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Love is like knitting a sweater. It takes one stitch and one thread when it is established. It takes a lot of hard work. When it is dismantled, it only needs to be released and gently pulled, and the once favorite becomes the most familiar Stranger. The thread of this sweater is dragged in the hands of two people. Happiness or pain is often just in the middle of a thought.
So, love is true love when you love it, but once you don’t love it, turning your face will be very ruthless. How many people’s emotions change because of love.
When you are happy, it is because of this person. When you are unhappy, it is because of this person.
Under this situation, I hope you can understand that love, in fact, is a very small part of your life. You can't just catch everything because of love.
If you love someone again, don't be foolish for this man. No one in this world deserves you to do this for him.
When you catch up with all of you for a person, you will find that in the end, you are not even like yourself anymore.
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Don't give up your career for a man
In a relationship, no matter how much you love someone, don't give up your own career for this man. Career is your lifelong support , But a man is not, maybe he loves you very much now, but after a while, he will not love you.
When you give up your career for a man, you will find that when you this man leaves you, you will have nothing.
In relationships, girls must not fall in love with their brains. At any time, you must know how to improve your own value, and only when you improve your value will you occupy a higher position in this relationship.
Mei Ting once said: Love and career are very important to me.But for career, you will reap and have good results if you pay; but for love, it is not necessarily, sometimes even if you pay a lot, you will not get much.
Therefore, in the face of this situation, we also hope that we can understand: Career is our amulet, and with career, you can grasp love.
Without a career, the man you love will leave you sooner or later.
Don't give up dreams for men
In a relationship, girls must never lose their dreams, don't let go of the attachments in their hearts, those who have dreams are the most confident. The most charming.
Be the best yourself and become the woman you admire.
But in real life, there are many women who will give up their dreams for a man. You are very wrong to do so.
Even if you love deeply, only a woman with a dream can live a wonderful life.
When a woman has no dreams, it is like a walking dead. No matter what a man says, you will only follow what he says, because you have no financial ability and no ability to make money, so you can only live by looking at his face.
In a relationship, girls, don't live so wronged, don't live so useless, you have to know that many directions in your life are in your own hands.
When you are good enough, then you can take the initiative in a relationship. Otherwise, you will only be controlled by the other party. At that time, your position in the relationship will be particularly passive.
Don't turn your face with your family for a man
At any time, you have to understand that family is the person in this world who understands us the most, loves us the most, and loves us the most.
If you like a man, but your family does not agree with you to associate with this man, in this case, many girls will give up their affection for love.
When you do this, you are very wrong. In this world, love is likely to undergo some changes, but family affection will never be.
Because blood relationship is inseparable, if you give up your relatives who are related to you for a relationship that may change, then when you are abandoned by this man, you can only cry.
Girls must be smart in their relationships. If a man tells you to turn your face against your family for him, then to some extent, you have to reflect on whether this man is the one worthy of your love. people.
A person who truly loves you will not let you give up everything for him, let alone for him to give up raising your parents for more than 20 years.
Girls must have the ability to discern in the relationship. You need to know what kind of person is good to you and what kind of person is bad to you. Only when you can understand this will you know what kind of person is best for you.
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Love, in each of our lives, plays a more important role. But for girls, you have to understand that besides love, you have other things.
If you ignore other people's feelings because of a relationship, or even fall into such a relationship that is not part of your mind, then in the end, the ending may be miserable.
Because there will be such a sentence in the relationship, the first emotional person will always lose miserably. If in a relationship, you are always paying, you are working hard, and the other party does not respond at all, in this case, I hope you can reflect on it.
Good feelings should go both ways. If you have been paying, you have been working hard, and the other party has no response, I hope you can think about it, what have you got in this relationship? What have you lost? For such a man,Is it worth all you give?
When you think about this point, you can make other decisions.
Today's topic:
In your relationship, what stupid have you made?
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