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There are many people who have trouble with Qiao Qiqi, as the youngest child of Qiao’s family, but they were not fostered by Qiao’s aunt. Pain, no mother’s love, eldest brother still hates him, only cousin Qi Weimin dotes on him, various reasons cause him to be timid, cowardly, uneasy, very low sense of presence, coupled with poor academic performance, married and had children early, and lived well. It's a mess.
The main reason why Qiqi’s character is like this is that he is ignored, which leads to his lack of love. It is hard for someone to treat him well, but blindly doting on him, making him weak, incompetent, good In the end he finally grew up.
1. Like a superfluous person
Dad Qiao Zu hopes that the youngest child at the table just doesn’t like his name at all. No one took him, so I tried every means to put him in the second aunt's house for eight yuan a month. After all, he is not his own, and the second aunt is not particularly concerned about Qiqi, only his cousin Qi Weimin is kind to him and likes to take care of him.
When Qiqi was still in her mother's belly, the eldest brother Qiao Yicheng didn't like it very much, because she would divide the love she had for him. Unexpectedly, because of this child, his mother was gone, and Yicheng hated him. There is a sentence in the original book: "Qiao Yicheng looked at this little thing in disgust, and the hatred in his heart beats like a heart. There is a bad rabbit."
Coupled with the gossip of the people around him, he was extremely frightened and determined that Qiqi was not a child of the Qiao family. Therefore, he cared very much for his other younger siblings, but he would not take the initiative to care about Qiqi.
Although the other brothers and sisters of Qiao’s family lived very tightly, but at any rate, they were together, and there was nothing they could bear together, and Qiqi had a problem with his legs, and the living expenses were not enough to see a doctor, as a last resort. The second aunt left him at Qiao's house. Fortunately, Qi Weimin had been thinking about Qiqi's legs and took him to see an old orthopedic doctor. Qiqi only recovered.
At the second aunt’s house, Qi Weimin’s younger siblings don’t like Qiqi very much because he dominates his eldest brother. When Qi Weimin is not at home, he will probably not have a very happy life.
About ten years old, the second uncle has already passed away, the second aunt has found a man and moved out, Qi Weimin is busy at work, and the second child of the Qi family often does not come back. The younger sister Qi Xiaoya lives in school. In the dormitory, there were only Qiqi in the entire Qi family. He had been waiting for Brother, very scared, he had to turn on the light to be at ease, and he had no friends and became very silent.
Qiqi was not raised in Qiao’s parents, but like a superfluous person in Qi’s family. It is undoubtedly lack of love when he was young and grew up in such an environment, and lack of love in childhood will give his children His psychology caused harm and affected his life.
2. Spoiling is not good for him
Seven or seven is called his cousin Qi Weimin and he is very dependent on him.
Qi Weimin also likes Qiqi very much,To what extent I like it, in order to take care of Qiao Qiqi, the university is reported to the city. Although he is the local champion, he can easily get on Peking University .
Qiao Yicheng was shocked, moved, and disdainful, thinking that Qi Weimin shouldn't be like this, but Qi Weimin thought that Qiqi was his younger brother, and he couldn't bear to be too far away from him.
In grade 777, I couldn't concentrate in class and had poor grades. The teacher couldn't simply leave it alone. Qi Weimin was very anxious and helped him with his homework, but it still didn't work. No way, Qi Weimin went to beg an old classmate and transferred Qiqi to the Provincial Experimental Primary School. Qi Weimin was very happy, but it was a nightmare for Qiqi.
His grades were very poor. The teacher didn't like him, so he appointed a boy to help him. The boy also saw him as unpleasant and bullied him. Unexpectedly, after the test, the grade of 77 dragged down the whole class and was bullied.
didn't dare to tell my elder brother, let alone tell the teacher, that Qiqi was timid, and this time directly caused him to be inseparable from Qi Weimin, and his results were also a complete failure.
But Qi Weimin didn't care, and even his mother couldn't persuade him. It happened that Qi Qi heard their conversation, fearing that Qi Qi was sad, Qi Weimin simply asked for leave to accompany him and did not let go. After that, Qiqi was afraid of going to school, afraid of exams, and most afraid of elder brother not wanting him. It wasn't until Chang Xingyu's sister became the head teacher and found out other students' small actions that Qiqi was less self-enclosed.
barely entered junior high school, but his grades were still a mess. Chang Xingyu discovered the problem, Qi Weimin said that he had protected Qiqi too well, but Qi Weimin still didn't care.
may be due to Qi Weimin's character. He feels very distressed for Qiqi without a mother. It is the lamp in Qiao Qiqi's heart that can dispel darkness and bring a sense of security.
However, Qiqi was extremely cowardly, lacking the ability to be independent, and he was naturally dull. The more Qi Weimin values his academic performance, the more counterproductive it is. Transferring is the best example. On the contrary, Qiqi suffers The injury made him slightly autistic in , more silent, and did not like to communicate with others.
I have to say that Qi Weimin is blindly fond of Qiqi, but he tried to be nice to him but used the wrong method. Qiqi was also used to his way, and kept asking for love.
3. I don’t understand love, but I am confused and get married and have a daughter
Qi Min has graduated from junior high school, but Qi Min has not been admitted to high school at this time. Qiqi was very reluctant to stay in a poverty-stricken area for 3 years, but had no choice but to send him away in tears.
After Qi Weimin left, Chang Xingyu was in poor health and Qiqi was ignored again. In the evening school, Qiqi looks good and has a melancholy temperament, which provokes Yang Lingzi, the class flower.
So the problem is coming. Maybe it’s youth ignorance, maybe it’s other reasons. The two have a relationship, which causes Yang Lingzi to become pregnant. Joe had to get married when he was seventy-nine years old. He likes to be a father.
are two children,Of course he wouldn't take care of little babies. Yang Lingzi didn't care about the children and often played until midnight before returning home. Qiqi didn't even dare to hold the children, only entrusted to Yang Lingzi's mother.
There is a sentence in the original work that clarifies the relationship between Qiqi and Yang Lingzi: Yang Lingzi is a big whale, and Qiao Qiqi is just a pool of shallow water.
Because Yang Lingzi only cares about whether he is having fun, no matter the child, Qiao Qiqi has only oneself, the daughter is sick, and ran to the hospital with her daughter at 11 o’clock in the evening. Described like this: "In the illusion of July 7th, I feel that this road seems to be endless for a lifetime, and I feel like there is a big pu fan in my heart. "
Poor Qiqi still called Qi Weimin. Only then did Qi Weimin realize his mistake, but he still helped Qiqi overcome the difficulties as before, and gave Qiqi the money. gaming room.
After all, Yang Lingzi doesn’t like Qiqi. He hates Qiqi for nothing. He can’t do well with meals and housework. He hates himself for marrying the wrong person. It's been enough for so many years. So, I went to Shanghai to study beauty salons alone.
So far, Qiqi’s life has always been carried forward. He has no ideas of his own, and is too dependent on Qi Weimin.
So, I feel sorry for his experience, but he is still young and must learn to grow up. It is impossible to hide under the wings of Qi Weimin for the rest of his life, let alone whether he can support himself,He also has a daughter.
4. Fortunately he has grown up
Some of the later things are enough to show that Qiqi is learning to grow up.
Qi Chenggang was quarantined, Qiao's family gathered in the old house, Qiqi came home at this time, although very cramped, the courage is still small, but at least this step has been taken.
After that, the whole street was blocked, and Qiqi stayed in the old house. I knew that eldest brother Joe would not wait to see him, so he kept avoiding him, reducing the sense of existence, but compared with before, the relationship was slightly relaxed too much.
In 2007, Yang Lingzi could not be reached, and she left Qiqi completely. Qiqi finally realized his incompetence and asked Qi Weimin to leave it alone. No matter how difficult it is, he will continue. Qiqi decided not to divorce Yang Lingzi, but to raise her parents instead.
Old man Qiao is sick, and Qiqi basically visits him every day. Fortunately, Old man Qiao has a conscience and feels that he owes him a lot and wants to leave the old house to Qiqi. Old man Qiao still left and committed suicide. Qiqi cried so much that he couldn't help himself. At this time, Yicheng realized that he had been wrong for thirty years, and Qiqi had always been his own brother.
After 10% got kidney disease, it was very serious, only Qiqi was matched successfully, Qiqi decided to donate one to 10%, maybe out of guilt, I was rejected by 10%, and finally 70% persuaded 10%, surgery very successful.
Joe Qiqi, who is 30,Finally grew up slowly, became a master for himself, and Qi Weimin also said thank you, no longer a coward who cried at every turn.
He began to blend in with his relatives, knowing how to give love, no longer just asking for love, what is his future, don’t worry, he will eventually grow into a real man.
Because at the end of the original book, he said a sentence: Brother, open the window, maybe happiness will come in. After that, he got up and opened the window.
Concluding remarks
Children who lacked love when they were young will only ask for love from others and don't understand love. It is not easy to grow up like Qiqi.
But everyone should not be like him and get confused with others.
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Live, think, feel. The world is so big, thank you for meeting you!
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