There are not many singles in rural areas. Many people are accustomed to calling these people "bachelors", but I personally think it is inappropriate because there are a large number of young people who either have not yet married a wife, or they have not yet planned to marry Daughter-in-law, it seems wrong to call it a bachelor.
However, there is one thing we cannot deny that there are some young men of school age, that is, young men who have reached the age of marrying a wife, but are single.
This makes many people very distressed. Because in the countryside, if you are a boy, but you have not married a wife when you reach your age, not only will you lose your face, but your parents will also feel inferior. The parents also have peers. Their peers and children in the family have married wives, but their children are still single.
This will make them feel that they have failed in their lives and are inferior to others.
Therefore, for a rural family, marrying a wife is not just a matter for one person, but even for the whole family.
There are many young men who speak calmly, but they are actually more panicked than anyone else. But marrying a daughter-in-law shouldn’t shave her head and pick her up. It doesn’t work to panic. You must have a girl willing to marry, so that you can get away from being single.
So many young men will ask, I am a rural bachelor, how can I change myself to successfully marry a wife?
Hei's wife has been living in the countryside. Here is my opinion.
Ⅰ: Wisdom eats wisdom, no intellectual effort
Old people in rural areas often say a word called "settling down and standing up for life, which means that when a person lives forever, you have to have a foundation for life and life, you need to have a life. Come to support yourself and your family.
Therefore, wisdom eats wisdom, but no wisdom is difficult.
What does mean? Just do what you do. Don’t force yourself to do things you can’t do or are unfamiliar with.
Some people have the ability to do business, then do some business, and some people have the ability to breed, then breed. If none of these are available, then work safely in the land. This is also a way of life. As long as you settle down, you can earn a lot of money by working now.
However, some people don't think so. Such people are generally good-eyed, low-handed, fantasizing, and weak in execution.
What's the matter with these people? First of all, imagine that I will make a fortune in the end, and I am different from others. Since they are not the same, ordinary people can't do the work themselves. For example, ordinary people are working part-time, so they can't work part-time. Otherwise, how can they appear to be different from them? At the same time, these people are lazy, and they are not willing to work.
However, these people do not have the ability to execute, or are incapable of execution.
For example, some people say what they have, how much money they invest, and how much money they can make.
This is also possible, but how does this investment money come from? The method they take is to sit and wait at home, waiting for someone to discover their talents, and then to invest, others pay for their own ideas, and jointly embark on the road to wealth.
This is just a joke, a young man sitting in the countryside, what good ideas do you have? Still waiting for others to invest? Who will invest in you?
And this kind of people have a problem, that is, complaining every day, complaining that they were not born in a good family, complaining that they have no good relatives, complaining that they don't have a good platform.
If you have a good family, then you will have money to invest. If you have good relatives, you will invest in yourself. If you have a good platform to discover yourself, you can show your talents.
There are many talented people in this world, and they need strong execution and accumulation at the beginning. Instead of sitting at home and complaining and waiting every day.
Therefore, those who have this kind of idea will watch others marry a wife, but they can’t get married. Who now marries his daughter to someone who can only talk about it?
This needs to be changed, a different way of thinking, a different way of working.
For example, if I feel I have a good idea, then okay, I will go to work to earn money, and I will do other things to earn money. For this idea, I can suffer a lot, and I can eat a lot of tiredness.
After accumulating money, I still feel that this idea is good, then invest in myself. Of course it is very good to do it. If you fail to do it, treat it as a lesson, and then do what you can do with peace of mind.This is called change.
Any child who has his feet on the ground is a plus when he gets married.
Ⅱ: Enrich yourself and learn to plan
Actually, many people have found their own way while working, which requires enriching themselves while working.
In fact, to put it plainly, you still need to learn while working. This requires you to plan your own life, such as what you want to do in your life and what you want to do in your life. Part-time work is your temporary way of survival, or you are prepared to work for a lifetime. .
If it is only temporary, then there needs to be a follow-up life plan. For example, some people say that I want to do business in my future life, but I need to work to save money first. This is okay. Some people say that I want to make a difference in architecture all my life, so I learn everything on the construction site when I work. As long as I learn it by myself, it will be useful in the end, but it takes time to settle.
Therefore, it is very important to enrich yourself and learn to plan at any time.
Planning is related to all aspects of human life.
Some people have no plans at all. Today they don’t know what they are going to do next year. They will decide when things are about to come.
Some people have no plans at all. They earn 50,000 yuan a year, but they spend 60,000 yuan. They don’t save money, and they don’t want to marry a wife in the future.
If this continues, will the daughter-in-law post it upside down?
is indeed posted upside down, but how many? Don't have such a daydream, prepare yourself first, so that you can stay calm when you might marry a wife, and you can't help yourself.
For example, if someone is going to marry, he has nothing to do with him, but he has to borrow everywhere, and he still can’t borrow. Why do people marry? Come and suffer? The ancients said to marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat. We can't say that getting married is too material, but we have to support ourselves and others, right?
Heisao village alone, wandering around the village every day, doing nothing.
The old lady was cooking and was going to buy something. In full view, he gave the old lady 50 cents.
fifty cents, is anyone still asking for money when buying meals? Do you still have to pay fifty cents once?
In fact, he can't help it because he has no money.
I have no money to earn, no, I hang out at home every day, like this person, what plan does he have? What are the plans? Nothing, I don't think about it at all.
Therefore, it would be difficult for such a person to marry a wife.
When you feel that you should marry a wife, you have to make corresponding changes, get rid of bad habits, plan more, learn to learn, and be down-to-earth, and women will love it.
Ⅲ: Of course, it is a real problem to marry a daughter-in-law now. It is not that we should make some changes and we will marry a daughter-in-law immediately.
However, there are some bad habits that need to be changed, so be prepared. Don't be when things come, but you are not ready. That way, chances will probably pass by. By that time, it will be too late to regret it.
Finally, I sincerely wish that bachelors all over the world can have a happy home!
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