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People reach forty, that is the beginning of middle age.
Forty-year-old life is like a bowl of medicine. When you taste a little bit, you will feel particularly bitter. And when you swallow, you will feel the sweetness after the bitterness.
The so-called "three-point drug". The forty-year-old period is both a test and a crisis for us. If we fail this test, our future will not be too good.
Every process in life is not independent, but one link after another. What was your early years, what was your middle age. And how is your middle age, so is your old age.
In middle age, problems of all sizes will strike people. At this time, we should be prepared and see the nature of these issues, and don't be fooled by them.
When a person reaches the age of 40, if these "signals" appear around you, it proves that misfortune is approaching. Don't take it lightly.
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After 40 years old, if you are on the verge of unemployment, it proves that misfortune will come.
In today’s society, there is actually such a “law of the workplace”,That is the "law of middle-age unemployment."
Many people will say, why are middle-aged people unemployed?
It is a pity to say that with the development of society, many companies now like to recruit young people to work, rather than the older middle-aged people.
Because middle-aged people are prone to problems, and they are not as efficient as young people. Therefore, companies will abandon part of the middle-aged people who cannot rise.
We all understand that if people stay in place before the age of 40, they can only prepare to leave.
Life is very real and the world is cruel. No one will think about what you have given, others will only value the benefits of the business. If you lose value, others will kick you away.
When a person is 40 years old, if his career is stable, it will naturally be no problem. However, if the unemployment crisis approaches, all disasters will come.
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After 40 years old, if there is a family conflict, it proves that misfortune will come.
Why are there so many conflicts in the family after the age of 40?
First of all, it is related to the "unemployment" mentioned above. When a member of a family loses their job,Then the family's income will decrease, and conflicts will arise.
Secondly, the emergence of marital crisis has affected the harmony of the family. Because of the relationship between marriage, it is the core of the family relationship. So, what it becomes, what the family will become.
As a middle-aged person, if we want to solve external problems, we should first solve internal problems in the family. If the family crisis becomes more serious, then we will not be able to live the rest of our lives.
Family is different from the workplace. When we are old, we naturally have to quit the workplace. However, we need to live in a family all our lives. Therefore, the family is the "top priority" of life.
At any time, one cannot take the family situation lightly, otherwise it will cause a series of disasters.
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After 40 years old, if the villain is around, it proves that misfortune will come.
In the workplace, why are you always confused and always sad?
In life, why are you always nervous and trembling?
Because there are so many villains in the rivers and lakes, we will eventually be affected by the villains. What's more, in this world, villains account for a certain proportion after all, more than gentlemen.
You met a gentleman,This is your luck. Don’t be surprised if you meet a group of villains. Because gentlemen are scarce as gold and villains are flooded like copper , these two are not the same people.
When our work is affected by villains, we will be led by them, even suppressed by them.
When our lives are affected by villains, even our families will be affected, and everything will develop on the negative side.
To get rid of the villain is to get rid of the eye of the storm. And to be close to the villain is to be close to the storm of crisis.
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After 40 years old, if you have physical and mental problems, it proves that misfortune will come.
For middle-aged people, perhaps the most important thing is not money, but a person’s body and mind.
Body and mind, the existence of the outside and the inside, is the foundation of our being in the world. Without a healthy body, everything will be sorrowful. Without a healthy mind, the body will not be healthy.
Many times, we always feel sad. This is not a good thing. Because of excessive sadness, it will only make us psychological problems in the end.
Why are middle-aged people suffering from depression more and more? It is because of the pressure of the middle-aged people that their psychological defenses collapsed, and they finally fell into the dark abyss.
Being a human being, one must not have psychological problems. This is the prerequisite for a happy life. If there are psychological and physical problems, then it is considered to have a lot of money, then what is the use?
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write to the end _5sp. Everyone who is big and small will also face the problem of span from the age of
40p. Prepare. The so-called "preparedness" is the truth.
Especially in this era, social changes never stop. No one knows what will happen next moment, and no one can predict what will become tomorrow.
If we lack a certain amount of preparation, but live in a muddle-headed manner, then it is easy for us to live and be sad.
middle age, this is a process of linking up and down. As long as we can pass this hurdle, we believe that our future will be even better.
Wen/Shu Shan Youlu
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