Speaking of bridesmaid, for our male compatriots, it is a topic of immediate nervousness, especially now that the ratio of male to female is seriously imbalanced, it makes many of our male compatriots dare not even think about family and marriage. Although the country and society have repeatedly emphasized the removal of the bad habits of high beauties, due to the particularity and concealment of the beauties, the effect is still small. Nowadays, the problem of the beauties is still a hindrance for many male compatriots to start a family, and even many men should bankrupt their families and change their wives or spend their lives. The bachelor’s real measurement shows that the bride price issue has affected the marriages of many men and women of school age to a certain extent.
In fact, the most important thing to talk about the bridegroom is the mother-in-law. For girls, some girls may have requirements, but if the relationship is already good, most men can persuade them. For the woman, the most difficult thing is the mother-in-law. Many friends have been blocked in this position, so is there any good way to stop the mother-in-law’s mouth? In fact, there are many ways. First of all, we must understand that our country promotes freedom of marriage, and the country does not support the custom of high beauties. As long as the two are happy and reach the legal age, they will not violate ethics and morals. Support is supported by the law, so as long as we understand this and want to stop the mother-in-law’s mouth, there will be more methods. Let’s take a look at those methods in the past and they are still applicable today.
First: cut first and then play
This trick naturally has two conditions first. This first requires a cheeky, not to mention being cheeky sometimes. The use of money, especially in sales, really plays a very important role. In marriage, it also has a lot of effects. If it is too shy and not handsome or tall, and there is no female upside down, then it is true. Lost on the face.
After having a cheeky,Naturally, the "husband and wife" should be in the same heart. Since they are stuck in the bride price, they are considered to be quasi-couples. Therefore, at this time, they must not disagree. If you want to unite the front, you must first speak with each other. If you can convince the mother-in-law, it is naturally the best. Yes, but if the oil and salt don't get in, you can only cut it first and play it later.
The method is that the husband and the child come out, and then take the child to call the grandmother. As for the man, in the words of our rural people, it is called raw rice and cooked rice. Your grandmother recognizes it. If you don’t recognize it, you have to recognize it. Anyway, you’re already an elder. It’s okay for an elder to educate the younger generation. You can yell and curse casually. Anyway, there is no bride price. As long as the husband and wife are in the same heart, the mother-in-law will not shut up for a whole life. .
Second: more patience
This kind of man who is more suitable for tame, looks obedient, says anything, can agree to everything, what can be done, what can’t be done, all Promise it, or if you have a scheming, slowly grinding. Since there is no bride price for not allowing marriage, then fall in love. From the age of 18 to 28, see if the mother-in-law does not let go. If she is 28, then she will not let go. Plus 5 years, in fact, many mothers-in-laws can hardly wait until they are 28 to shut up, because women are still very worried when they are close to 30 years old. never mind.
Third: The woman goes out
Actually speaking of the issue of bridesmaids, as long as the wife does not participate and even prevents it, the mother-in-law cannot succeed. It’s the easiest way to convince the mother-in-law. For the bride price,If it is returned to the man and the woman, the general problem is not big, the big one is that the bride price finally entered the mother-in-law's pockets.
Of course, mother-in-law is also a mother, and usually doesn’t use much money by herself. Naturally, this is not ruled out. No matter which kind, it can be persuaded. After asking for a wedding gift, the newlyweds have nothing like this. In fact, as a future family, after the husband is ruined, his life will not be easy in the future, so at this time the woman should bravely stand up and refuse, and clearly tell the mother-in-law. This has nothing to do with the transaction. After taking so much money to support the younger brother, it is still to satisfy her vanity, move with affection, understand reason, as long as the daughter persists, it is after all the meat that fell from the mother-in-law. It doesn't make sense.
Actually, it is impossible to say that the problem of the bride price lies entirely with the mother-in-law. Generally speaking, because the bride price is awkward, it is mostly because the woman also supports the high-stakes gift. If the man has such financial strength, It doesn't matter, but if the man really doesn't have the financial strength, the woman still insists on it, even using the bride price as a bargaining chip for marriage. Will such a marriage be happy even if it gets married?
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