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Now, tell two stories.
The two friends Qiu Ling and Yu Chao established a romantic relationship through chat. The two people met before in a club activity. Because they liked each other, they left WeChat with each other. In the beginning, Yu Chao didn’t dare to be too proactive. It took a long time to find a topic before he took the initiative to chat with Qiu Ling. In this way, after several times, Qiu Ling could respond positively to him every time. It gave him courage.
Qiu Ling has a good impression of Chao. She found that the two people have a lot in common, so she made an appointment to hang out together. Unknowingly, the two people spend more time together, starting to talk about topics It has become a daily chat. Sometimes, two people talk in bed until more than two o'clock in the evening, and the next day they have to go to class with panda eyes.
Come and go, the relationship between the two people is much closer, they chat almost every day, and each time they exchange messages for less than ten minutes, as long as they don’t chat, they will be uncomfortable and they will unconsciously think of it. other side.
Just chatting in this way quickly heated up the relationship between the two people. Within two months, the two established a romantic relationship. Qiuling became more and more dependent on Chao, and he would secretly send messages to Yu Chao in class. , Talk to Yu Chao. If Yu Chao went to play basketball sometimes, and did not reply to his own news for more than half an hour, Qiu Ling's heart would be sour and especially disappointed.
Tu Lei once said in "The Battle of Love", "There is no pure friendship between men and women."If you are still friends at this moment, it can only mean that it hasn't happened yet! "
As Tu Lei said, there is no true pure friendship between men and women. At the beginning, they are close to you for a purpose. They are friends at this moment, just because they want to chase you for the opportunity to express their hearts. It hasn’t arrived yet, because your relationship hasn’t reached its peak. Slowly, we’ll talk for a long time, talk about more topics, get to know each other, and have more in common, and the goodwill will become stronger and stronger, and this is undoubtedly The best help to enhance the relationship between two people.
If you are not in a relationship, you can chat, find someone to relax, relax your mood, it’s pretty good, just be afraid I have a romantic relationship and talk for a long time. If you can’t get back your feelings, it’s easy to get into trouble.
Huang Ke is a married man, he knows that this behavior between him and Li Wen is immoral now , But he has no choice. He has slowly fallen in love with this girl, and broke contact with her at this time. For him, it is quite difficult.
Huang Ke, 37 years old this year He and his wife have been married for ten years. Now he and his wife have entered a period of fatigue. It may be because one person is at work and the other is at home. There are not so many common topics between the two, and he rarely communicates with his wife actively. , He only knows about the family’s affairs when his wife informs him.
Because of the tiredness between his wives, he met Li Wen while chatting online. Li Wen is a divorced single woman.
When he first met, the relationship between him and Li Wen was not so close yet. The two of them just started their daily routines and chatted, but they started to talk a lot. With a good impression,Can't do without her. Li Wen also took the initiative to ask him out to play. Huang Ke didn't control his curiosity. He watched movies with Li Wen a few times, went shopping a few times, and bought her a valuable bag.
It is precisely because of the sense of dependence established by the chat that after Li Wen suddenly refused to reply to his news, Huang Ke was very anxious and anxious, and even had the urge to look for her. Li Wen is also a very scheming woman. Huang Ke's momentary loss of love made Huang Ke feel tempted. Realizing his position in the other's heart, Li Wen took the initiative to attack, and Huang Ke wanted to divorce his wife.
There is an old saying that men and women are not married. If they get along for a long time, they will inevitably cross the border. If the bottom line and principles are not followed, there will be an extramarital affair. Therefore, regardless of men and women, do not believe in the charm of chatting.
Sometimes you seem to have an unintentional sentence, and the other person doesn't think so. If you make a joke, if the other person takes it for real, it will be difficult for the last two to end.
I forgot which sentiment analyst said, "After marriage, maintaining a sense of distinction between men and women of the opposite sex should be an emotional literacy. Animals, the beginning of any relationship comes from the contact between the two parties again and again.
Between the opposite sex, if it is not a relationship between a couple or a lover, remember not to have close contact and chat frequently. Many extramarital affairs are never self-control or avoiding suspicion. Frequent chats start from politeness to kindness, from politeness to acquaintance. As they go back and forth, the two sides gradually become in love with each other.
I chat with the same opposite sex every day, and after a long time, you will find that , If you don’t chat with this person one day, you will always feel empty in your heart. Is there something missing? Often chatting between the opposite sex will quickly shorten the distance between the two of you.This kind of relationship is most likely to make people feel good, and accumulating over time has become a habit.
No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, don’t go beyond friends. Chatting with the opposite sex for a long time may be a prelude to cheating. If the opposite sex keeps a distance, only if you take the initiative to keep a distance with the opposite sex, will you not embarrass yourself. "
is indeed the case, and I just want to say, if two people are single, they all look forward to this fate, there is nothing wrong with two people chatting, and the ambiguity you want can satisfy your own emotional life, You can test and please each other without any irritation.
However, if you already have a romantic relationship, no matter how good your relationship with the opposite sex is, don’t chat frequently. Please stop talking about it, otherwise your relationship will be pure, and you won’t be able to tell it at that time. Once it becomes impure, it will bring disasters for three people.
For the existence of friends of the opposite sex, I don’t Support or disagree. As for the existence of the opposite sex confidant, I think as long as you don’t cross the line, don’t always chat, don’t talk too much, and don’t get in touch too much. No problem. But if you can’t do this and you’re not sure about the other’s intentions, it’s better to spend less time with the opposite sex. Don’t wait until you lose your lover and regret it again.
September original /It is forbidden to plagiarize and listen to the stories of Wanjia. I am in September. I want to record the bits and pieces of love in words. Welcome to comment. Tell me what you think. Let’s talk about feelings. I want to be by your side. Your intimate emotional consultant, be your intimate emotional tree hole, welcome to leave a message.
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