movie "July and Ansheng", the heroine July and Ansheng have very different personalities.
July is well-behaved and sensible, a typical good woman; An Sheng, rebellious, smoking and drinking, is a typical bad woman.
But the male protagonist betrayed July and fell in love with An Sheng.
I asked a male friend: Why doesn’t the male lead love women in July, but fall in love with bad women Ansheng?
He explained that because July is a glass of boiled water, tasteless; and Ansheng is a cup of warm wine, which makes people want to stop.
can still be instilled in this kind of thinking from an early age, to be a good woman, behave in a low-key manner, be thorough, and understand Take care of the overall situation so that you can become a good woman in everyone's mind.
Will a good woman be happy and live the life she wants?
In fact, women are so good, and the exchange is not love, but a man:
"Sorry, you are too good, I still can't fall in love with you.""
Feifei is a thrifty housekeeper, hardworking, kind-hearted and innocent, and she can label her a "good woman".
, but her relationship was still a span of 251span. The article is blank.
She said that the more she likes a person, the less she dare to approach him.
The most distressing experience for her was watching a man who had a secret crush for four years.
She is a good girl, but she lacks self-confidence and dare not bravely express the love in her heart. I can only watch the male god become someone else’s home.
" Ode to Joy , the family's excellent quality of learning" Excellent, dressed plain and low-key, speaking and doing things for the sake of others, really a good woman.
Qu Xiao绡 On the contrary, she was inexperienced since she was a child, often goes to nightclubs, she has a flamboyant personality and a sharp personality.
The two fell in love with the personable Dr. Zhao at the same time.
From the background, educational background and other aspects, Guan Juer and Dr. Zhao are more compatible.
In the end, Dr. Zhao was with Qu Xiaorong.
Why? Because Guan Juer hid the meaning of love in his heart. I dare not love when I meet love.
As for Qu Xiaowang, she dares to love and hate.
"As soon as he shows up, I don’t have to say anything. I yell from my hair to the toes. I want to kiss him and hug him."
Good women are accustomed to hiding themselves. They must act low-key and remain passive. Even if they meet the love of their lives, they don’t have the courage to love.
You are not single, who is single?
Haruko broke up with her boyfriend who had been with her for a year and was heartbroken.
boyfriend said,Haruko is a dish without any ingredients. It is quite fresh at first, but it feels boring after getting along for a long time.
Haruko’s character, to put it nicely, is to be docile and considerate, and to put it awkwardly, it means that he has no character and principle. Everything is in accordance with the boyfriend's will, everything is important to her boyfriend.
to eat.
boyfriend asked how is Japanese cuisine?
She said yes.
How about Chongqing hot pot?
seems pretty good too.
boyfriend asked, what do you want to eat?
She said, you decide.
The two plan to travel together, and the boyfriend thinks that Xinmatai is good, close to each other, and cheap.
She said it was good!
Later, my boyfriend changed his mind and planned to go to South Africa. There is a safari park there, which is more exciting!
She can think about it.
every time I chat with my boyfriend,Her mantra is O'ao, what you said is right, just listen to you.
Once her boyfriend told her that he wanted to close the circle of friends, because I often watch the circle of friends, which is a waste of time!
She said, it seems so, then you can turn it off.
Later, my boyfriend said again, but when I use Moments, I can see a lot of new information, which is also very helpful to life.
She said, it seems to be the same, so let's not close it.
The boyfriend became angry, how can you be like a wall grass without your own opinion? This is fine, that is fine. Are you perfunctory me?
A good woman thinks that as long as she obeys the other person and treats him well, she can get his love, but she doesn’t know that such obedience makes her boyfriend feel like a boyfriend. The masked dummy has no personality, loses its taste and desire to conquer.
After graduating from Chuanzi University, he went to France to study. On a trip to Paris, he was robbed by a thief and his wallet and passport were robbed.
When I went to the embassy to reapply for a passport, I met the staff member Dawei. Dawei's handsomeness and talent, as well as a slightly bohemian look, made Chuanzi fall in love at first sight.
Dawei is also very fond of the beautiful and gentle Kawako.
So they started a romantic date in Paris.
I was deeply in love with my legs spread out and spent the night in Paris...
However, the next day, I told Chuanzi that he was an unmarried man. I don't want to have a fixed girlfriend.
Chuanzi couldn't help but fell in love with Dawei, even if he knew he only regarded himself as a friend.
Chuanzi thinks that as long as he is good to Da, one day he will be moved.
Just like this, she kills herself little by little.
However, in the end, he didn't get the love he deserved, but was disliked.
Zhang Ailing how disappointed she would be to write that sentence:
"A person’s biggest shortcoming is not selfishness, selfishness, and savagery. People who don’t love themselves."
囡囡,At the age of 20, I married a rich second generation through a family introduction.
Three years later, I found my husband cheated several times.
Mother often teaches her that women should learn to be tolerant and tolerant. So the 囡囡 opened one eye, closed one eye, thinking that as long as he bears the past, the man will return to the family one day.
7 years have passed. Suddenly, she received a call from a woman. This woman had a big deal with her, and the general idea is like this:
, I have never loved her. I love this woman. She has been pregnant for 5 months. Her husband promised to divorce and give this woman a place.
囡囡, I thought it was another bunting fluttering, it would be a big deal to spend some money. But this time, she was wrong, and her husband came back to a showdown with her: "Do you know that I have a woman out there." It’s your wife.”
husband said: “I’m relieved if you are like this. Let’s put it this way, I met true love this time. Anyway, you don’t care. We are dragging down each other when we are together. Get a divorce!"
She was taken aback for a moment, and then collapsed. After years of tolerance, she turned into dislike in the eyes of her husband...
Forbearance, such a good woman wronged herself, but fulfilled others.
Even if you ignore yourself, suppress yourself, let others rub yourself at will, how can you get the respect and love of others?
The more you are accommodating, the better others will be, the more you regress, the more others will rush to kill. The more you forgive, the more unscrupulous others are: the more soft-hearted you are, the more greedy others are; if you are always attached, you will be easily disappointed; if you always give, you will be treated as dispensable; you always care, Will be ignored.
People are good at being deceived, and horses are good at being rided. This is naked human nature.
Don’t be a good woman, show your own bottom line, lose your temper when you should lose your temper, refuse decisively when you should refuse, fight hard when you should fight, and when you should be tough, decide Can't bear to let him know your character and principles, and respect your interests and needs. Don't let him squeeze you as a soft persimmon.
Don't be a "stab", don't be a good old man. Children who can't cry don't have sugar to eat, and women who are a little bit worse are hurt.
Don’t suppress your feelings, ignore yourself, don’t know how to refuse, don’t have a bottom line.
If you are dissatisfied, unhappy, or unwilling, you must show it boldly, let people around you realize your importance, and give people around you a chance to love you.
From today,Don't be such a good woman, but live out your character and live a happy life.
Life is too short, so why bother yourself!
.-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-