Do you envy the love of a couple for life?
In the past, the carriage was slow, and one heart could only accommodate one person, but now everyone seems to be your passerby. It is not that love is too heavy, and love with bread is not necessarily long. As long as they have had it, they are precious, because they have the courage to go for love, and they also have the freedom to not be forced or entangled.
Each generation has the characteristics of each generation. Their love has changed from being accused to freedom, from implicit to straightforward, and from passive to active. Let’s take a look at the post-70s, post-80s, The post-90s and post-00s generations have changed their outlook on love.
01 How can you not love someone who has been with you all your life?
The love between the 60s and 70s is contained inside but not visible. If you catch a lot of them, they are honest people. As long as girls marry a good person, they will be happy. They believe that everybody is right and obey their parents' orders, because their parents are the best. Some couples have never even looked at each other before marriage. Most of them are married first and love later, and divorces are rare. Even if it's not pleasing to the other person, noisy and noisy can still live a lifetime. Their lives are very simple. It seems that they can only accompany one person in a simple life. A piece of paper and one name can tie two people and a family together.
"Old Xu, you want your wife not", this sentence was caught in the short video, I also ran to enjoy the love story of Li Xiuzhi and Xu Lingjun in " Wrangler ",If you put it now, it is simply the best in the world, but you can't find it. If you meet it, it will last a lifetime. There are still very few people who have this kind of courage. The less they are, the more precious.
Xiuji's happiness is simple, because you are a good person, so meeting you is my luck. If you are rich, I don’t think you are poor. As long as you don’t abandon, I am willing to create and run a good family with you. If you marry a wife, what a husband can do. And Xiuzhi's sudden intrusion was also Xu Lingjun's light. Two kind-hearted people got together, dressed up the family with their hands, and changed their lives with energy. How could they be unhappy?
At the end of the film, Xu Lingjun’s monologue accurately reflects the firmness of that era. He said, “Sometimes, feelings are the foundation of faith. Here is the land I have soaked in sweat, and here are my relatives and friends who share weal and woe. With my wife who is in love with each other, here is the root of my life." This sentence deeply touched me. The faith and firmness of that era were very powerful.
When I was young, my father used to say that no matter how high or far you go, you grew up here, your roots are here, and you have to come back when you are old. It's like Even if you are a kite, no matter how far you fly, as long as the line is still in my hands, you will not go far .
02 They have persistent beliefs and unruly styles
The love of the 80s generations, _strong4 , since the beginning of their freedom, they are not confined to form. Change,Letting the public tolerate love is also changing. When dealing with love, although they have the determination and belief to carry out a relationship to the end, they do not insist on inappropriate feelings. The reason for the change in concept is because they are becoming more and more independent.
The concept of love has gradually undergone a qualitative change in the 1980s. More and more people choose to go out, to fight for a vast world, to walk wider, to see more people, and to accept. They dare to dare to fight, advocate the freedom of love, and the initiative in love has been slowly transferred to the hands of the younger generation.
03 The most characteristic label generation
Love after 90s, is like a tornado. It comes and goes fast. Some people say that the daily life of the post-90s belongs to the fast food era. This evaluation is very true. Our country continues to develop, and most people can move towards a well-off society. Our fathers, who polished society so well, have also created a group of "rich second generations, official second generations, and star second generations." The characteristics of our post-90s are far more than these.
After our needs were met, the direction of thinking began to shift. Various labels such as "open, independent, non-mainstream, leftover men, and leftover women" have also been posted on the Internet. Frankly speaking, if feasting is hard to resist, material pursuits will be added, and love will be mixed with a little impurity. Love at first sight and long-term love strengthens love at the same time, it is also easy to be misunderstood. It looks like "If you don't love me, I will change another" attitude, but in fact, they are more sober. Life is so short and inappropriate. Will not waste their time.
Although the post-90s and post-70s and post-80s seem a bit protracted in marriage, we also want to do our best to control the country’s population. We would rather have high-quality singles than low-quality love, but What is our pursuit?
04 The first generation of broken shells in the 21st century
00, as the new youth of the early 21st century, Under the influence of more and more diversified cultures, young bodies need to accommodate more aesthetics, views of right and wrong, and values with the progress and development of society. In the overall leadership of the parents, they are also actively looking for their own way of life and love.
Although they are young, some people after 00 are more anxious. Are you afraid that the label of "leftover men and women" will be transferred to them? However, their concept of love is still being formed, so let's look at it with an attitude of belief and tolerance.
05 The transformation of the concept of love is also a derivative of the development of the times
The formation of the concept of love in an era, the social environment, economic background, family education, and their family Ability is inextricably linked.
In the fast-paced era, faster is not only speed, but also impetuous people. People are doing things faster. One advantage is that you have more time to do more things, or more Take a lot of rest, but what the result is, you either focus more on getting things done well, or finish them at normal speed and low quality.
For example: you are watching a video, it takes an hour for normal speed, and only 40 minutes for 1.5x speed, which can save 20 minutes to do other things. In these 20 minutes, you can eat a meal, read an essay, write an email, or take a nap.
Nowadays, seeing more of the prosperity of the world, and seeing more people of all kinds, do you also want to return to the basics and cleanse your soul? Actually,It’s okay to slow down occasionally. There is only one time in the world. Smart people are enjoying life, so why bother to make yourself unhappy.
Our older generations don’t eat food, movies, video games, or work overtime every day. They work alone and the whole family is not hungry. If they travel far away, they’re just traveling. They don’t have money but they’re happy. It is also good not to mention the RV, not to compare with the rich and the poor, and to enjoy a slow life in labor.
hope that everyone can live in the present, enjoy life and happiness, and use their energy balls to drive family and friends.
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