When the remarriage was in progress, the stepdaughter said: Auntie, my dad is more bothersome. I have been on blind date four times last month.

Written by: Li Qiaoer

Oral: Mrs. Fang

Foreword: Some people say that beauty is the best pass for a woman, but my friend Mr. Fang said that kindness is the best pass for a woman. Mr. Fang's family is a "halfway home", and he and his wife are "halfway couples". Mrs. Fang told me about her marriage.

1

In the fifth year of my marriage with Sha Yu, I was diagnosed with lung cancer by two hospitals.

We have been married for five years, and Shayu and I have been in deep drifting for five years. We saved about 100,000 yuan and bought a second-hand car without buying a house.

And I was thirty-two years old at the time, I was just promoted in the company, and my daughter Niuniu was four years old.

It is false to say that it is not sad, but what is more sad is that Sha Yu filed for a divorce and wanted to take Niuniu away.

Sha Yu said: "After the divorce, I will bring Niuniu back to Changsha to work. Leave the 100,000 yuan to you. After all, you need money for medical treatment."

Sha Yu and I have been quarreling for five years, but we still couldn't get along well. , The relationship has been like the freezing point of the Cretaceous. I know that divorce is the best way for us, but divorce in this situation makes me hate Sha Yu and I am not grateful for his self-righteous conscience.

I called Shayu's parents in Changsha, and I want them to persuade Shayu.

My mother-in-law said: "My son is old, we can't take care of it anymore. Take care of yourself."

I was frustrated and remembered that I bought accident insurance, so I drove to the outskirts by myself. But when I saw the big car on the opposite side swiftly coming, I was suddenly frightened. I slammed the steering wheel and hit the roadbed, but I was unexpectedly well.

I sat in the car and cried, and then I figured it out: leave it! it's not a big deal!

2

After the divorce, Niuniu was brought back to Changsha by Shayu.

I think that I will die soon, and I really can't take care of Niuniu anymore. I don't want to drag her down, and I don't want her to see my dying state.

I concealed my illness from my parents in my hometown,Just say that I am divorced. But they still knew the truth from the fellow villagers, and rushed to Shenzhen to let me travel with them.

Father said: "Your mom and I are just your daughter. Your parents are not able to give you a rich life, but they still have the ability to let you see the world more."

Father cried after talking, and mother even more. I couldn't cry.

I cried too, and quit my job as soon as I gritted my teeth, and took the high-speed rail from Shenzhen to the north with my parents. I stopped playing and I was happy. When I arrived in Shanghai a month later, I suddenly wanted to see my condition and went to the hospital. Unexpectedly, the doctor said that the tumor was much smaller and prescribed some medicine. My parents and I were very excited, and we hurried back to our hometown to actively cooperate with the treatment, and we agreed when we filmed the film half a year later.

This miracle of life drove away the pain of my divorce, and also made me understand the impermanence of life and the preciousness of family affection. Only by living well can I repay those who love me.

I went back to Shenzhen again.

Fortunately, my previous company boss was a good person. After hearing about my recovery, he was surprised and accepted me again.

Then, I met Lao Fang.

3

Lao Fang is ten years older than I am. I am a senior with a successful career and a good economy.

Lao Fang and I met for the first time, and his 11-year-old daughter, Peach, also came.

Peach looks a lot like Lao Fang, with a mediocre appearance, but she is introverted and ignores me.

While Peach went to the bathroom, Lao Fang said that his wife died of illness when Peach was eight years old. Later, he had two girlfriends, but Peach didn’t like it, so he just took Peach on the blind date. She will talk after she looks pleasing to the eye.

Lao Fang said: "Frankly speaking, at my age, I can no longer love other women very enthusiastically, because I give all my love to Peach. I know that doing so may make you feel uncomfortable. , But I think we are parents after all. If we want to reorganize the family halfway, we must consider how to deal with the relationship with the children. If we don’t handle it well, the future marriage will easily have problems, so it’s better to stop marrying. , Are you right?"

I admit that the Lao Fang’s words made me automatically turn on the soft focus when I look at him again.Unable to hold back for a while, I told everything I had experienced before and after the divorce.

As soon as I finished talking, Peach was right behind me and said, "Auntie, you are so many years younger than my dad. Did you agree with my dad because he is rich? I tell you, I Dad is more bothersome. He went on blind date four times last month."

Only then did I realize that Peach had come out of the bathroom for some time and was looking at me with a weird expression on her face.

Lao Fang smiled bitterly at me.

I can't laugh or cry, but if I don't answer Peach, then I'm too embarrassed.

I said: "Your dad is rich, which is a good thing in some respects. Thank you for your reminder. But I have the ability to earn money to support myself. I am not dating your dad because he is rich. I hope to find A reliable man who can truly stay with him for a lifetime comes to a blind date."

But Peach chased her: "Do you think my dad is reliable?"

I thought about it and answered honestly: "I haven't noticed it yet. "

Peach glanced at me dissatisfiedly, without saying anything, after about five minutes, she urged Lao Fang to leave, saying that she was going to be late for art class.

I didn't want to stay, but I stood up.

But that night, Lao Fang asked me out again, and as soon as I met, he handed me a bunch of lilies and said that he hoped to continue to associate with me.

I said your Peach looks pleasing to my eyes?

The old party nodded: "Just as I told you before, please understand me. If you can't understand, I won't force you."

I can't help but sigh, thinking that Sha Yu will remarry sooner or later, If he has the Lao Fang's love for Peach, my daughter will not be troubled by Sandy's remarried family in the future, right? !

When I experienced marriage for the first time, I was young and vigorous, with emotions greater than rationality. The second time I experienced marriage, I was almost middle-aged. The failed marriage allowed me to understand marriage from a superficial level to a deeper level. The economic foundation is very important, but the spiritual harmony between the two parties is also very important. Since I have the same three views as the Lao Fang, let's try to socialize!

4

I have been dating Lao Fang for half a year,Remarried.

Peach is still introverted, she and I are neither lukewarm nor lukewarm, and occasionally chatting a few words is also embarrassing.

I think that Peach is eleven years old, she can think independently, and she has a deep affection for her biological mother. As long as she doesn’t trouble me with trouble, I won’t treat her badly. She calls me "auntie". Well, I don't have to ask for affection like mother and daughter.

However, I miss my daughter Niuniu more and more.

I called Shayu many times to see Niuniu, but he always said that his parents didn't want me to see Niuniu because they were worried about affecting Niuniu.

I was very angry. One night, Lao Fang hadn’t come back from socializing outside. Peach was studying in her room. When I called Shayu from the balcony, I couldn’t help yelling, saying that the divorce agreement stated that it was allowed. I can go to see Niuniu. If he doesn't let me see, I will sue him and take back the custody of Niuniu. Unexpectedly, Sha Yu also yelled at me, saying that he would stay with him to the end, and then hung up the phone. I call again and no one answers.

I was so angry that I shed tears! Suddenly I heard Peach say: "Auntie, will you come back after you go to see your daughter?"

I was taken aback, saying that I and you and your dad are a family, of course I will come back!

Peach said, "Yeah" and said: "Then you insist on calling your ex-husband several times a day, even if he is blocked, you have to find a way to find him. You will definitely see your daughter."

Peach After speaking, he turned and went into her room.

I didn't expect that Peach would say the word "ex-husband". I was stunned, and then remembered to say to her: "Thank you, I will stick to it."

Peach smiled and said, "No thanks. I have to do my homework now."

I thought about it, but after all I didn't say any more, I walked out and closed the door.

From the next day, I call Shayu four or five times a day. A week later, Sha Yu finally agreed to visit my daughter.

I happily told Peach, Peach said indifferently: "Congratulations". Then, she went out to play with her classmates.

About two hours later, Peach came back. At that time, I was preparing dinner in the kitchen, and I had no time to talk to her.

At night, when Lao Fang and I were about to go to bed, we suddenly found a small pink shopping bag under our pillow.When I opened it, I saw a ticket and a small note inside.

The ticket is a high-speed rail commercial ticket from Shenzhen to Changsha. The small note says: "Auntie, this is the ticket I booked for you with my pocket money. I wish you a good journey and you must come back."

Came over and took a look, and patted me on the shoulder sighfully.

My eyes turned red, and I immediately knocked on Peach’s door. As soon as the door opened, I gave Peach a big hug and thanked her repeatedly.

Peach was obviously not used to my hug at all, and she wanted to push me away with an awkward smile. I ignored her and still didn't let go. Peach calmed down, and then my chest was getting wet and cold, and my tears couldn't hold back anymore, not only for Peach's kindness, but also for the defense that I had built against her.

5

I went to see my daughter and she looked healthy and happy, which made me feel relieved.

But the words of Shayu made me feel emotional again.

Sha Yu said: "Before you came, your stepdaughter called me every day. It was some great reason to persuade me. If she blocked her, she could find my parents' phone number. Honestly, I and I My parents are almost mad by her chicken soup. I have never met such a persistent little girl..."

I don’t know how Peach got the phone number of Shayu, but when I returned to Shenzhen, Seeing Peach, her red eyes gave her a big hug.

A ticket and two tearful hugs completely changed my relationship with Peach.

Now we can sit and chat with each other, she occasionally tantrums me like a spoiled woman, I think this is a good thing.

And the Lao Fang witnessed the changes between me and Peach, and it seemed to me better.

Peach is introverted and not good at words like me. We express our emotions more implicitly, but we all love "persistence".

Yes, hold on.

If I hadn't been cared for by my parents, I might not have lived today. Without Peach’s encouragement to "persist", I think Sha Yu and I might have a difficult and long-lasting lawsuit instead of being able to visit my daughter at any time as we do now.

Sometimes life needs too much persistence. Perseverance in life and family affection can make us see more beautiful moments.

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