After finally entering the circle of the upper class, I became the clown in the eyes of others.

There are always some voices in

saying: " what kind of person you want to be, first of all be with the person you want to be."

The meaning of these words seems to be, you are with the person you want to be , You will become that kind of person.

After all, things are gathered together, and people are divided into groups.

Regardless of right or wrong, recently, a colleague named Lin has successfully entered the circle she wanted to go to—the circle of superiors.

It’s a bit unpleasant to say that the first class people these days, after all, everyone is stepping on the same land, and the ending is just a small box sleeping, so it feels like "the classmates" again. People are a little shameless, who is inherently lowly, isn't it?

But although people are not measured by the so-called "high-class" and "low-class" in this world, it is undeniable that money does divide people into three, six or nine classes, and this level is abbreviated as --- Class.

High-class people, financial people like to say "high net worth" people, that is, the circle of rich people.

Lin, who was born in an ordinary family and does an ordinary administrative job, although a small inconspicuous role, still has big dreams of becoming a rich man.

This dream is not shameful. After all, in this messy world, who can really live as a fairy? People who don't love money, I have never seen it since I was born.

However, in the past few years, the media has always mentioned "classification", which is not groundless, so it is not easy for an ordinary girl like Lin to stand up. After trying to no avail, she thought of a shortcut to get closer to the real rich.

Even if you can't marry yourself, you can still enter the circle of rich people. Doesn't it pave the way for your future plans?

Lin looks in the mirror,Although other conditions are average, Lin still has some confidence in her beauty.

Although Lin's family is ordinary, but fortunately, her distant relative has a cousin. The business has been very prosperous over the years, but she has not survived her hardships, and promised to take her to "see the world."

As for why her cousin didn't take her by herself, the reason is very simple, the relationship is too far, too lazy to care!

So, within a period of time, I saw Lynn as soon as she was off the class, and she left happily, and accompanied her rich cousin to various dinners.

How the process was unknown, but this situation only lasted for a month or two, and Lin stopped going. She who loves beauty usually doesn't even put on makeup.

She seems to have changed herself. She started to work steadily. In her spare time, she stopped chatting with other people about gossip, but quietly flipping through various books.

At the end of the year, Lin won the "Excellent Employee Award". Standing on the podium, she looked so confident and composed, which made us feel that she was much more beautiful than ever.

Later, we couldn't help but ask her, what has gone through that changed her so much?

She said, because I discovered some truths, and this truth was learned from the dinners of the rich.

In the beginning, every time she went to dinner with her cousin, she worked hard to integrate into the circle of the rich. She took the initiative to toast them, greet them, and make them laugh.

She thought that they would also like her very much, at least on the surface.

Until one day, when she arrived very early, she put on makeup in the toilet in the private room to make sure that when the guests came, she would be able to shine.

Just when she was sitting on the toilet and putting on make-up, someone walked in and listened to her recently common Bao brother and Li brother.

"Hey, old Bao, you said that the girl named Lin recently, why do you follow her every day to eat and drink?"

"What else can you do? Don’t look at yourself, don’t look at yourself.

Lin can hear the sound of "Brother Bao" washing her hands,"This kind of woman, I don't have much ability, so I think about sugar daddy, we are looking for it, not looking for her like this!"

"Yes, you said that we have many beautiful and capable women in this game. We have to go. For example, her cousin Li Yan, she is a serious graduate student, and her own company, we want to marry and marry this kind of thing, right."

Brother Bao turned off the faucet," said Yes, but after seeing this game with such a confused idiot, looking an eyesore, she still thinks she is more attractive."

"Hey! Girls now, forget it, Brother Bao, Don't worry about her."

According to Lin herself, that night, she waited until everyone had gone before walking out of the toilet, her face dizzy with tears.

Since that time, she no longer participates in any so-called "premium" wine bureau, let alone to please anyone.

", if you have the strength, will others treat you as equals ." Lin said calmly.

This sentence is exactly the opposite of the sentence "what kind of person you want to be, you must first be with the person you want to be".

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a great person, but before you want to stand on an equal footing with that kind of person, you should first accumulate capital and cultivate yourself.

After all, if others are willing to sit with you, the premise is to see "what can you give to me".

When you have your own value, you will be truly understood and respected .

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