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There is no free lunch in the world. Anything you get is a price, so don’t have the idea of getting something for nothing. A gentleman loves money and gets it in a good way. Only the wealth obtained through his own labor is truly his own. Only when he spends his own money, his waist will be hard.
Women in the past could get a house through marriage, but now they can’t. Pre-marital property belongs to the individual. For example, the house you bought before marriage will always belong to you, not to your spouse. The house bought after marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife, not personal property.
Nowadays, there are some girls who want to get something for nothing. It is obvious that the man bought the wedding house, but they asked for her name on the real estate certificate before getting married. If the man agrees, that's okay, it's your wish. But if the man disagrees and the woman insists on adding a name, then you are welcome.
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Having been in love for three years, the relationship between a couple has always been very good. When buying a wedding house, the mother-in-law, after seeing the relative’s house, decided to buy the wedding house for her son in full, and then wrote her son’s name on the real estate certificate. Unexpectedly, the prospective daughter-in-law proposed to write her name on the real estate certificate, so as to show that her boyfriend loves her.
The prospective mother-in-law couldn't accept it, so she asked her son to break up, and the son really broke up with the girl. This is what happened at Aunt Liu's house. Let's listen to the story of their house.
Read by: Aunt Liu
Age: 53 years old
Occupation: Private enterprise accounting
City: Changzhou
My son is not married yet.
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My husband and I have only one son, and I have been a baby since I was a child. The son is also quite promising. He went to university and worked in a foreign company. Later, I talked about a girlfriend. The girl was a little bit squeamish. She paid special attention to dressing and didn't like to work, but as long as the son liked it, our old couple would have no objection.
In a blink of an eye, the son and the girl have been talking for three years, and they are about to get married. Therefore, the parents of both sides sat together to discuss the marriage. Although our family's conditions are average, the etiquette should still be the same, and we can't treat other girls wrongly.
When talking about the wedding house, my husband and I offered to pay the down payment for the wedding house. The mortgage let their young couple repay them slowly after they got married. The name of their young couple is written on the real estate certificate. My in-laws are reasonable people, and the conditions in their family are similar to ours, so they don't have any complaints. The girl also agreed.
Next, the son and the girl went to look around the house, and my husband and I prepared money. Buying a house in full is a bit difficult for us, but it is not a problem with the down payment. Our old couple have discussed it. After they get married, if our old couple is wealthy, we will help them repay the loan.
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At this moment, there was a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war at my sister's house. My brother-in-law called me to persuade her to persuade her to find a living.
After I arrived at my sister's house, my sister cried and told me that when her son and daughter-in-law got married, the down payment for the wedding room was paid by the old couple. The loan was supposed to be paid back slowly after the young couple got married. The names of two people are written on it.
After getting married, my sister and brother-in-law felt sorry for their son and daughter-in-law, so they helped them pay off their mortgage. But the daughter-in-law has always been bad to her in-laws, especially to her mother-in-law. She not only asks her mother-in-law to help her with the children, but also thinks that her mother-in-law is not good or that bad all the time.
My sister can't bear it,I quarreled with my daughter-in-law. After the quarrel, my sister was reluctant to take the children, and was unwilling to help pay off the mortgage. As a result, the daughter-in-law became even more angry and asked for a divorce, and the house would be divided in half.
My sister and brother-in-law paid the money to buy the house. Now they have to be divided in half by my daughter-in-law. Of course they can't bear it. The son blamed my sister again, saying that my sister had broken her marriage, and the mother and son had a quarrel. So the more my sister thought about it, the more sad she didn't want to live, she wanted to die a hundred.
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Of course, I tried my best to persuade my sister. After persuading my sister to go home, I told my husband about the situation of my sister's house, and my husband said that we should not repeat the same mistakes! As the old saying goes, the heart of harm is indispensable, the heart of defensiveness is indispensable, and our daughter-in-law is probably not a fuel-efficient lamp.
So after our old couple worked together, we decided to bite the bullet and buy the full amount of the wedding house. In this way, we can confidently write the name of our son on the real estate certificate, and if our son's marriage changes someday, we don't have to worry about the house being divided in half.
After we talked about this idea to our son, the son agreed in one fell swoop, but he felt sorry for us to be in debt. I said that we originally planned to help them repay the mortgage, but now we don't take the loan. We figured out a way to ask relatives and friends to borrow money, and then sell some of my jewelry.
We discussed the matter well, but after the son told his girlfriend about the matter, the girlfriend immediately proposed that only her name was written on the real estate certificate. She said that we are guarding her, and that we are not sincere about marriage, so only her name must be written on the real estate certificate to show that her boyfriend loves her.
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We did not expect the girl to make such a request. Our man bought the wedding house with full money, and the debts were borne by our old couple, but the girl asked her to be written on the real estate certificate. What does this mean? Are we going to give her a house?
If she can be so affectionate with my son and grow old,Then we have no objection. But the world is unpredictable, and no one can guarantee that marriage will grow old. We are also ordinary people. Buying a house is a lifetime effort for us. We can't just give it away.
Husband said that since a girl would make such a request, it means that there is a problem with her character. I would persuade my son to break up. If we break up now, everything can start again. If we are old and our son is facing a marriage change and the house is gone, what should we do?
After listening to our opinion, the son really broke up with the girl. The girl did not expect that after three years of dating, her son would break up with her on the eve of the wedding. She was satisfied to take us. We would definitely agree to write her name on the real estate certificate. As a result, she miscalculated.
So she became angry and quarreled with our family for a long time. In the end, my son paid her some mental damages, and she gave up.
Conclusion:
When not encountering certain things, everyone looks good and looks good. But when encountering certain matters involving conflicts of interest, some people reveal their nature, become selfish and shameless.
Therefore, the relationship between two people depends on what happens after they encounter something. Only the tested feelings can be better than Jin Jian. On the eve of marriage, both men and women must carefully consider the risks that can be avoided, or avoid them as much as possible.
The wedding room bought by the man in full, and the woman wanted to write her own name, which is really too much. If the woman wants a house, she can also buy a wedding house by herself, and want to obtain a house through marriage. It is no longer realistic these years, so girls must recognize the reality!
.Author: A creator in the emotional field, focusing on various issues in the emotional field, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of affection and love. Let us grow in love and spend every day in true love.
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