"Brother Zhang, I will move tomorrow. Are you free to come and help?"
"Okay, I will go early in the morning." Zhang Hui promised in a hurry.
"Where are you going tomorrow? My dad will be back from my brother tomorrow afternoon. I promised to pick them up at the airport." I shouted at him.
"Why didn't you say it earlier, I promised that you will take your parents to fight." Zhang Hui apologized and pushed the glasses on the bridge of his nose.
"But my son still has to go to hobby classes, and the end of get out of class is about the same as the time when my parents get off the plane. Why am I in a hurry?"
"Okay, okay, don't parents come back in the afternoon? I will try my best to come back tomorrow when I'm busy." After he finished speaking, he went into the child's room and pretended to play games with the child.
This is my husband, what everyone calls a good man, and the model husband Zhang Hui.
Everyone admires me for a good marriage. Although he is not a rich man, he has a stable job and a good income. The most important thing is that he is good and has no temper.
But only I know that Zhang Hui’s good character is always an outsider.
A friend can call him out if he has something to do. Even if the family affairs burns his eyebrows, he can just leave it alone.
I guessed that he went to help his friends move, and it was impossible to come back early, so I did it all by myself from picking up children to hobby classes and picking up my parents at the airport.
Because the two things are too close in time, I rushed into a sweat. When I got home, it was already 7:00 in the evening. It was more than eight o'clock in the evening when the food was ready. I was so hungry that I was so hungry. .
Things like this are often performed in my house.
The income of both of us is actually pretty good. I see that my parents' washing machine is very old, and the old couple are used to saving money. As long as they can still be used, they are not willing to buy a new one.
So I wanted to buy them a new one directly. I had already taken a fancy to a washing machine that day, but when I swiped my card, the card showed that the balance was insufficient.
I was taken aback, I remember I only saved 5000 yuan not long ago,Why is it gone?
I hurriedly called Zhang Hui, and he stubbornly told the truth. It turned out that he went to have a wedding wine with his company friends several times last month. Regardless of the relationship, he paid 500 yuan to each of them.
A few days ago, he was sick and hospitalized for a long time. When he sold a red envelope of 2,000 yuan, he took the money from the card.
I asked him furiously, that cousin rarely contacts, why does he want to make such a big red envelope?
He said that he went with his aunt's son at that time, and the other party hit 2000. If he gave less, he would not be able to survive.
"Can you compare with your aunt's son? He is in business, and it is no problem for him to make 20,000 yuan. You paid thousands of red envelopes in a month, so our life is still going to be better. "I was angrily wishing to slap him twice.
The thing that makes me even more angry is yet to come. I want to buy a school district room for my child. When I wanted to withdraw money, I found that the money in the card was actually less than 200,000. I asked Zhang Hui to find out that his friend bought a house a few days ago and asked him to borrow it. 200,000, he actually borrowed it without saying hello to me.
I angrily forced him to ask his friend to come back immediately. He was not willing to come back at first. He said that there was an urgent need for him. How could he be embarrassed to come back as soon as he borrowed it.
I said, "If you don't ask for the money back, we will get divorced immediately."
When it comes to this, Zhang Hui reluctantly called. Fortunately, his friend is still very reasonable, the money The money was returned before it was spent.
But after this incident, I have the idea of divorce in my heart. For so many years, Zhang Hui has always put outsiders first and the interests of our mother and son behind. I have had enough.
When I talked to my parents and friends, they actually persuaded me not to divorce, saying that life is like this. Who can find a partner who will be happy for the rest of my life, and people like Zhang Hui are really nice and honest No temper.
Whether Zhang Hui is what they said is good, only I know it very well.
However, after listening to their advice and thinking about the young children, I gave up the idea of divorce.
that weekend afternoon,His colleague, Xiao, called him to help again, saying that he was helping his father-in-law and his mother-in-law to sign up for a tour group. The meeting time was at the airport at 7pm.
He originally promised his wife to send the old couple to the airport, but he is temporarily busy and can't go, so he wants to ask Zhang Hui to help him pick up his father-in-law and send them to the airport.
But the heavy rain started at 5 o'clock that day, I persuaded Zhang Hui who was going to go out to talk to Yu, and let the old couple fight faster, otherwise Zhang Hui drove the car around in the wind and heavy rain. Not safe.
But Zhang Hui was unwilling to live and die. He said that he had agreed to his friend. He could not say so without believing, not to mention that Yu Xiao also helped him a lot in his work.
No matter how I made trouble with him, he ignored me and went out directly.
An accident happened that night. I received a call from the hospital saying that Zhang Hui was injured. At that time, I rushed to the hospital in a hurry. He suffered several fractures. Fortunately, there was no life-threatening danger.
When I asked about the situation, I realized that it was because I was younger than my father-in-law’s mother-in-law’s house and could not park downstairs. The car could only be parked in the opposite parking lot.
But the old couple took a lot of luggage. At that time, the old couple asked Zhang Hui to pick it up for them.
Because time was a bit rush, Zhang Hui crossed the road without taking the zebra crossing and was hit by a fast-driving car.
Crossing the road is a violation of the rules, so although Zhang Hui is the injured person, he has to pay half of the responsibility for the accident.
Medical expenses cost 50,000 yuan, and we have to pay 20,000 yuan.
Xiao Xiao also visited him and gave two thousand red envelopes.
I was really out of anger. I called Xiaoyu directly in front of Zhang Hui that day and said that Zhang Hui was injured entirely because he helped him, and he had to help us pay half of the medical expenses.
is less than but very upset. "Sister-in-law, you are wrong to say that. Last time I also used a car to take Brother Zhang to do errands. My car was rear-end and it cost me 5000 yuan. I didn't ask him to ask for it. Ah. Brother Zhang was injured to help me this time, but he was already at fault and shouldn’t have taken the zebra crossing.”
I was so angry at the time that I was arguing with him on the phone on the spot. stand up.
and Zhang Hui was very angry at my approach,Said that I lost his face and asked him to go to the work unit in the future how to face his colleagues.
Our noisy turned upside down, I said, let's get a divorce, I really can't bear it.
He said to leave me, I am fed up with you nagging me all day.
It should be a marriage that should be very happy, why did it make it so?
Actually, good old people like Zhang Hui are very common in real life. For the sake of face, whether they have enough ability to help each other or not, they will go without hesitation to leave the interests of their family members. Help others.
It is a very good thing to be helpful, but you have to take care of your family's feelings. Even if your wife and children are not taken care of, you always help others? How can I get the understanding of my wife.
Even if you want to do good, you should discuss it with your wife. This is also a sign of respect for her.
And as a wife in the article, there are also some things that are wrong. If you really feel that your husband is not doing well, you can calmly discuss with him instead of ordering, otherwise you will love to help others. Certainly not acceptable.
So getting along with husband and wife in marriage is also a science. If you want to have a happy marriage, everyone has to learn.
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