The husband betrayed his feelings many times, and his wife filed for divorce in a rage. He video chatted with a third party in person.

Mr. Lu and Ms. Shi are a couple who have been married for 27 years. Because of their husband’s emotional derailment, Ms. Shi filed a divorce with her husband, Mr. Lu, and asked him to sign a divorce agreement for leaving the house. But on the second day when the divorce cooling-off period opened, the lady regretted it. However, Ms. Shi's retention not only did not leave a touch in her husband's heart, but also made Mr. Lu firm up his determination to divorce. Ms. Shi was unwilling to her husband's determination, and she thought of the gold medal mediation.

At the beginning of the mediation session, Mr. Lu said very vaguely about the reason for the divorce of the two people, indicating that it was just an emotional disagreement. In his mouth, the couple had already had problems, so he agreed to divorce. But Ms. Shi told us that if the two of them have relationship problems and can't live for 27 years, she has treated her husband wholeheartedly for many years and wanted to live a good life. This time, if it wasn't for the little daughter who accidentally discovered that her husband had an affair outside, she would still be kept in the dark by her husband.

At the mediation scene, Mr. Lu generously admitted his emotional problems, claiming that he was just a game, a dream, and his heart was still at home. Although Mr. Lu said so, his actions were totally different. Wechat chatting on rainy days is a joy to meet. The husband's extraordinary behavior ignited the anger in Ms. Shi's heart, prompting her to make a crazy behavior. She rode the battery car directly into the car that Mr. Lu was riding, and wanted to die together.

Ms. Shi chose the most irrational way to deal with the problem. Fortunately, it did not cause irreparable damage, but her dangerous action scared Mr. Lu into a chill and made him chill. The heart that was still at home didn't want to stay any longer. So on the night of the incident, when the daughters rushed to persuade the two to divorce, Mr. Lu hurriedly signed a divorce agreement for voluntarily leaving the house without even thinking about it, just to get out of the house as soon as possible.

The couple went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for divorce the next morning.But what no one thought was that when she got out of the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Ms. Shi regretted it because she saw her husband in front of her with the video of the woman, saying that she had helped the family handle things like that. Ms. Shi regretted her initial impulse and let herself fall into the trap of her husband. Her unwillingness and resentment turned into a message, and she attacked her husband overwhelmingly and wanted to keep him. Such extreme behavior pushed Mr. Lu farther and farther. .

Mr. Lu was determined to get a divorce, and the husband's determination hit a heartfelt time, and the lady also knocked on the floodgate of her memory. Ms. Shi said that compared to the harm her husband had caused to herself, her mistake was negligible. On the issue of emotional dissociation, the husband is inferior.

Ms. Shi said that when she was just pregnant with her eldest daughter, her husband had an affair. He went to find the woman in the development gallery all day long. In the end, Ms. Shi picked up a knife and mutilated herself, and Mr. Lu slowly recovered his heart. She couldn't bear to look back at the past, and Ms. Shi, who had nowhere to vent her forbearance, chose to forgive. As for Mr. Lu, his retreat time and time again made him look down on Ms. He Shi's relationship between husband and wife. Ms. Shi didn't understand why she couldn't bear to hurt her husband even if she self-mutilated in the past 27 years, why this man has always been hard-hearted and has no attachment to her.

When the ruthless truth is in front of Ms. Shi, she once again chooses to escape. She cannot accept that the 27 years of hard work have been in vain. She would rather believe that her husband was only temporarily empathizing, she insisted that as long as she endured this derailment as usual, her husband would return to the family again. This marriage has existed in name only, but Ms. Shi still hopes to be complete in form. Once again, the observers and teachers on the field can no longer bear it. They raise the microphone, hoping to reverse the situation.

The observer teacher bluntly advised Ms. Shi to leave Mr. Lu. It is not worthwhile to spend most of his life for such a man, so stay away from him as soon as possible. It is not that maintaining a marriage will have face, but living with quality and dignity is the greatest face. He suggested that Ms. Shi take up the weapon of the law to protect her rights, and maximize the fight for the joint property of the husband and wife.And demand compensation.

Under the teacher's persuasion, Ms. Shi finally chose to let go. She said that after the cooling-off period, she and Mr. Lu would go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to complete the divorce process. At the end of the mediation, the lady shed tears again, but this time it was no longer sad and bitter, but suddenly enlightened and truly letting go. In the past, women used tolerance to treat injuries and extremes to retaliate. This was not the right way to solve the problem. Today, she finally chose a correct attitude and way to face and solve the problem.