Article｜Gu Ziyu
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As an old saying goes: living is the popularity of living, and the lively and lively gathering of a family is the way of living. Especially for families with elderly people, when the children come back at the weekend, the family feels very happy.
But no one can keep the pace of time, children will grow up day by day, parents will gradually get old, no one can change the natural law of birth, aging, sickness and death.
One day, the parents will get old, and finally leave, and the children will return to their own small families, repeating the rising and setting of the sun, and generations of people will reincarnate and multiply in this way.
Even if there is more reluctance and nostalgia, life will never start again, and time will not go back, so cherish every day you live in the present.
Cherish the blood relationship between brothers and sisters, and be a family in this life. This kind of fate is cultivated in several lifetimes. Who knows who is in the next life?
Because the parents are there, the home is always there. Everyone will rush to the center with a phone call. One day the parents are gone and the home is gone.
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Colleague Arlene has four siblings. She is the smallest in the family and the most promising one in the family, so all the big things in the family are subject to her command. She yelled, but the eldest brother and elder sister had nothing to say, and the arrangements were made plainly.
My father passed away a few years ago. My mother went to the eldest brother’s house. The brothers and sisters agreed to go back to the eldest brother’s house every weekend to gather together, see my mother, have a meal, and then leave.
Arlene always goes home with big bags and small bags, just like moving. She thinks that the eldest brother’s family is the hardest, and she doesn’t care about that much. Anyway, she is also a family. Whoever spends money is spent, and she has better conditions. Give a little.
Six months ago, my mother had a heart attack and left. She sent the old man away. After a few siblings have made an appointment, they will often return to the eldest brother to gather together. You can’t just because your mother is gone. It's not like a family anymore.
In the beginning, everyone could go back often and sit together and chat about housework. Later, there were few gatherings, and occasionally I made a phone call to make an appointment with everyone. It wasn't that there was something in this house, or something happened in that house.
Arlene said, when my mother was there, she would go back by herself, but now she thinks too much about going back. How could this motherless child lose her heart? Home is gone?
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If you have parents in a family, you will revolve around everyone. Everyone's cohesion lies in the elderly. Suddenly this core is gone, and everyone just cares about themselves. Little home.
In fact, life is a reunion and separation. The elderly will eventually leave, and the children will eventually return to their own small families. Then they will raise their own children into adults. They will become families and establish their own small family. Life is like this process.
Qiao Zuwang in the hit drama ", sons and daughters of the Qiao family ", no matter how selfish and ruthless, he will never be seen by his children, but when things happen, a few children will rush back to the old house as soon as they are. Home is also their root.
Even if they are too busy, they will put aside the things in their hands and go back home to have a family meeting. Regardless of the major issues, whether they have opinions or not, they must discuss together. This is the core position of the family.
That home carries all the memories of their childhood, good or bad, they are real, although sometimes they want to escape from that home, but in the end, that home is still the most memorable place in my heart.
In the finale,The brothers and sisters returned to the old house and had their last reunion meal there. Because the old house was about to be demolished, each of them felt a bit of emotion. If there were to be a party, someone would have to talk about it.
When the parents are here, the brothers and sisters are still a family, and when the parents are gone, everyone becomes relatives, and walking between each other becomes relatives. This is the truth of life.
But anyway, even if your parents are gone, in this world, the person you are closest to is still your brothers and sisters, so cherish this fate, because you may not meet in the next life.
Just like the dialogue between Qiao Qiqi and Qi Weimin's cousins, you have to practice well in this life, and you can be true brothers in the next life.
Written at the end:
Life is a journey with no return, no matter what kind of scenery you have experienced, the end will be the same in the end.
Fortunately, there are family companions along the way. Parents are in the family, parents are not, or relatives. Take good care of this love and don’t let it get cold, because this world is too lonely, don’t lose this love. NS.
When you don’t understand, think about those warm and moving moments. Don’t just throw away this feeling, because this fate is hard-won.
Be kind to your family and relatives, because in this life we are a family, the next life is too far away, no one knows what kind of fate will be, and learning to cherish what we have now is the truest life.
THE END The picture comes from the Internet. Invasion
About the author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, looks forward to sharing a warm emotional story with you.
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