Asking humbly for advice is a shortcut to shorten interpersonal relationships,

Always maintain an attitude of humbly asking for advice, in order to learn continuously, continuous progress, the greatest benefit of humbly asking for advice, by learning the knowledge and experience of others, you can greatly reduce the chance of making mistakes and shorten the exploration time. In order to embark on the road of success faster. 2 A person who has a deep knowledge of Buddhism looked down upon him when he visited an apprentice who was a senior monk and an old Zen master. I thought to myself, my Buddhism is very deep, how old are you, and then the old Zen master came out and received him very respectfully. He poured tea for him personally, but the cup was full when he poured it. The old Zen master kept pouring, and he asked him very suspiciously, why the glass was full, why he was still pouring water. The old Zen master replied, yes, why do you pour it if it is full? 3 What the old Zen master meant! ! Since you already have a deep knowledge of Buddhism, why do you still ask me for advice? This is the origin of the {empty cup mentality} that we often say, and it leads to the premise of doing things with a good mentality. If you want to learn more, you must first imagine yourself as an empty cup instead of being arrogant and arrogant. . 4 If you enter an unfamiliar environment, there must be a lot of things you don't understand. At this time, you should be open-minded to ask for advice. When asking questions, you should look at the phenomena of the surrounding characters and use your brain. When asking others, you must take an humbly attitude, because when you ask, you are also communicating with your colleagues to increase your affection. This is the process of communicating with people, not just the process of getting answers. 5 Being humble is a low profile. , Can win the trust and support of others, so as to achieve the basis of cooperation, the modest people who don't understand, show off themselves to win people, can only make enemies everywhere and be passive at every step.