All married men and women yearn for happiness after marriage, but they don't understand that love also requires peace of mind.
People have different experiences, and grinding is an indispensable process. Only those who are willing to be tolerant and peaceful to their lover can maintain the integrity of love for a long time.
You have to know the fact that no matter how earth-shaking the mountain alliance and each other are, it cannot be worthy of an inseparable companionship; no matter how unforgettable the love is, it is not as good as the plain happiness.
Only when you are by your side can you be considered possessed, and love can last until you get used to it.
"You have nothing to do with taking care of the children, divorce!" Three months later, the man who gave out these cruel remarks and chose to divorce without looking back, turned around and asked him to remarry.
But the result was quite slapped, which made him regret it.
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In this world, except for men, half of the rest are women.
Don't underestimate the abilities of women! If the existence of a woman is dispensable, in the process of hundreds of millions of years of evolution, perhaps this gender has long ceased to exist.
This is a very simple truth, and it is also the reason why men fall in love and get married. Even if some people don't want to admit it, they can't live without a woman at all.
But for a man like Qiao Hongwei, he doesn't seem to understand this.
Approximately in his mind, he thinks that his wife is not going to work or making money is equivalent to eating idle meals, so he despises her, thinking that she has gradually become his own burden and burden. Regarding her as a parasite in the body, the rice worm in the rice tank, she generally dislikes and treats her, but she does not know how much intangible effort it takes to take care of a home, and how much time and energy it takes.
People who lack the ability to empathize and think about the other side are quite terrible!
because they only think about things from their own point of view, and they have mental consciousness and visual blindness,Obviously, he was full of prejudice and narrow-mindedness in his heart, but he still believed that his ideas were all right. Such an arbitrary decision ultimately failed and hurt the people around him as well as himself.
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After giving birth, because there is no one in the family to take the child, the wife temporarily quit her job and concentrates on bringing the baby at home.
Now the child is over one year old, and her idea is to take the child to kindergarten and then come back to find a job. But he couldn't bear it before the child grew up to be able to leave his parents and enter the nursing facility.
Why? Because I feel tired at work, the pressure and competition are still quite large.
In addition, his wife has no income, and the three mouths in the family depend on his income. Such a reality makes him feel bloated, but also feel that his wife is lazy, incompetent, and dependent.
was originally just a few occasional nagging words in life to vent the inner dissatisfaction and exhaustion.
However, when he was in a bad mood when he was criticized by the leader at the unit, his wife had a dispute with him because of his children and family trivial matters. He was already prejudiced and disgusted, and he directly uttered bad words. Said to the other person:
"You still have the face to say that I am irresponsible and careless about my family? In order to raise your wife, I am about to become a mule and horse. I am exhausted all the time. Haven't I contributed yet? Look at it. It’s up to you. It’s nothing but bringing a baby. You can’t stand me, I can’t stand you for a long time. If I can’t get through, I’ll just get a divorce!”
Although there is an impulsive factor, it has been buried in his heart for a long time. Words from the bottom of the heart.
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After hearing this, his wife was furious, and then he realized that he is such an existence in the mind of her husband!
She didn't want to stay too much, so she agreed directly. Because of the insistence of Qiao’s family, she did not fight for the custody of the one-year-old child. So she divorced happily, moved out of this house with luggage, and moved back to her natal family...
After that, although Qiao Hongwei took his mother I took it over to bring my own baby and do housework,But helplessly, the old man's physical condition was not very good and his energy was limited, so he couldn't cope with a milk doll and heavy housework.
Within a month, he fell ill...Since then, Qiao Hongwei has to deal with all kinds of work, but also takes care of the children, cooks, washes clothes, and cleans at home, sharing the worries for his mother.
is wrong, in fact, these were originally his own business, but because he had a wife in the beginning, he never worried about it.
And now, the situation forced him to face all of this. As a result, within three months, he couldn't stand it anymore. Only then did he understand the importance of his wife and the importance of marriage, so he turned around and ran to the former mother-in-law's house. Prepare to persuade his wife to get back together with him.
It can be said that if it weren't for hitting the south wall in real life, a man like him wouldn't know to turn his head back, but unfortunately the cold heart would not heat up again!
He knew he was wrong, but his ex-wife didn't want to go to his muddy water again! In the end, the bitter fruit that I planted was helpless, and I had to taste it myself!
Conclusion:
Human feelings are very precious and fragile, just like teeth, which are lost when they are lost, and pretending to be fake.
Therefore, you must know how to cherish and respect your choices, and don't treat them with a completely indifferent attitude. In that case, you will actually treat your deliberate choice as a kind of trifle, and in the midst of contempt and negligence, you will completely ruin your own happiness.
The relationship and sincerity between the husband and wife have been lost, so this relationship has also failed in employment, and will never go back after it is over!
It doesn't mean that all the broken emotions can never be repaired, but it depends on the reason why they are broken.
Misunderstandings, temporary impulses, irrational divorce marriages, and love between the two men and women are likely to reunite.
But people like this kind of people who don't know how to respect and cherish the dedication and dedication of the other half around them, they use their own performance to let the other party understand the truth: like this kind of feeling, this kind of man, don't pick it up if you fall. ,It is better to simply accept the sudden loss generously, and to leave his world and set off again will be more convenient and sensible!
After you use your own prophets and ignorance to kill happiness, all that is left is to face the truest life.
If you have a swollen nose, don't blame others, at least it will teach you to recognize your true strength and ability, so that you will not continue to be arrogant and arrogant. It should be regarded as a kind of growth and gain, right?
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