text/source of Confucian style monarch/rufeng dajia (ID: rufengdajia)
The world has many praises for Yang Jiang: the most wise wife, the most talented girl, the best friend, the most kind mother ......
It can be said that she almost played the best style in the roles that fate entrusted to her.
Even in the era of the Republic of China, when talented people were born, few people could get high praise in marriage, character, and knowledge like Mr.
Here are 10 very classic sentences. Let us listen to Mr.'s life teachings.
"Take a good choice, don't choose a good way, you can have your true self."
The direction of your heart is always forward.
Wherever your heart is, your person should be wherever you are.
Only in this way can a person truly become himself.
"I pretended to be strong at the beginning, and then I was really strong."
No one is born strong.
In the suffering of the years, everyone has come step by step.
After more experience, people will become stronger a little bit.
"Only those who are humble have the most opportunity to see the truth of the world's human relations."
Great compassion and joy to see yourself clearly, and the ups and downs to see your friends.
Only when a person is at a low place can he see the person who is sincere to him.
Lu Yao knows horsepower, and it will see people's hearts over time.
time, will leave the most true people.
People who have experienced cold and warm in middle age must cherish those who are in trouble with you.
"When I was young, I thought it was not enough to understand life without reading,It wasn't until later that if you didn't understand life, you couldn't read books. The meaning of reading is probably to study with the feelings of life, and to live with the gains from reading.
The unity of knowledge and action.
Book and practice are one.
is just reading, and people will become idiots.
is only practice, people will not grow.
Really understand the world and life.
"There is no simple happiness in the world. Happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries, and there is no eternity in the world.
No matter how sweet the sugar is, it will have a bitter taste if you eat too much.
No matter how bitter the melon is, you can taste the fragrance if you eat too much.
Human perception is like a band, and it will fall off when you climb higher. When you fall down, you can climb up again.
So sadness is always mixed with joy, and joy is always mixed with sadness.
People who demand perfection are bound to be unable to be happy.
"I am just A drop of water, not soapy water, cannot blow bubbles.
The hype and fame are the most unbearable for Mr. Yang Jiang.
Living in simplicity, reading and writing, and no foreigners, people gain inner peace.
In this life, there is no need to live vigorously.
Peace, cleanliness, and a calm heart are the most beautiful scenery in life.
No matter which level of life you go up to, someone is looking up at you under the steps, and someone is looking down at you on the steps. You raise your head and feel low. Contentment, only by looking up can you see the true self.
Respect comes from self-respect.
A person who can see himself in the heart can be at ease.
You are different,But you are fine.
Don't need to look at other people's eyes, don't care about other people's eyes.
Only by accepting yourself can you live out yourself.
"The value of life is roughly determined by the domination of the soul over the flesh."
The soul and the body are not the same.
The soul is the enjoyment of the spirit. A book and a cup of tea, a breeze and a bright moon, are all at your fingertips.
The enjoyment of the flesh is a conquest of the material world.
If you are more, I will be less.
Therefore, if people want to be happy, they must control their flesh with spirit.
Focus on your own spiritual enjoyment in a space that does not need to compete with others.
Only in this way can one truly gain freedom and peace.
"I can see the smiling waves rolling in his belly through his belly."
Love is not a treat for dinner, but two people understand and fit each other.
Qian Zhongshu did not finish a sentence, Yang Jiang already knew the next sentence.
You know what I am thinking, and I also know what you are going to say.
This tacit understanding is the most beautiful scenery in love.
"Although people are small and life is short, they can learn, they can cultivate themselves, they can improve themselves, and the value of people lies in themselves."
Life is meaningless and has no purpose.
If you have to find one, it is better to perfect yourself.
In the days of decades, do your best to cultivate yourself into a person who satisfies yourself.
Maybe, this is the greatness of man.
Author: Jun Feng.Source: Rufeng Dajia (ID: rufengdajia), who pays attention to Confucianism and understands Chinese culture.
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