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Introduction
Although the mother-in-law is not obligated to bring the children to the daughter-in-law, as a family, when the daughter-in-law needs it, the mother-in-law should help, so that the daughter-in-law will be rewarded, and the family's life can also be happy and old. Later, they will get filial piety from their daughter-in-law, but in real life, some mother-in-laws are unwilling to pay for their daughter-in-law, and they are particularly partial. They always feel that they have no responsibility and obligation to pay for their daughter-in-law, but regret themselves when they are old.
is like the mother-in-law below, let’s take a look.
Ms. Nan/34 years old
I am 34 years old this year. I have been married to my husband for 4 years. I originally planned not to get married, so when I was older, I didn’t find a partner. Because I felt that marriage was not as good as I thought, and I would still be wronged. If I had bad luck, I would meet a bad mother-in-law, so I didn’t want to get married at all at that time, but my parents refused to let me die alone. I must marry life and death.
Later, I had to listen to my parents and choose to go on a blind date. After many blind dates, I met my husband because he is the one I am most satisfied with. It’s also very good to me, not long after we met, the two of us got together.
After being together, he also specially brought me back to see my in-laws, wanting me to get along with my parents a lot, so that after marrying him, I don't have to worry about being embarrassed with my mother-in-law.
At that time, I did not refuse, and promised to go home with him to meet his parents, but when I first met my in-laws, I found that my in-laws disliked me very much. They were so poor that they were still a pair. He looked very arrogant and had a very bad attitude towards me. To be honest, I was really angry at the time. I didn't dislike their family, but they even disliked me.
However, for my husband’s sake, I didn’t say anything, but showed a very nice way to get along.Later, after eating dinner that day, I followed my husband back to the city, because I didn't want to stay with his parents for too long. I felt that the longer I stayed, the more angry I became, so I had better escape.
Later, after we talked for a year, the two got married. When we got married, there was no gift or wedding room. They just held the wedding casually. At that time, I didn’t say anything because I knew my husband’s family was poor and they gave It's normal to be sorry.
Later, after we got married, my husband also worked very hard because he wanted to buy a house for me to live in as soon as possible, so that I don’t have to squeeze in the old house with my in-laws all day long, and my husband paid it back. I really made money and bought a house. After I bought the house, I thought that only our couple would live in it. But I didn’t expect my in-laws to follow up with me. After my mother-in-law moved in, she asked me to pay 4000 per month. The alimony of RMB was for my husband’s sake at the time. I didn’t say anything. I promised to pay 4000 alimony every month. I hope she can treat me well after taking the money, and don’t keep screaming at me. .
In the end, she didn’t expect her attitude towards me to be the same. After getting the money, she didn’t appreciate me. Instead, she felt that I should have paid for it. She still said that I could not give birth to a child all day long. Every time I heard her like this When I said that, I was particularly angry, not because I didn’t want to have a baby, but because I wanted to make more money with my husband. After the child was born, I didn’t have to worry about having no money to raise the child. But my mother-in-law said that I was a childless person. The child’s woman, so I was really disappointed with my mother-in-law at the time. I wanted to cut off the 4000 alimony for her, but thinking that the old man’s mouth was like this, I didn’t bother to care about that much.
Later, in order to prevent my mother-in-law from saying that I am a woman who can't have children, I started to prepare for pregnancy. Soon, I became pregnant too. After pregnancy, I thought my mother-in-law would take care of me, but she ran to take care of me. Her daughter, because my sister-in-law was pregnant in the same month as me, and the mother-in-law has always been very partial to the sister-in-law and treated her as a treasure, so when I asked her to serve me throughout my pregnancy, she immediately went to her daughter's place. For a moment I finally understood that there is a difference between a daughter-in-law and a daughter. The mother-in-law will never treat her daughter-in-law as a family, so it is useless to count on her.
Later, I had to take care of myself. I was conceived soon. The child in September was born as a boy. When I was discharged from the hospital, my sister-in-law also gave birth and gave birth to a daughter. At that time, my mother-in-law rushed to the hospital to see her. My daughter, she cared about her, but she didn't say a word to me, and she didn't come to see me when she was hospitalized.
Later, after my sister-in-law was discharged from the hospital, I asked my mother-in-law to take care of me for confinement. After all, this was what she should do. As a result, the mother-in-law said directly: "I don't want to serve you, I want to serve my daughter."
When my mother-in-law said this, I was very angry, but I still tolerated it because I was afraid that anger would affect my body. Later, I invited myself a confinement wife. After my confinement, I want to go back to work, because seeing my husband working so hard every day to make money, I also work very hard, so I want to help my husband share some of the pressure.
But the mother-in-law was still at my sister-in-law’s house and didn’t want to come back. Then I called the mother-in-law and asked her to take care of the children. The mother-in-law said, “Whoever has the child will take care of me. I’m going to take my grandson. You are not me. My daughter, I don’t want to pay for you."
At that moment, I couldn’t bear it anymore. I felt that I was too indulgent in my mother-in-law, so I made her so arrogant. I would rather take care of my daughter’s children than take care of myself. Grandson, I responded directly to her at the time: "Okay, I will not pay the alimony of 4000 a month before. From now on, I will stop paying you again."
After finishing talking, my mother-in-law panicked, especially Regrets, but if I say it, I won’t take it back, so no matter how much my mother-in-law apologizes, it’s no use, and I won’t support her in the future. Since she doesn’t want to help me at all, why should I do it? She pays, I am not a fool, I don't want to be a thankless person.
Concluding remarks
Since the daughter-in-law is married to the in-law’s family, it is a kind of fate to be able to become a family with the in-law’s family. One day I will regret it too, because few mothers-in-law who are unwilling to pay for their daughter-in-law have a good end.So don't do this.
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