Every betrayed person will be embroiled in pain, despair, confusion and other bad emotions at the beginning of the betrayal. There is also a strong emotion that makes them want to stop-unwilling.
Unwilling emotions will make them unable to help but pay attention to the person and the third party who betrayed her (him), (the same is true for men, but they will not express it easily.)
, especially women After encountering a betrayal, you clearly know that you should sort out your emotions, improve yourself, and live your own life well is the kingly way!
But many times, especially when I have free time, I can’t help but think, is the person who betrayed and abandoned the family is now happily with a third party? Are they very happy?
and then Will curse them angrily, and wonder why it's not clear that they did something wrong, and why are they suffering?
These negative emotions will instantly pull people into the boundless and suffocating darkness. They will chew on themselves from time to time and involve the wounds, so that they will not be able to heal.
Actually, we should not let ourselves sink. First of all, we must understand that whether we are willing or not, we cannot change the status quo of betrayers and third parties.
However, if these emotions linger for a long time, they will reverse and destroy your health, from the mind to the body, completely destroying you!
After all, unwilling emotions hurt me, but it is useless to betrayers and third parties.
Actually,There is no need to be reconciled. Betrayers and third parties will most likely not be happy, because all third parties who destroy other people's families will bite themselves back when they are in power, without exception!
One: She knows the character of the person who betrayed the family because of her, she would think, since she can betray her original partner, she will also betray herself because of another woman.
Especially after the third party is in power, this kind of suspicion will make her more anxious, and this kind of anxiety will make her suffer from gains and losses, unable to live with each other normally, and not get inner peace. There is no sense of security.
2: The betrayer will feel guilty after abandoning the original match, and will compare the third party with the original match in his heart, especially after the third party is in position, I feel even more sorry for the original match.
And this kind of emotion will inevitably be expressed in various ways. No matter how you cover up the third party, you will feel it. If you feel it, you will feel uncomfortable.
She often wonders if the other party thinks of her ex-wife again. When the other party is playing on the phone, she will be suspicious whether she is in contact with her ex-wife.
When the other party visits the child, she will brainstorm the scene where the other party is happy with the ex-wife and the child, and will be more worried about the renewed relationship between the other party and the ex-wife.
All of the above will cause the third party to be extremely unhappy, and then cause her mood swings, which will definitely destroy her health in the long run!
3: The reason why the third party can let the man betray the family for her is usually based on the freshness.The most fatal weakness of the freshness thing is that the shelf life is too short.
Everyone knows that children will love them when they see new toys, but even the best toys will not be enough for a few days.
Similarly, the attraction of third parties to betrayers will not last long.
Especially after they entered their marriage, the previous wind and snow were replaced by the trivial reality of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, and the freshness quickly disappeared.
plus the predecessor's children may need to be involved from time to time.
All kinds of cumbersomeness are likely to be unsettled and one after another. In this case, how many men can always be in the mood to coax the third party as they did when they cheated?
followed His absent-mindedness will make the third party wonder: Does he like others again? Does he not love me anymore? Does he miss his predecessor?
Then all kinds of uneasiness and all kinds of work, so it is inevitable that the guns will rise.
4: When the third party and the betrayer are together at the beginning, there are more or less acting elements, at least one of them is like this, or at most it is different in the depth of the play. .
As for the true love in their mouths, it is just a fig leaf to cover up their selfish desires.
When there is no hindrance to being together, once the irritation is gone, they will get tired, and they will inevitably remove their masks when they are tired.
At this moment, one is ruthless and unrighteous who can abandon his family,One is that there is no shame in selfishness and selfishness to get involved in what other families want for nothing.
The eyes are facing each other, and they clearly understand what the other party is, and look down on each other, each have a ghost, how much happiness can there be!
Five: If the person who betrays the family is very capable, the third party will always be wary of someone who swindles her spoils like her.
If the betrayer is not a very capable person, he will definitely suffer financial losses if he leaves his original family.
If you are unable to make a comeback, you will not be able to give the third party material enjoyment. The disappointment of the third party will definitely be expressed, and then the betrayer will also feel resentment.
No matter which situation is the fuse of the conflict.
Six: Men, this species, cause them to lose interest in the prey they get.
The treatment enjoyed by the third party will not last forever, and the gap will make the third party extremely uncomfortable, so that she is depressed or even frantic and furious.
Conclusion: Many things in real life are destined to fail to satisfy the third party and the betrayer.
also has many, many uncertainties that will make them lose all the games.
But the above six situations alone are enough to make them mess around!
So,Instead of staring nervously at the person who betrayed him and the third party, it is better to clean up your mood, set off quickly, and work hard to open up your own new world.
Live every day seriously. You will find that life is wonderful!
And the third party and the betrayer will definitely be in a panic and jump, because this is their inevitable number!
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