Something unexpected happened to Alan. Although she had rehearsed her response after failure time and time again, when she looked directly at her husband's eyes, she realized that she had done something wrong and was really afraid of ghosts knocking on the door!
What happened, let’s take a look!
Self-reporter: Alan
01.
My name is Chen Lan, and everyone who knows me is called Alan. I am 43 years old this year and I am the owner of a cosmetics shop. The annual income is not too high, but the middle class is still fine. My husband is 45 years old this year, and he is a manager of a green company, earning one million a year. A family like
is what everyone dreams of.
However, at this moment, I am sitting paralyzed on the floor at home, my mind is spinning fast, remembering my husband and me bit by bit, and remembering the little ones that belonged to us. good.
Soon, all of this will disappear. I regret this moment, but it doesn't help.
Because I cheated, my husband is now busy collating information and preparing to sue for divorce. I will soon lose all my happy life.
In 1998, my rascal came to introduce me to the object again.
02.
That year, I was a little girl in her early 20s, and she didn't understand the people and things around me that much. I think the praise and concern of others for me is just a natural compliment.
Many people praise me for looking good, and sometimes they even introduce me to someone. I just smile and don't talk, but I am actually very happy in my heart.
However, I am too naive.
I remember that it was one afternoon, and a man with a gray head walked into my house. He took three steps and took two steps and said to my dad: "Uncle, I have another good news to tell you."
My dad didn't look back at the time, so he gave him a glance and said, "You don't need to say it. , This time, no matter how rich the family you mentioned, I will not agree."
This man is a famous rogue in our village. He is lazy and does nothing. Because I am idle, I know a lot of people, I always like to introduce people to others, and I can always take advantage of them.
My dad then said: "Don’t think I don’t know. Most of the people you introduced are similar to you. The conditions at home may be really not bad, but the child is definitely not a motivated master. They are all wine bags and rice bags."
03.
At the time, I really felt that my dad was a bit too much, mainly because I was afraid of these people's revenge. But I really can't stop him. As a father, what he said is not unreasonable.
This matchmaker, most of the people with him on weekdays are boys with good family conditions, and most of them are not doing business.
Although my father is an honest farmer, he is not wicked in his heart. He will not bet on his daughter's happiness, nor will he betray his daughter's happiness for money.
Father flatly refused.
He refused this rogue again and again, which caused trouble for himself.
Because he rejected his many matchmaking talks, he held a grudge and tried to find opportunities to create friction for his father many times. But my father is a relatively introverted person, always looking for opportunities to escape.
Three months later,Once we rushed to the meeting, we didn't plan to go, because my brother was always making a fuss about going to play, my father took us there.
04.
It was very lively that day. Soon after, I saw a few young people who seemed to be ill-intentioned on the other side rushed over. I saw that it was the matchmaker who introduced me to me, and watched him get angry. Chong Chong's appearance, it feels like it's directed at us.
I hurriedly called to my father, he took a look and told us to pull behind him and walk forward.
This man was drunk and grinned and said: "I tell you kisses again and again, don't you agree, do you look down on me? Do you look down on me? It's okay to look down on me, I'm just a rascal, look down on They don't agree with me."
They wanted to come up and beat my father as they said.
At this moment, my third uncle came over, and there was a tall young man with him.
This is the first time I have seen my husband. His stalwart posture has given me a very deep impression.
05.
I hurried forward to hold my father, who is particularly amiable and amiable, became very angry this time, he said angrily to this person, don’t think you’re a rogue, I I don't know your thoughts yet, no matter what happens, my daughter won't let you come to protect the media.
Seeing that they were about to come up, the tall man grabbed his collar and threw him 3 meters away.
With the help of Sanjiu and this man, we got out of the predicament.
After returning home, my mother hurriedly told me that the female congress was not in the middle of staying, so she should quickly find me a good family, and give me home quickly, otherwise someone will come to find fault.
Then I was talking about this. My old uncle and my mother said, "What did you think of that young man just now."
My mother took a look out of the door and saw that this was a tall figure and a little old-fashioned appearance. Boys.
06.
My uncle went on to say: This young man is really good. He works with me and has a good eye. He is honest and steady. Although he looks average, he has a sense of responsibility. This is also suitable for Nier. The main reason is that you have found this son-in-law, and no one will dare to provoke you in the future. Look at his domineering appearance. "
In fact, my old uncle is right at all. In that era, there were land ruffians in many places. Sometimes if you accidentally offend them, you will be constantly looking for trouble. So this It is a very safe thing to need a man who can live in a place to stay at home.
After looking at it a lot, my mother said directly to me: "Nier, what do you think." "
I was really ignorant at the time, it was just a little girl’s personal adoration, so I lowered my head shyly and didn’t speak, and waited for a long time to come out a word, middle!
That’s it, in my uncle My husband and I got married and finally got together.
My old uncle was a carpenter, and my husband helped him and learned a craft at the same time. At the time, no one could For those who are attracted to this profession, in their eyes, carpentry is like a carpenter who washes his feet and shaves his head.
07.
But the husband's father thinks his son needs a craft and must let him learn one. Craftsmanship.
After my husband and I got married, he was busy working every day. Whoever needs a table or a bench, he would go to make it for others, and worked tirelessly for many years. Sometimes it happened to be at noon Someone else has a meal at home.
I get used to it for a long time.
Sometimes I hear my friends from the same village say that they often go outside to play after they get married, called honeymoon. They also asked me about my husband. Have you taken me out to play? Every time I heard it, I laughed and said nothing. Because my husband never took me out to play.
husband really worked hard,He also has a sense of responsibility, but after getting married, I found out that he is a little dull, especially when facing girls who don’t know how to make me happy. Don't think about anything like honeymoon.
08.
Time flies quickly. In a flash, we have been married for many years. Over the years, we have lived a separated life like most families.
because he has to work outside.
A few years ago, my husband contracted a piece of land with a few friends, and then made some money through that project. He did a few more projects one after another, and then a few more greening projects.
After just a few years of development, there are more and more projects, the company is getting bigger and bigger, and it also makes a lot of money.
After making money, my dad often said when he was drinking with his husband: "When a man has money, he must control himself. You can't spend time and drink, let alone forget your roots. My husband does take my dad I heard it in my heart. Although he was very busy, he never stayed out overnight.”
Later, I also started a small business. I bought a shop and sold cosmetics.
One day, a man walked into the store. He was 1.80 in size. He was not as tall and burly as my husband, but he was a boy of the type of fresh meat. I think his age should be around 35 years old, he is a man of literary appearance, and he speaks differently.
09.
Since I was a kid, I like boys who can talk about things. After meeting him, I felt that I was able to talk a little bit more. Through chatting, I found that he is an online ride-hailing driver who usually has a job, but he likes to save sentient beings and chats with everyone, so when he is fine, he drove around in the city.
He said that he liked the loneliness in the city and the peace after 12 o'clock.
Later, I said to him: "You come to pick me up every morning from now on, I won't drive anymore."
Since that day,I left the Mercedes-Benz E that my husband bought me in the garage, and he picked me up at the gate of my community at 7.30 every morning on time.
Later I found out that he drives a different car every day, basically more than 500,000. He told me that his family is rich and that driving is just a hobby.
I was thinking that he might be the kind of unruly man, but I don't care about his good or bad, and I am willing to be with him.
10.
Later we were together, I don't even know if he has a family, whether he has a girlfriend or even his age. All I know about him is from his mouth, and I don't know the specific situation.
I cheated, but I don’t know what I’m afraid of.
My husband is very well-connected. I don't know which of his buddies found out about the things I ride in different luxury cars every day. At the same time I know what happened to me.
I have thought more than once about what I should do after being discovered, but when my husband appeared in front of me angrily, I realized that everything was not what I thought.
I was stunned by his anger, I was scared and didn't know what to say.
Although there are a lot of grievances in my heart, I want to say that you don't care enough for me, you don't care enough for me, but I don't have the courage to say it, because I know that I can't justify these reasons.
My husband just said one thing: If you don't drive the Mercedes-Benz at home, I guess you have a problem. Find a free driver, and you made a profit.
I slumped on the floor, my husband turned and left, and called his friend at the same time, saying that he was going to ask a lawyer to fight a divorce lawsuit.
I lowered my head, listening to the sound of leather shoes ticking on the floor, as I drifted away, my heart became more and more empty, I didn't know where to fall.
Concluding remarks:
Alan’s self-report actually carries a little bit of resentment. What she wants to say is that the reason why she is like this is because of her husband’s long-term carelessness. So much that she had to find comfort,At this time, the appearance of a high-quality boy made her act against her husband.
But marriage is not what you want, just what you want.
Husband and wife need to comfort each other and support each other, but they also need to respect and understand each other. As Alan's husband, of course he hopes to be with you, but can company bring you financial advantage? Obviously not.
Men work hard outside, also for this family. At this time, the focus of your concern is whether he can be gentle with your years. Isn’t this just saying: why don’t beggars eat meat? .
This truth is so simple.
Derailment will not end well, no one can trample on marriage, no one can despise the law.
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