The 35-year-old's various remarks are very raging. It seems that when 35-year-old doesn't understand it, you really don't understand it. 35-year-old is actually a physical and psychological double hurdle that no one can get around. It is also the time to find your own exit in the next stage of life. It is very entangled and will encounter various problems, and even some problems are entangled with another problem like a nine-link chain that cannot be solved. The more anxious you are, the more you cannot solve it. At this stage, I’m always trying to shake hands with myself...
Have you tried to make some changes recently, it’s actually the process of accepting yourself...
Have you repeatedly wanted to "pick up" the starting point recently What, such as reading books, skills that have been in the dust for many years, sitting still, making tea, etc., can you still calm down and stick to it...
Have you recently checked your mobile phone usage status and what APP is occupying you every day? A lot of time...
Have you checked your savings recently and can't stand the speculation...
How long has it been since I went out to dinner, drink wine, sing a song, and chat with my three or five friends? Meeting days...maybe looking at the hundreds or thousands of contacts stored in the phone for more than ten years, but dialing a call...
You, who was not drunk and talked a lot before, since when did you bring it? Masks, a few cups, can't afford to support the table, babble...
Sometimes I feel that I have lost my social skills, speaking skills, and unknown in the workplace...
0 _p2 The thing is that there are too many times when you need to make you really feel that you are 35 years old. You are really different from before. You need to do something to let your body and brain accept yourself. At 35 years old, you just press pause again and press again. The short interval of the next startup:
1. Ten million troubles, it is no longer suitable for you at the age of 35
Many stupid things are the result of random thoughts, and the 35-year-old life stage is already sitting in the middle of the position, meaningless In fact, the cranky thinking is no longer suitable for us at this stage.Don't look back. It’s time to think about the problem with the idea of a real adult, and clear out the unnecessary, unrealistic, and meaningless troubles as soon as possible. A brief emptying may be more useful at this stage...
2. Work hard Accept your own body and protect your health
If your body's BMI index is normal, then congratulations, if you do not meet the standard or exceed the standard, then you must pay attention, no matter how much you don't want to move, You must also force yourself to walk and move. The sickness comes like a mountain. Don’t force your body to perform extreme sports at this age. Accept the fact that it’s not as good as before. Regular physical examinations and proper insurance are also a must Less, in short, health is the most important...
3. Gradually put down the phone and raise your head to communicate
Gradually learn to put down the phone, leave the screen, raise your head, and go out, even if you are sitting on the side of the road and watching the pedestrians , Look at the lake, look at the fallen leaves, go to the vegetable market to bargain, chat with the taxi driver, take some time to get on the subway, or drive your own car to go farther...
4. Gradually and gradually Reconciliation between relatives and family members
At 35 years old, most people should already have a family and have children. At home, they must gradually reconcile with their relatives and family. Bring the negative state back home, learn to get along with your children, and accept the imperfections of your family and children, and return to life; if you have not yet married, please accept your current state and return to your heart.
5. Gradually break away from the environment of and . The torrent of
era seems unstoppable. It always feels like if you don’t do it or roll it, you will be out. I even feel it is now In the larger environment of involution, "anti-involution" and "simple life" should be advocated. Gradually calm your heart and live your true self.
How do you say 35 years old? Not so young, but still far from the old word, we still have to move forward steadily. This article commemorates the coming and coming 35 years old.
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