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call them "Zhang Lin" sincerely. The first half of her life can be described as "miserable".
In 1996, Lin Bao was born in a remote village in Yunnan, with two older sisters and one older brother. Poor, backward, and patriarchal families always hold their sons first, both in material and education.
Within a few days of junior high school, Lin Bao was forced to drop out of school to help her parents with farm work at home.
When she was 15 years old, Lin Bao married a man ten years older than her. The other party was a coal miner and gave Lin Bao a 6,000 yuan as a gift before marriage.
Because they were not yet the legal marriage age, Lin Bao and the man did not receive a certificate. After the wedding banquet was held, they suddenly entered the marriage life.
After giving birth, just after the full moon, at five o'clock in the morning, Lin Bao was called to do farm work by her mother-in-law. When there is no farm work to be busy, she is petite and has to go to the construction site to carry cement to make money. The hard-earned money was all confiscated by the mother-in-law, and the reason was very high-sounding "Save it for your son."
Lin Bao, who is exhausted and in desperate need of nutrition, has a daily diet of plain boiled water.
What makes Linbao the most devastating is that her alcoholic husband fists at her when he doesn't agree. once,Lin Bao, who was domestically abused, lay in bed for more than half a month.
Lin Bao, who was unbearable, ran back to her mother's house three times. At that time, she definitely hoped in her heart that her natal family could be her backing, and stand up when she was bullied by her in-laws.
Unfortunately, she ran back to her natal house three times, and was sent back to her in-law’s house by her brother three times. "The maiden family can't count on it." What a painful comprehension.
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Lin Bao probably also understands the difference between "there are only zero and countless domestic violence".
Since you can't change others, then change yourself. Lin Bao found the opportunity to escape from her husband's house.
Penniless, she wants to go to Hangzhou, because I heard people say that Hangzhou has a high salary. In order to save enough travel expenses to Hangzhou, Lin Bao worked at a snack bar in the town for a month.
As soon as she paid her salary, she carried a few hundred dollars and embarked on the train to Hangzhou with great expectations. That train, for her, was a train bound for spring.
At the end of the train is a brand new world, and everything is full of vitality.
Unfortunately, Linbao's bag was stolen by a thief on the train. She became penniless again. In an unfamiliar foreign country, without a penny, life should be so difficult...
Even so, Lin Bao did not compromise. Without the money to live in hotels, she sleeps in the bridge hole at night; she has worked as a waiter, waiter, and assembly line female worker, and earns three to four thousand yuan a month.
After a tedious and monotonous work,In order to adjust her life, Lin Bao registered an account on a certain hand, and shot and uploaded many short videos about daily life.
Soon, a male fan named Chen Xun broke into Lin Bao's emotional world. He actively interacted with her on a short video, and the two talked very happily. He knew her past and said "don't mind".
After only two or three months of knowing each other, Lin Bao and Chen Xun had a "flash marriage". The combination of
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and Chen Xun changed the fate of Lin Bao in the second half of his life.
Chen Xun is a truck driver, and Lin Bao is fascinated by his handsomeness in driving a truck. I don't know when, she also germinated the dream of becoming a truck driver.
She knew that the machismo husband would not support her dream of learning a car, so she went to the driving school with her husband on her back, and booked a subject test.
No one thought that this petite woman with a height of 1.58 successfully won the driver's license to drive a truck without a subject.
coach was surprised, "She is the second female truck driver in the history of our driving school."
After taking the driver's license, Lin Bao and her husband took turns driving the truck. To a large extent, this shared the suffering caused by Chen Xun's long-term driving of the big car.
However, slowly she started to be dissatisfied that the income had been entered into her husband's bank card, and wanted to have a share of income that she could freely use. So, she proposed to share the car with her husband.
Regarding Lin Bao’s attention to the car division, her husband couldn’t be happy, so he slapped Lin Bao hard."Look if there is a place for you."
husband is right. The companies that Linbao interviewed had closed their doors one by one. They expressed their distrust of female truck drivers, especially the petite and young female truck drivers like Linbao. The employers did not understand and distrust them.
Fortunately, finally a courier company was willing to hire Linbao, and she began to have her own income.
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Lin Bao is the kind of woman who can turn hard days into flowers.
Even if it is a tedious job like driving a long distance, she can still use her unique way to adjust: chewing gum, singing Liang Jingru or Daolang song.
's unique working attitude has allowed Lin Bao to maintain a slim figure and a radiant face for years. This state makes those drivers who rely on smoking and eating snacks to relieve the pain of long-distance travel, and then form a big belly, feel envious.
After the car is divided, Linbao has a stable income of 10,000 pieces every month. With this extra income, Lin Bao and his wife's living standards have soared. They bought an Audi in a 4S shop.
It is conceivable that great days are waiting for this hard-working, skilled young couple.
at this time,A contradiction broke out between Lin Bao and her husband, and the contradiction quickly developed to an irreconcilable level.
Lin Bao likes to play videos with her son, and she bought a bicycle for her son. Chen Xun was very angry when he learned about it, "I can't raise a son for someone else." He was furious and ordered Lin Bao to bring the bicycle back.
Lin Bao didn't understand why Chen Xun became like this. In the general view, he is polite, capable and reliable. Why can't he tolerate the children she and her ex-husband gave birth to...
For a time, she faced a dilemma, or cut off the connection with her son. An An lives with Chen Xun for life; or divorces Chen Xun and makes money to support his son without concern.
After only three months, Lin Bao made a decision-decisively divorced and left.
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After going round and round, Lin Bao became a person again.
Although there is no shortage of suitors, she has made up her mind in her heart: I will buy a house on my own to buy a house for my son. I will not rely on anyone.
This woman who has only been in secondary school for two weeks, lives sober and free and easy. After the storms, she became a better herself and lived out the way she wanted.
Her story, like the "big heroine" in an inspirational drama, is enthusiastic.
"Flowers are blooming, and butterflies come on their own." Lin Bao's story was filmed in the movie "span8span over firewood, rice, oil and salt " by the Oscar-winning documentary director Ke Wensi .
"Grandma's Apology Letter" says: "Laugh, dream, and be different. Life is a great adventure."
Lin Bao is such a person.
Author: Jiang Yanni, wake up at five in the morning to write, write at least 3000 words a day, and read 2 books every week. Work hard in the workplace during the day and read books with the baby at night. You light up your life with words, and every day is a good day.
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