There was a period of time when the study of thick black was very popular, and now it seems that the silence has gone down, but no fire does not mean that thick black is no longer applicable.
A few days ago, I looked at the thick black school of Li Zongwu again. Some words are really pertinent, and they still apply even now.
After reading this, I summarized the essence of his life-threatening black studies, and I would like to share with you here.
learn to play the fool,
acted great wisdom
should be a fool to be a man,That is, learn to converge. Don't be too sharp, you are too dazzling, others are staring at you, treating you as a strong enemy, making too many enemies, it is difficult for you to walk in society.
Learn to play stupid, even if you are smart, don’t show off too much. Just like fireworks, it is too dazzling, so its life span is very short. If you want to last long, you must learn to play dumb.
Back then, Cao Cao Liu Bei was a hero, and Cao Cao praised Liu Bei that there are only two heroes in the world. .
If Liu Bei directly admitted that he was a hero at that time, he was afraid he would not be able to get out of Cao Ying.
Liu Bei knew that Cao Cao was testing himself, so he immediately acknowledged it. At that time, it was thundering, and Liu Bei was so scared that his chopsticks fell to the ground.
It was also because Liu Bei was stupid and weak in fashion, Cao Cao relaxed his vigilance, a man so timid,Even afraid of thunder, how dare to compete with oneself.
So Cao Cao relaxed his vigilance against Liu Bei.
It is also because of Cao Cao's relaxation that Liu Bei had the opportunity to secretly work hard, and finally established the Kingdom of Shu, with Cao Cao and Sun Quan .
Life is alive, it is necessary to act stupid in a timely manner, too much like to express yourself, easy to be suppressed.
If you win 5 million prizes all at once, you’re so excited that you don’t know. So I said everywhere, friends and relatives will come to borrow money from you when they find out, everyone thinks you have money. Borrow it from you.
How much can you lend them?
Just make a fortune quietly,Yelling everywhere, what originally belonged to you may have been taken away by others.
Occasionally acting as a fool, concealing the edge and paralyzing the opponent, in order to unknowingly surpass the opponent, and achieve their goals without revealing the situation.
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If you run into someone’s embarrassment, learn to act stupid and smile as if you didn’t see it; It’s just accusations, just things, why bother about it. The important thing for a family is feelings. If you buy something wrong, you can buy it again. If your heart is cold, it will be difficult to cover your heat;
small mothers are sometimes greedy I bought fakes cheaply, and I was so happy,Don't expose her. The old man is very sensitive. If he knows that he has done a stupid thing, he has to blame himself for several days, just a few dollars, he should buy it.
Learn to play stupid, not to say that you are really stupid, but when necessary, for the sake of more important feelings, don’t care too much about material gains and losses.
Play a fool once, in exchange for the happiness of people around you, why not do it?
Learn to play stupid, ask knowingly, and give others a chance of performance; know that the other person is not as good as yourself, and ask him for advice; know that you know a lot, but bury it in your heart The deputy doesn't understand anything.
Converge your edge and learn to play stupid so that you can reduce a lot of attacks and slanders from others.
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compulsory in life
" small window quiet mind " in this sentence: V for a long time who Fly must be high, open the first; Xie Duzao.
Learning patience is a compulsory course in life.
When you are reading, you must bear loneliness.
Seeing others play, and I want to play too; watching other people do not study and work, it seems cool, I give up reading; watching other people get married, it seems fun to be a mom and dad Look like, I also go to catch the trend.
What is the end?
can’t help being alone,You can't read well; you can't stand loneliness, you will never meet the right person.
Growth is a process of cultivation and requires us to endure many things.
The person you look down on is your boss; the person you don’t like is your relative; the habit you can’t stand,
Life, there are too many things that people can't understand, and there are too many things that require patience. We can't bear it, and there is nothing we can do with him, of course, only patience!
If one day you have a chance, you don’t need to work for others and don’t always look at your boss’s face; Contact with relatives, you don't need to think about affection, and you can leave that annoying relative.
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Life is alive, patience is necessary, and those who can’t bear it will only become emotional slaves.
There are two people Zhang San and Li Si. Zhang San accidentally stepped on Li Si's foot.
Li Si Da cursed: No eyes!
Zhang Sanhui: I just don't have eyes, what's the matter?
Li Si was angry and punched Zhang San. Zhang San did not show weakness. He immediately punched Li Si on the chin, knocking down the front teeth.
Li Si got anxious, took the hammer next to him, and hit Zhang San's forehead with a hammer.
Zhang San fell to the ground,Died on the spot.
Li Si was arrested by the police for killing. In the prison, the more he wanted to get more angry, it was Zhang San who was clearly provoking the matter, so he was justified, why was he so impulsive?
It was originally a trivial matter, but it became so big. The more he thought about it, the more he felt shameless, and finally committed suicide in prison.
Both of them are too impulsive to exercise restraint.
It’s not a big deal to step on your foot. It’s just a matter of forbearing it, so why bother with him?
Stay calm for a while, step back and take a step back.
Small things to let others, such tolerance is not cowardice, but a kind of wisdom.
people who cannot be wronged,It can't do great things either.
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It’s of course important to keep a strong tone in interpersonal interactions, but when you do admit that you are wrong, you might as well be relieved. It makes people feel that you are open-minded and graceful.
There is an example in the thick black school:
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The village party secretary said,After the autumn, he must pay compensation, but the owner refused, and the brothers rushed forward and beat the village party secretary.
Party members and the masses in the village were very angry and demanded severe punishment of the assailants. The villagers' meeting was held the next day, and the troublemakers felt aggrieved and prepared to go through rectification.
Unexpectedly, the village party secretary took the lead in reviewing at the meeting: "Old and young men, I’m still young, and I need your help. I made a mistake. No, everyone raised it and I will review it." The assault was not mentioned.
Later, people in the downtown found the village party secretary and admitted in person: "You are for the whole village, and I am for my own family. I was wrong, what did you say today? Listen to you."
The village party secretary knows how to retreat into this way of life. His patience and retreat are not cowardice, but a kind of strength.
On the surface, he gave in, but in fact he has taken a big step forward. Because of his open-mindedness and generosity,The villagers are convinced of him, and he will work in the village in the future, and the villagers will definitely support him with all his strength.
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, you may wish to be reasonable and forgiving. Save him some face, you let him go once,You may need him in the future.
Life is sea and ocean, but there will always be a period later, who knows what role this person will play in the second half of life?
Learn to play stupid, learn to endure, learn to give in, and hope you learn the wisdom of life.
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