laughter.
(six)
Some people say that there are no other parents in the world. But sometimes, there are really parents who do not consider their children.
Why should a daughter-in-law be spoiled like a princess before marriage, and be angry with her in-laws every day after marriage?
Good intentions or unintentional. After a long time, I will naturally get bored.
When encountering abusive parents, it is often the children who are unlucky, because in their eyes, you are doing well, they don't care. What they want is they care. This will naturally cause conflicts in small families.
No more than interfering in their children's lives, allowing them to enjoy the warmth of a small family, this is what they should consider.
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