Introduction
There are some men in life who are not very capable, but they love to brag about themselves and have a strong vanity. In fact, this kind of man is not welcomed by others no matter where he goes, he still has to be low-key and humble.
Ms. Lu's husband is a phoenix man. He finally got out of the mountains through his own skills and married Ms. Lu, the white and rich girl. So I often brag about myself everywhere, and often spend Ms. Lu's money everywhere. Finally, Ms. Lu couldn't stand it, so she chose to divorce.
Self-reporter: Ms. Lu
I am 29 years old and my parents are engaged in seafood wholesale. Life at home is pretty good, besides me, there is a younger brother. But neither of my parents had a patriarchal mindset, and they treated me better than my brother. When my younger brother bullied me, as long as I was found out by my parents, he would definitely have a fight.
My husband is from a rural area, and my father-in-law has passed away. All four children were brought up by the mother-in-law. It is simply a misconduct with me. But I am not that kind of snob. I think money is something outside of my body. As long as the two of us work hard together, we will definitely get better in the future.
The reason why I was willing to marry my husband is because he treats me very well, and he can make me happy. I feel very happy to be with him. And my husband is very generous to me, most of his salary is spent on me, as long as I have something I want, then he will do his best to buy it to me. And my husband is also my first love. I have never been in a relationship before, so once I like it, my love is deeply rooted.
Even if my parents object again, I still have to marry him. When my parents saw that I had decided, they could only agree with tears. Not only gave me a dowry room, but also secretly gave me a 600,000 bank card, which was regarded as my dowry, and asked me not to tell her husband.
At that time, there were no secrets between my husband and I. I would share everything that others said to me. So I told my husband about the 600,000 dowry my parents gave me, and even the password.
I also said to my husband: "My husband,This 600,000 is a dowry given to me by my parents. Since I am married to you, we are a family, so the money is half yours. If you need money, then you spend the money in it. I'll leave the bank card to you for safekeeping.
I have a monthly salary of 40,000 yuan per month, and my husband only has 12,000 yuan. My husband is a bit of male chauvinism. He feels that his salary is not as high as his wife's shame, and he doesn't want others to look down on him. He said in front of others that his salary was 40,000 yuan, and I only had 12,000 yuan. I knew about this, and my husband took the initiative to tell me and begged me to help him keep a secret.
I don’t think this is a big deal. So I didn’t want to expose him either. But I didn’t expect that he even said the same in front of his mother. So the mother-in-law always thought that her son was very capable. Not only did she marry a rich wife, but the Yue family also married him Less.
The dowry card that my parents gave me was actually used up by my husband a long time ago. He used that money to buy himself a lot of brand-name clothes, and he often used the money to show his filial piety. Mother, the 600,000 was spent in less than a year. My husband never told me, and because I believed him, I never checked the bank card.
Later, my girlfriend asked me to borrow 100,000 yuan for turnover. And I didn’t have that much money in my hand, so I planned to lend her the money from that card, but I found out that there was no money in the card. After asking my husband, I realized that the money had been spent by him. It’s gone. I’m really angry when I know this situation. Although I’m willing to spend the money on my husband, I think he should also respect it and tell me when he spends the money. He didn’t treat me as a wife at all. , How can I not be angry?
So I had a big fight with him that day, and we had a cold war for seven days. In the end, he took the initiative to beg me, not only gave me a bouquet of roses, but also carefully I prepared a candlelight dinner for me. I think no one is perfect, and it’s normal for my husband to make a mistake. As long as he can change it in the future, then I am willing to forgive him. So I didn’t care about him too much.
But after the money was spent, he often asked me to take the money,Always say that the money is not enough. There is no mortgage or car loan at home, I really don't know where he spent the money. Although I didn't talk about him, there was grievance in my heart. In other people's families, men are responsible for supporting the family, but our family is completely the opposite.
June 15th this year is her mother-in-law’s 60th birthday. My husband said that we must do something big and invite relatives, friends and villagers. At that time, I did not agree that birthdays are held every year, so there is no need to make a big deal, just celebrate as a family. But my husband didn't care about my opinions at all, so in the end I had to compromise.
I ordered the banquet that day. I ordered a table for 1,000 yuan. Although it is not very expensive, the dishes are very good. But after going to the hotel, my husband actually said: "Don’t be polite to me, let go of your belly to eat, anyway, I have money and I don’t have enough money to continue ordering." After that, he went to the waiter to add a few special dishes. I also added a bottle of red wine, which would add up to a table of two thousand and five. People in their village praised him for his ability, and he was bragging with others while drinking. Later, I really couldn't listen to it, so I left early.
Husband went to checkout after eating and drinking, because there are 20 tables in total, so the total is 50,000 yuan. Husband doesn't have that much money at all, so he just thought of me at this time. He quickly called me and asked me to go back to checkout. I told him whoever asked him to pay the bill. It didn't matter to me. After I finished talking, I hung up his phone.
Later, he had no choice but to let his mother-in-law pay the money. The mother-in-law was reluctant to pay because she felt that her husband's monthly salary was 40,000, and it was impossible to afford a meal. In desperation, her husband had to tell the truth, and her mother-in-law was so angry that she scolded her husband.
But after scolding them, they were still unwilling to give money, so they wanted to sneak away. But the people in the hotel have noticed them long ago and have been staring at them. Seeing that they were going to sneak, I quickly stopped them. So the mother-in-law had no choice but to buy the bill. But this matter has also been known by relatives, friends and people in the village. Her husband has completely become the laughing stock of others, and there are often people in the village who will gossip about her in-laws.
After this incident, I also thoroughly see that my husband is not a man to rely on at all. So I also made up my mind to divorce him. My parents were very pleased to learn about it.After their intervention, my husband and I soon divorced. After the divorce, he moved out of our house and his job was gone. Now he doesn't even dare to return home because he is afraid of being laughed at by others.
written at the end
After marriage, you should put your mind on running a family. Before making a decision, you must discuss it with your partner. You must not make a decision privately. This is disrespect for the other party. the behavior of. After a long time, the other party will definitely complain.
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