He Fang has been married for four years. Because of her long-distance marriage, she has not returned to her family for the Spring Festival in three years. In the first year of marriage, she wanted to go back during the Spring Festival. Her husband Lin Song said, our newlyweds must spend the first year at her husband’s house. In order to prevent her in-laws from feeling that she is ignorant, He Fang had to agree to spend the New Year at her in-laws. In the second year, He Fang became pregnant. Because of concerns about her health, neither her husband's family nor her parents let her go back and forth. In the third year, she wanted to go back. The mother-in-law said that the child was still young and it was not suitable for a car. He Fang thought for a while, and finally gave up the idea of returning to her family for the Spring Festival.
Finally, in the fourth year, in the twelfth lunar month, her natal mother is just about to celebrate her 60th birthday, and He Fang wants to go back to finish the Spring Festival by the way. This time, no one from her in-laws stopped him, and Lin Song did not raise any objections. As the twelfth lunar month approaches, He Fang happily packs up and prepares to return to her family for the New Year.
Going home for the New Year
A few days before going out, He Fang’s father-in-law suddenly asked her, saying that you are going back to your natal family for the New Year? He Fang was shocked. She said yes, didn't you say it was done? Lin Song and I took the child back to wish my mother birthday, and by the way the New Year. The father-in-law said, you can go back to wish your mother a birthday, and you have to come back after the birthday. We have a custom here, that is, if you are married, if you spend the New Year at your natal family, you have to go there for three years, otherwise it will affect the luck of your couple. When He Fang heard, what kind of out-of-customs is this, I am willing to go for the past three years, but you are not willing.
He Fang asked Lin Song what he meant. Who knew that Lin Song, who had originally agreed to go to her family for the New Year, also changed his mind. He said that you are all married, and you always think about what is going on when you go back to your natal home for the New Year. Shouldn't our relatives go there? Besides, it is not convenient to go back to your natal home. How much more will it cost? He Fang knew that her wish was going to fall again. She said that you agreed, and I agreed with my parents to spend the Spring Festival there this year. Now suddenly telling them not to celebrate the New Year there, how sad they should be. Lin Song said, what's the sadness? They should have thought that when you gave birth to a daughter, if you get married, you can't go back often.
Give birth to a daughter
He Fang, who was just a little anxious, heard what Lin Song said, she cried excitedly. Thinking of her parents raising themselves so much, but she insisted on marrying away, how sad it was at that time.During the New Years and holidays, only they spend their time at home, and other people's homes are lively and lively. I don't know how sad they are. Lin Song saw He Fang cry, but he felt a little impatient. He said, if you really insist on spending the New Year at your natal family, you can stay there by yourself and I will bring the baby back.
Lin Song's words seem to give in, but in fact they are threats. He Fang is not a fool, and he will not fail to hear the meaning of this. In the end, He Fang did not spend the Spring Festival at her mother's house because she told her parents about the meaning of her father-in-law. Mother sighed and said, I did not agree with you to marry away because I was afraid that it would be inconvenient for you to go home. Now since they ask you to spend the New Year there, just listen to them. The child is still young, so you can't get a divorce just because of this. He Fang heard her mother's words and felt that her original choice was too unwise. I thought I was married to love, but in the end I couldn't realize such a small wish.
Coming home for the New Year
On the night of New Year's Eve, Lin Song's family watched the Spring Festival Gala in front of the TV. He Fang hid in the room and video with his parents, watching his parents laugh hard on the phone, He Fang couldn't help tears in his eyes. After leaving the room, she went to the kitchen and cut the fruit for the family to eat. Perhaps this is the only way for a daughter who is married far away. Since she can't accompany her parents, it is the most gratifying thing for parents to live their own little life well.
Around us, there are many cases of marrying away, without exception, they have expressed regret more or less. The biggest reason is that sometimes I want to go back to my natal home, but I am disturbed by various aspects. Some people are wronged in their in-laws, and no one can take charge of her. Therefore, those who raise their daughters do not want their children to marry away. I also wish all the sisters who are married far away, get what they want, and have a good time.
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